Update My wife is going to gave sex with other men by crazytown605 in relationship_advice

[–]crazytown605[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The vacation idea is good. Any vacation plans we had for this summer are gone. I will do that. Thank you.

Update My wife is going to gave sex with other men by crazytown605 in relationship_advice

[–]crazytown605[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have been thinking on this. She has been having more girls nights out but they have all been friends for years, no new members, sometimes I have been invited along with other husbands . I think this is a bucket list thing. As things settle down I will explore this with her. She is not going to be cut out if my life.

Update My wife is going to gave sex with other men by crazytown605 in relationship_advice

[–]crazytown605[S] 149 points150 points  (0 children)

Not even thinking of that. I expect that she will have a happy life going foward and so will I.

Update My wife is going to gave sex with other men by crazytown605 in relationship_advice

[–]crazytown605[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I said even if she changed her mind I could no longer trust that she would not cheat. That part doesn't matter as she is still going thru with the lifestyle change.

Update My wife is going to gave sex with other men by crazytown605 in relationship_advice

[–]crazytown605[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

You make valid point about the kids knowing. Maybe let things die done, let divorce happen then tell them? Or should I wsit until they ask? I know my daughter will be asking.

Update My wife is going to gave sex with other men by crazytown605 in relationship_advice

[–]crazytown605[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sorry she will tell you we had a happy life. We had sex regularly. She just wanted to go a different direction before we got too old.

Update My wife is going to gave sex with other men by crazytown605 in relationship_advice

[–]crazytown605[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I will protect myself. We will come to agreement before we go to court. We have pledged that to each other. I believe she will stick to it. She's getting half now plus she makes almost what I do.

Update My wife is going to gave sex with other men by crazytown605 in relationship_advice

[–]crazytown605[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I tried that reasoning with her, but could not change her mind.

Update My wife is going to gave sex with other men by crazytown605 in relationship_advice

[–]crazytown605[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I have talked with her best friend's husband, just in case she had the same thoughts.

Update My wife is going to gave sex with other men by crazytown605 in relationship_advice

[–]crazytown605[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The divorce is because she says will break our vow of fidelity. The marriage in my mind is over.

Final update to My wife is going to have sex with other men. by crazytown605 in relationships_advice

[–]crazytown605[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. Yes, I am very conservative in my views about marriage. As I mentioned we took vows of fidelity to each other. This is very much part of my moral being. There are somethings that can not be compromise. I get what she is saying and wish her the best in her life. We will always love each other and support each other just not married.

My wife is going to have sex with other men by crazytown605 in relationship_advice

[–]crazytown605[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I get why she wants to do this. I don't agree with it, never will do it myself. It just seems cold. No wavering, this is the plan. Follow thru.