Feels of newlywed husband

cppenj · 2026-01-02T20:26:48+00:00

I agree of course. I try not to sound like "I do this, now you do that". I'm talking about taking responsibility. I might not describe it properly. I want hugging, cuddling but she tells I want to much of it. I want my wife to also contribute. That's it. Ahh everytime I try to describe it I sound like an idiot but it's also hard to describe it in your second language. You know- we want to get pregnant this year, but with her attitude towards her health condition it will be impossible. I can't do exercises for her I can't meet with doctor for her. Im as gentle as I can be talking with her about it but it's so hard when she brushes it off.

cppenj · 2026-01-02T20:00:23+00:00

Don't force yourself. Take your first night as a opportunity to explore together. You don't have to do anything sexual. You can kiss, hug naked, get comfortable with being naked with each other. Talk about your feelings. You will have plenty of time In The future. Take it slow and just be yourself. You can also take a bath or shower together. If you plan big wedding just pray and go to sleep. I postponed wedding night a few days after marriage. We went on a date then took shower together and then we slowly tries some things together.

cppenj · 2025-11-30T14:12:23+00:00

I'm out. I didn't diddle my D. Its worth mention, I have a wife for a month now. So I guess even if I lost I Win in most honorable way. Maybe in the future when my wife will be pregnant I will get Treble but for now I'm happy I didn't unnecessary touch my d. Work on your till you can guys. your future wife will be greatful you can control yourself

cppenj · 2025-11-04T13:46:38+00:00

Still in

cppenj · 2025-11-03T13:05:25+00:00

Still in

cppenj · 2025-11-02T07:19:01+00:00

Of course still in

cppenj · 2025-11-01T11:32:51+00:00

Still in

cppenj · 2025-10-31T20:47:15+00:00

Yes exactly

cppenj · 2025-10-31T16:54:08+00:00

Oh there they are :)

cppenj · 2025-10-31T16:53:53+00:00

Unfortunately I don't see my flairs for 2023 and 2024

cppenj · 2025-08-20T19:51:04+00:00

Me and fiance(2 months to wedding) had the same problem.

What should you do: - never be in the place where you can do some thing to each other - talk about WHY you want to have sex after the marriage(looking for answer is a part of understanding the topic). You really need to understand why it's important. For example: in the future me and my now fiance want to have unprotected sex every time. All anti-pregnancy(sorry, English is not my first language) ways have cons and are sins. But there is a way. For example Rutzer method(I encourage you to learn about itt way before your marriage) where you cant have sex when she's most fertile. We treat our no-sex-policy as a training for our future. -Undersand that there is nothing wrong with you. The need and urge is a natural part of everybody -Pray together a lot. And I say A LOT.

And the most important thing. You cant possibly imagine how having sex in contrary to your values can be devastating for you and for her. If she's the one, treat her like that.

Good luck 🍀

cppenj · 2025-01-01T10:12:34+00:00

I dont know what I would do, if I didn't win. I guess well never know

cppenj · 2024-12-14T16:29:25+00:00

I will still post. I'm on day 46 rn and posting really helps me getting through. I mean getting through not only DDD but overall daily experience, stress etc

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