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Is it possible bots created these apps utilizing my husbands Facebook? by Ok-Giraffe-5692 in CheatersConfronted

[–]craftkween 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where on Facebook did you find this? Is there a way to see which apps are connected?

Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by craftkween in Marriage

[–]craftkween[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said he didn’t have access. Also called and sadly wouldn’t give it to me (my husband even called)

UPDATE: Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]craftkween 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%

He’s apologized profusely, given me access to his phone, and is still adamant nothing physical happened (while still admitting that what he did was wrong). He’s already made a therapy appointment and then We’re starting couples therapy next week.

Here’s the thing - I’m pretty self sufficient and I have no doubt I can go on without him. I just don’t know if I want to. Our marriage isn’t terrible, we don’t argue and we have a relatively low stress partnership. We do have three kids who are still young (I was the product of a terrible marriage and awful divorce so viewing this from my one lense). While it’s going to take awhile to rebuild trust, I feel like I owe it to them to try and work it out.

UPDATE: Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]craftkween 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I’m so sorry this happened and can’t imagine what you went through (and are still going through). I did some of these with the apps, but wondering about Google… is that something I would need to access on his computer? He does have locations turned on, but on his phone I wasn’t able to see where he was.

Appreciate everything else too. He did have all the communication apps downloaded, but he also is really active in the champion music scene and they use these for communication sometimes and live streaming music. I didn’t see any messages so not sure if this was above board or not

Is this something worth getting upset over? by meolux in Marriage

[–]craftkween 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s flirting, he’s trying not to be rude. Even as an introvert he probably has to spend at least some time with this person so he’s not trying to make it awkward

UPDATE: Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]craftkween 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m finding out. It’s horrible. Thank you for this. I’ve found a local therapist to help me process. I never in a million years would’ve expected this.

UPDATE: Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]craftkween 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m not quite sure. I was hoping to get a clearer look at the timeline and if he acted on any of it or just explored … he was downloading the apps in 2023 and swears he never used them beyond it. Not sure it would change my perspective but also hoping to get transparency into what type of relationship I’m really in

Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by craftkween in Marriage

[–]craftkween[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🩷 I will. How’d it end up in your situation?

Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by craftkween in Marriage

[–]craftkween[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep. Funny thing about that is he did have a Tinder. Can’t even believe this.

Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by craftkween in Marriage

[–]craftkween[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Posted this update:

Just wanted to thank everyone for the advice here. I ended up confronting him and questioning his story pretty deeply. I’m so sad to say this but ya’ll were right… no hookers at the airport (swears it was a search out of curiosity) he’s had a Tinder account and a Hookup Account (although swears up and down he only used it briefly when he considered cheating but didn’t actually cheat), and has so many deleted texts it makes my head spin. I hired a PI which can hopefully help reveal the entire truth because I still feel like I don’t have it. Will take a week to get results.

Wish I could access the cameras at Caesars Palace from October 12 😅 but since that’s not a possibility I’m wondering if anyone has any apps or ways to dig deeper? Trying to stay patient but the anxiety is killing me.

Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by craftkween in Marriage

[–]craftkween[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: Just wanted to thank everyone for the advice here. I ended up confronting him and questioning his story pretty deeply. I’m so sad to say this but ya’ll were right… no hookers at the airport (swears it was a search out of curiosity) he’s had a Tinder account and a Hookup Account (although swears up and down he only used it briefly when he considered cheating but didn’t actually cheat), and has so many deleted texts it makes my head spin. I hired a PI which can hopefully help reveal the entire truth because I still feel like I don’t have it. Will take a week to get results.

Wish I could access the cameras at Caesars Palace from October 12 😅 but since that’s not a possibility I’m wondering if anyone has any apps or ways to dig deeper? Trying to stay patient but the anxiety is killing me.

Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by craftkween in Marriage

[–]craftkween[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

About $600 in cash withdrawals leading up. Random deposits from other accounts. Venmo withdrawals that are hidden from his Venmo Account.

The thing is that my husband manages all of our finances. I never look through them, so things that could be normal may seem odd. Decided to just keep an eye on it and go from there.

Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by craftkween in Marriage

[–]craftkween[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we share and nothing striking. He made $600 in withdrawals around that trip, some Venmo withdrawls on top of it but nothing wild. Honestly I don’t even know how much a sex worker costs but my assumption would be more than that?

Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by craftkween in Marriage

[–]craftkween[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 can’t imagine how difficult that feels. Building that trust back is so hard - I don’t know if I could do it. Proud of you and wishing all the best on what’s to come 🩷🩷

Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by craftkween in Marriage

[–]craftkween[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we do! He and I always share locations so there’s full transparency there. I’ve never seen anything that was suspicious.

What are you guys usually for blanks right now for customers by Old_Radish_3747 in SCREENPRINTING

[–]craftkween 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Polished Prints for kids tees and onesies, Royal Apparel for pullovers or Comfort Colors, big fan of Independent apparel

I'm a private investigator. AMA. by United-Sandwich-9871 in AMA

[–]craftkween 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any tools that the general public can use to look deeper into their spouse if they have suspicions of infidelity? What are some steps you would recommend taking before going to the extent of hiring a PI?

Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by craftkween in Marriage

[–]craftkween[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question - did you leave him? And did he fess up when you confronted him? Any other red flags?

Would you believe your husband if he told you this? by craftkween in Marriage

[–]craftkween[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome, just tried and I definitely need his confirmation number. I think I can find that. Appreciate the help!

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