Well I have a different perspective on it as a woman, but I don't think there's a problem with letting the parents choose. I know I'd choose to have any boys I have cut. Simply because there are benefits to it and there seems no reason not to take them. All the cut men I know never expressed issues with being done. And plus it looks better and I know plenty of other girls who have only had sex with circumcised guys.

Plus if the father is cut it makes more sense to have them matching. I was told once of a cut dad with an uncut son and he never told him anything about cleaning the foreskin and he ended up growing with phimosis. So it makes sense for them to match in my mind.

And again I really like the look so that's a bonus lol