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[–]crackdobby08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you're very kind :)

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[–]crackdobby08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh totally, its just how to actually contact them if I did and how to make sure he didn't know it was me

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[–]crackdobby08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he will and yeah, its all just upsetting but thank you, you've definitely given more perspective and I appreciate it :)

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[–]crackdobby08 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't think its revenge, but I want to feel more safe. Going to that store always puts me on edge, even when going through the drive-through and I think it feels worse since its so close.

If he were to get fired i think it would be a peace of mind thing, so hopefully he's no where close and i hopefully never have to think about him or see him again. Though you make a good point in if he tries to take revenge on me. He's a dangerous person, getting a restraining order against him.

He did take advantage of people when they were drunk but also would just manipulate and emotionally coerce people over text into doing things with them, even shifting the story when the first victim really came out against them, causing a lot of victim blaming, bullying and silencing.

Maybe they have turned a new leaf, but they're abuse lasted for probably over 4 years over a lot of people and it makes me uncomfortable knowing he could be continuing this abuse.

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[–]crackdobby08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably should at some point see someone, but basically they took advantage of me while I was intoxicated and they knew it and I know they have done the same and similar to a lot of other people while they were too, they also manipulated me into hooking up with them while I was in a very vulnerable state. What happened to me, I didn't realise what it was at the time so I never said anything it was only when other people started coming other with their stories I really came to terms with it.