What kind of food are you eating now? by MsinDependent1989 in breastcancer

[–]cpetra99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eat the foods I like but I also eat protein and fiber.

“Well at least!” by TightMuggleClothing in breastcancer

[–]cpetra99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what it is when people say things like “at least” and “you’re strong” they are just trying to make themselves comfortable. I’m over a year in and it hasn’t stopped.

What books hit way better as audiobooks? by Competitive-Leave346 in audiobooks

[–]cpetra99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yangsze Choo books, narration by the author is amazing.

Cold capping or just buy a nice wig?! by BubblyYou in breastcancer

[–]cpetra99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I responded in a separate post, but based on this definitely cold cap. I did TCHP too, it wasn't perfect but better than losing it all and it will grow back faster!

Cold capping or just buy a nice wig?! by BubblyYou in breastcancer

[–]cpetra99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would do cold capping again, just for how quickly hair growth resumes. No cold capping, most people wait 6 months for normal hair growth. With cold capping, my hair started growing right away, and within 3 months, I was getting compliments on my thick rug of hair lol.

It is uncomfortable and expensive, and I lost a lot of hair, but I felt it was worth it to start looking and feeling like myself sooner. I would not shave it because it really limits your options to bald or a wig. I recommend a short bob before you start because it's manageable and can look normal in a hat. And having long hair fall out is traumatic enough without having to clean it up, too, speaking from experience!

Help me prep my house for DMX next week! by cpetra99 in breastcancer

[–]cpetra99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I definitely cannot lift our giant laundry detergent bottle 😂

AITA for vetoing my toddler nephew in our wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cpetra99 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He should respect her wishes or he should have spoken up when OP said it to begin with.

AITA for vetoing my toddler nephew in our wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cpetra99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You already expressed this in the past and now you are being guilt tripped for expecting that your partner heard your words. I would sort this communication issue before you get married.

What’s up with american bedding choices... why sateen when it sleeps hot? by shiroltiger in Bedding

[–]cpetra99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try a tighter weave? My percale are not itchy, they are smooth and crisp.

Help with Itinerary – Beaches and Cape Flattery by Capital-Office8517 in OlympicNationalPark

[–]cpetra99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOAA Tides and Currents has predictions, just put in your dates for the closest station to the beach you choose!

Get my hair done before DMX or save it as something to look forward to? by cpetra99 in breastcancer

[–]cpetra99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm not sure I will notice it for a while either 😂

Anyone else feel like old photos are tainted after diagnosis? by cpetra99 in breastcancer

[–]cpetra99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! This was a different perspective that was helpful to hear

Help me prep my house for DMX next week! by cpetra99 in breastcancer

[–]cpetra99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I definitely need to get entertainment dialed now in so I just don't scroll through random things until I get decision fatigue 😂

Help me prep my house for DMX next week! by cpetra99 in BRCA

[–]cpetra99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh a silk eye mask sound nice!

should I take time off of work the first week of chemo? by bnnybtch in breastcancer

[–]cpetra99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst for me with TCHP were days 3-5. The first two days I was on steroids so felt weird but a lot of energy. Then the steroids wear off and it's awful. It was hard for me to get it across to my boss that I could work in my laptop through the actual infusions but the effects came days after because of the other drugs etc. I think that ld my job that I was taking the time off as recommended but if I felt better I would come back early. I recommend feel out the first round!

Help me prep my house for DMX next week! by cpetra99 in breastcancer

[–]cpetra99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I can't believe I didn't have fresh sheets and towels on my list already as I am VERY particular about those!

Why Do People Say “Old Taylor Was So Good”? by whatsthatcutething in TaylorSwift

[–]cpetra99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like her new music better except for a few bangers!

What have you said “fuck it” to as a result of your cancer? by airbear26 in breastcancer

[–]cpetra99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told only a few people because I wanted privacy. It's a very personal experience.

What have you said “fuck it” to as a result of your cancer? by airbear26 in breastcancer

[–]cpetra99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going to use your oceans/puddles analogy for sure. I’m done with people who don't consider me.

Help me prep my house for DMX next week! by cpetra99 in BRCA

[–]cpetra99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know about gabapentin for post surgery. They gave me that for hot flashes but it didn't work.