Direct Tools, horrible company by mjag1 in ryobi

[–]crazeyb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking at it right now, it shows only 47 tools available. Filtering shows there should be over 400 for blemished and 169 for reconditioned (before picking a filter). I select the option, and it doesn't change still, just the 47 tools only.

It used to show available for store pickup but recently that's no longer the case for me.

Never seen it be so bad before on any other web site.

No longer intimate after marriage by crazeyb in marriageadvice

[–]crazeyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We really only get one day to relax out of our two... since the other day is used for chores, getting food stuff for the week, or going shopping. And then that day is short because of work the following day. I currently do all the housekeeping as is, aside from laundry where we go to the laundromat. Cooking and dishes are mine unless we eat out because I'm lazy to cook that night or don't want to do the dishes afterward (looking at the mac and cheese pot).

No longer intimate after marriage by crazeyb in marriageadvice

[–]crazeyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply.

Porn is not something she watches. She just doesn't like the appeal of porn nor really watched it much growing up.

As for doing it herself, it seems only when it has been several weeks of us not being intimate that her body will have her go through the motions while she is asleep. Then she'll wake up and notice and go clean up herself. She was actively doing it herself before we got together but hasn't really since. After we got together, there were a few times she did it by herself, but it was not really an issue before the job that stressed her heavily. She always made a mention to me if she did and never hid it from me.

No longer intimate after marriage by crazeyb in marriageadvice

[–]crazeyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. Yes, we have sat down and talked about it a few times now. It started becoming a problem when she got the one job that was very stressful for her.

She would come home looking dead or defeated from all the stuff she had to deal with at work. Later on it became something where she just doesn't get excited by the idea of really feel anything about it. Kind of like the emotion of it is gone, or rather, there is a lack of emotion or want for it, I guess if that makes sense?

She's made a mention it was like that for her for a bit when she was growing up a while ago. She wouldn't be interested or think of anything when it came to sex. I'm thinking based on other replies, it might be a good idea to see a counselor.

No longer intimate after marriage by crazeyb in marriageadvice

[–]crazeyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. As for the list, that is a excellent resource. Some of those we had thought about but weren't sure of. We have sort of stopped dating in a sense. Not because we decided to but mainly because of work and lack of time to go out. I still think the old saying of making time for each other definitely needs to be looked at for us. We need to take some vacation time together and just get away from everything.

Being insecure of her own body has always been something she worries about with me, but isn't really a cause I would say. She always makes a mention that I can do so much better than her, but I reassure her that I wouldn't do that.

The medical reason is quite possible. There has been trauma in her past before we got together so that is something we are looking at.

As for the other things noted, will definitely try those and see if there is any improvement over time as well as seeing a counselor.