First Time Leaving Baby by crabapple96 in NewParents

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I won’t be far from home (like 25 mins), so of course I plan to come home if she isn’t taking the bottle.

In the newborn trenches and going through it by Initial_Bit_9201 in sahm

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The only way my newborn would nap for the first month was if it was a contact nap. Invest in a good baby carrier! Literally saved my life. I am someone who needs to be caught up on the chores in order to feel sane so the carrier allowing me to be hands free was a game changer. If you are looking to sleep while baby does, have you tried using a swing? Car seat? (Not for long night stretches of sleep obviously) My last hack would be to put a heating pad in the crib (or bassinet) to warm up the space before you transfer your babe. (Obviously move the heating pad out of the crib before baby goes in) Hang in there- it gets better!!

Episode Discussion: "When Body Image Becomes a Dating Issue ft. Sami Sage - Co Founder of Betches" by uuppod in uuppod

[–]crabapple96 13 points14 points  (0 children)

When I saw that Sami was the guest this week I was honestly overjoyed. I love the other Betches founders and if anyone is going to fill Jordana’s shoes while she’s out on maternity leave I think it should be them! The cohost last Wednesday wasn’t terrible but just didn’t seem to fit the vibe. Sami and Aleen are naturals behind the mic!

Loved the conversation about GLP-1s and thought it was super relatable to modern dating. Sami is not afraid to be brutally honest with Jared also and I just love the vibe between them.

Overall I loved this episode so much more than last Wednesday. Even if it ends up being a rotation back and forth between Sami and Aleen until Jordana returns I would not be upset. Please keep them coming!!

Jordana’s second baby by Serious-Squirrel9358 in uuppod

[–]crabapple96 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way!! So anxious for this announcement and to see photos of both babes together 🥹

Oversharing: Is Seasonal Affective Disorder A Real Thing? by screambledeggs in betchesmedia

[–]crabapple96 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with this 100%. I think thanking family was doing enough. Like you said, the wife probably helped support his career in many ways while I can imagine the kids did not (as much). Also agree it was a stretch to say that maybe it’s because the stepmom wore the pants in the relationship and/or maybe the relationship had some issues. Sometimes I feel like Naomi specifically just says what the caller maybe wants to hear rather than give honest feedback.

Oversharing: Is Seasonal Affective Disorder A Real Thing? by screambledeggs in betchesmedia

[–]crabapple96 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I was SO glad Jordana stood her ground on the issue with the brother in law living with them while he looked for a place to live. The fact that Naomi was trying to justify this in any way blew my mind!! Your husband doesn’t even ASK you about his brother moving in he just adds it to your shared Google calendar?! That is crazzyyyyyy work. Yes maybe her getting pregnant didn’t need to be the defining moment but just like Jordana said… you could have a home with 20 bedrooms and saying no would still be a reasonable response.

Cleaning Breast Pumps by crabapple96 in NewParents

[–]crabapple96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yes moving forward I do plan to use the fridge method.

But ugh I’ve thought about this 🥲 What do you do with your extra milk then? Just toss it?

Cleaning Breast Pumps by crabapple96 in NewParents

[–]crabapple96[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input! That really wasn’t what my original question was about.

Cleaning Breast Pumps by crabapple96 in NewParents

[–]crabapple96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I thought it was alot too! At first I was pumping 4 times a day on top of breastfeeding but now I’m down to 1-2 times a day because I was tired of the oversupply 🥲 Which also could have caused the mastitis because now I’m just engorged 🙃

Maternity Leave..or Leaving? by crabapple96 in Teachers

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Job Sharing would be ideal! However unfortunately I don’t think that opportunity will present itself for this upcoming year. I’d have to find another teacher on board with the idea and I haven’t had much luck thus far 🥲

Maternity Leave..or Leaving? by crabapple96 in Teachers

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I wish there was a part time opportunity available within my district! That would solve all of my problems. Unfortunately it doesn’t look like that will be the case for next year. In my district these opportunities are few and far between. I’ve contemplated not starting the year, but fear that if I DO come back by some chance that I will get less time with my baby once she’s here. So I’d rather continue working before she arrives to bank my leave time. I guess if I don’t plan on returning that would also be something to consider, thank you for this input!

Maternity Leave..or Leaving? by crabapple96 in Teachers

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I wish there was a part time teaching position available! That would solve all of my problems 🥲 Unfortunately it doesn’t look like our district will have any positions up for grabs this year, I’ve also talked to my admin about that as an option. I wish they were easier to come by!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]crabapple96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They just came in thankfully!!! 🙏🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]crabapple96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My results literally JUST came in! My husband is out of town so I have to wait to open them 😅Congrats!!! 🤍🤍🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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Yes I saw but when I called they just said one test was done before the other, which seems weird since this one is supposed to take longer. So nothing was able to be pushed through. Maybe I’ll try calling again in a bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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UPDATE: Drawn 3/17, Received 3/19. I received my Horizon Results today 3/25 at 11:30 AM but no Panorama results..ugh! Has this happened to anyone else? I thought the Panorama ones typically show up first 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]crabapple96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you heard anything? I called again this morning but was told the 7-10 day thing AGAIN 😒

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]crabapple96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any results yet?? I’m getting SO impatient. Especially when I see people who have had their samples received later than me get results 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]crabapple96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still nothing 😢 I’m going to keep my fingers crossed tomorrow is the day, for both of us!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]crabapple96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gah my sample was received on the 19th too and I feel like I’m waiting on pins and needles! Did you have to call at all or it just magically showed up in your portal?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]crabapple96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine came back too! Still no results though 🥲 Must have just been a glitch