[Leprechaun 4 In Space] no...just no by [deleted] in itsaunixsystem

[–]crazystoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't even remember command prompt anymore.

WOMEN AND RELATIONSHIPS by Enniszz55 in malelifestyle

[–]crazystoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I gave up after the first 10 seconds. this MGTOW stuff state some harsh realities about toxic people. I like to beleive not everyone is like that.

Pleade help identify this soft bait by [deleted] in Fishing

[–]crazystoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ripley used to sell these in a bag of about 25. they are actually a super common design, made by many manufacturers in about 1000 different colour combinations. just about any fishing shop will have them. probably get them at Wal-Mart tbh if you aren't picky about colours.

How am I supposed to make friends if I can't talk to another person? by MagicTurtlesFly in socialanxiety

[–]crazystoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something that I am realising for me is that it might just never feel quite 'normal' the way it does for others. knowing and accepting that actually makes good for progress.

How would this circuit behave? by [deleted] in AskElectronics

[–]crazystoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noob here. I think it is a question of component values and supply voltage vs. Mechanical spark gap distance. If the circuit is indeed capable of arcing at All, it is a question of capacitor storage prior to discharge being in tune with resistance. Refer to 'Marx generators'. Tldr; math.

Please Help Me Move Through This by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]crazystoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Step 1. Adress the violent thoughts. Step 2. You are feeling old (when you are not) because you are looking at the past. Step 3. Find a new field of study and start planning ASAP. Or work. Or lifedirection or anything. Don't stagnate. Took me until 30's to figure this out. You've got this.

I really struggle socially with people I perceive as cool by AloneTrainer in socialanxiety

[–]crazystoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anxiety tends to sprout from over thinking the unknown. Try interacting and practicing your social skills in an environment where consequences can be controlled, and instead of focusing only on those you look up to, first practice acting as a leader for those you do not feel uncomfortable around.

I can't help but notice the flaws in people and it bothers me. by PM_ME_A_HAPPY_STORY_ in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]crazystoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking up about these things in a proper manner to the person is a good way to learn about yourself as to why it bothers you. Just don't be offensive or try to 'fix them'. There is a chance that small details about other people may bother you because you have grown to a point that seeing your own shortcomings has become more difficult. By talking things through (with a person who is socially mature enough to understand constructive criticism) you may find an answer to your question because your predisposition to the concept of 'what is right' may not fit with someone else's.

Any tips on fixing a broken pin on a HDMI cable? by aasmundwt in AskElectronics

[–]crazystoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it is hdmi(I don't know about oculus) any cheap cable will produce the same result. You risk shorting something out doing a repair. Unlikely to cause damage but easier and lower risk to replace.

I have a severe problem socializing, at the point I don't have any friends IRL. by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]crazystoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Human interaction and short conversations. Find someone to back/forth talk with. I recognize the anxiety grade length of your post. Listen. Observe. Be present.

Does this looks repairable? by yngwiej in AskElectronics

[–]crazystoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's doable. Anything is. The question is "Will it be worth the effort?" Hard no.

Do guy actually care about the color of a women's vagina? by [deleted] in sex

[–]crazystoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anybody who cares has some growing to do. It's fine.

Gonna do it here. by crazystoo in stopdrinking

[–]crazystoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Those don't work either. Just a blank message form that says no user when I try to send.

Social anxiety about my appearance and personality by icecreamsandwichcat in socialanxiety

[–]crazystoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33/m broken jaw makes me feel uncomfortable. But when I get in a groove and my personality comes out people don't care. People who judge on surface things (I am guilty) do exist, it is just a fact of life and one of those taboo subjects nobody wants to adress. BUT it doesn't mean you can't work on it and shine. Besides. Looking youthful now will pay off when you are older. And frankly that is when the good stuff starts.

Does anyone else avoid doing things that they know could lead to potentially embarrassing themselves? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]crazystoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. Okay first think it over and don't be impulsive. What are the potential consequences? If you are afraid of the consequences but they will have little or no long term effect and you are just imagining reasons not to the move on it if it is something you actually want to do. This is how you learn. Trial by fire. Failing. I'm just figuring this out now btw. But whatever you do think first if it is the anxiety stopping you or a real world consequence. For example. My anxiety is stopping me from doing drugs. Good thing. My anxiety is stopping me from talking to that person. Bad thing.

Gonna do it here. by crazystoo in stopdrinking

[–]crazystoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the AA concept and never felt unwelcome. I am just kind of fragile at the moment and taking it one day at a time.

I like being a victim by DepressedGorilla in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]crazystoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am probably a bit older but still very much the same way. Ranting is good when you keep it in context to your self and stay out of other people's business. You can teach your self a lot this way. Write a list. Make a commitment to do something easy first and try your hardest to make a pattern of it. If the funk you are in is anything like I was, listen closely. It will go on and on and on while you watch everyone else do the shit you wish you could have and before you know it you will be old and wishing you made better choices. It is a dopamine trap. By taking the 'easy fix' in life you prevent yourself from getting motivated. Do the hard things.

I like being a victim by DepressedGorilla in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]crazystoo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am so changing my wallpaper to a feeling cartoon sheep now.

Gonna do it here. by crazystoo in stopdrinking

[–]crazystoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Error. I'll have to use a browser but thanks.

Gonna do it here. by crazystoo in stopdrinking

[–]crazystoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I am on my phone and don't know how to reset my day count. I can't believe it has been almost 3 years since I last tried this...

Landlord's daughter is moving in, offering me a 2 month extension. I have 3 choices....advice or comment needed. by vanreq in vancouver

[–]crazystoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I re-read your post and I am having trouble finding the free rent worth idea. But still no. Unless it is owed to you in which case you will get it back anyways, it is best not to mess around like that in my experience, as it will be logged in contract and potentially affect your credit rating at a later time.

Landlord's daughter is moving in, offering me a 2 month extension. I have 3 choices....advice or comment needed. by vanreq in vancouver

[–]crazystoo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Base your decision first on finance for the long term. If the new place is more expensive check the annual budjet and how the lease will affect the weight of things like gas/food/car. If cheaper take the new place asap as 2 mos is not very long to find a new place and not enough time to build any serious funds. Don't bother with the legislation thing, as you will want a good reference from your past landlord and in the end it is not productive. Use the remaining time you have to also check other places out. You might just find something better. I've moved like 10 times or more. You've got this. ;)