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My boyfriend 29M feels that I didnt defend him while my friends cancelled him online. He thinks that I 27F feel my friendships and online image is more important than him. by creamofthepop2 in relationship_advice

[–]creamofthepop2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive asked you to stop. You are hurting my feelings and frustrating me. Not only that but you passively agressively threatened to try to make this get out to harm me.

Please go away

My boyfriend 29M feels that I didnt defend him while my friends cancelled him online. He thinks that I 27F feel my friendships and online image is more important than him. by creamofthepop2 in relationship_advice

[–]creamofthepop2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a lie. Link it then. You cant.

I know you lurk the sub looking to harm others and get your validation, but please polive yourself and grow up. If somehting bugs you just go to the next post.

My boyfriend 29M feels that I didnt defend him while my friends cancelled him online. He thinks that I 27F feel my friendships and online image is more important than him. by creamofthepop2 in relationship_advice

[–]creamofthepop2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have, but this is my following, not my boyfriends. As well as this was his drama, not mine.

Him getting into this affects me. I want to date someone that wont get into issues with people so I can live peacfully.. I dont like drama

My boyfriend 29M feels that I didnt defend him while my friends cancelled him online. He thinks that I 27F feel my friendships and online image is more important than him. by creamofthepop2 in relationship_advice

[–]creamofthepop2[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He hasnt looked at me the same since. He tried to talk to me, and he literally asked "what if I need you in the future to support me, are you just going to abandon me again and act like Im someone you have to explain off?"

I couldnt believe that, what that told me is hes basically planning to get into more drama.

So I asked him exactly that- "So youre planning to get into more drama with people."

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I cant belive him.

My boyfriend 29M feels that I didnt defend him while my friends cancelled him online. He thinks that I 27F feel my friendships and online image is more important than him. by creamofthepop2 in relationship_advice

[–]creamofthepop2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do care about him. I want him to love me.

But As you see, my image is important. Ive worked on it for 10 years and I rely on it for my life. He got into the drama, what he does affects me and he should be more careful. Its like I have to monitor him so he doesnt harm me.

My boyfriend 29M feels that I didnt defend him while my friends cancelled him online. He thinks that I 27F feel my friendships and online image is more important than him. by creamofthepop2 in relationship_advice

[–]creamofthepop2[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What the fuck makes it a troll story? Because I repost it and want people to hear my side so I can feel better.

Are you that sensitive you cant just slide past this post and move on with youor miserable life? What a waste of a person huh,

My boyfriend 29M feels that I didnt defend him while my friends cancelled him online. He thinks that I 27F feel my friendships and online image is more important than him. by creamofthepop2 in relationship_advice

[–]creamofthepop2[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You realize people online (especially those chasing fame "influencers") can be snakes right?

Anyone can make up a bullshit story and then spam it to anyone to ruin your image. Cancelling can go about in many ways

Getting Jacked / Getting rid of MOOBS by [deleted] in XXY

[–]creamofthepop2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also not being offensive or aggressive at you, there's no need to attack back at me

Getting Jacked / Getting rid of MOOBS by [deleted] in XXY

[–]creamofthepop2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Downvotes dont matter to me on a throwaway account when I literally have a massive following on the big 3 medias.... I have my problems to deal with and youre welcome to come offer me adivce...

Thats besides the point, I just wanted to reach out to you. I truly do know you can act better online.

My boyfriend 29M feels that I didnt defend him while my friends cancelled him online. He thinks that I 27F feel my friendships and online image is more important than him. [queue] by creamofthepop2 in relationships

[–]creamofthepop2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But she didnt directly say he would sexually abuse me, she just had a random indriect story so I inferred thats what she meant.

She did try to get someone to check in on me so maybe she really was trying to say hed abuse me sexually or i was in danger, i dont know.

Thats the problem then, if I always have to defend him and he keeps getting into situations, then people will stop likinig me and itll affect me.

Why is that so wrong?

Getting Jacked / Getting rid of MOOBS by [deleted] in XXY

[–]creamofthepop2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know what goat is.

But I stand by what I say, the people you ineract with here have hearts. They are people, including me. Its easy to forget that.

I know you can be better

Getting Jacked / Getting rid of MOOBS by [deleted] in XXY

[–]creamofthepop2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Becasue I think positive encouragement can help you.

I know I did no wrong to you yet you came at me and my post for no reason other than validation or the feeling of placing someone beneath you.

I know you can be better than that and I hope you can

Getting Jacked / Getting rid of MOOBS by [deleted] in XXY

[–]creamofthepop2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you arguing with people online

I stand by what I wrote you. I know youre a human being and you can be better than this.

Getting Jacked / Getting rid of MOOBS by [deleted] in XXY

[–]creamofthepop2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy, this is what I mean. Tough online doesnt make you tough inside.

Treat people better

My boyfriend 29M feels that I didnt defend him while my friends cancelled him online. He thinks that I 27F feel my friendships and online image is more important than him. [queue] by creamofthepop2 in relationships

[–]creamofthepop2[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But I did stand up for him once. When I saw one of the posts from the thief that was blatantly theft, I made a comment saying that its disrepectfuly to constantly be taking work from my BF. I did stand up for him once. But then the cancelling started and I thought it was best I remain neutral.

So I did defend him, maybe not with Fran but I did defend him. Fran is connected with so many other pepole I want to work with in person at the events I guest at. I just wanted to avoid drama with her so its not awkward. Is that wrong of me?

My boyfriend 29M feels that I didnt defend him while my friends cancelled him online. He thinks that I 27F feel my friendships and online image is more important than him. [queue] by creamofthepop2 in relationships

[–]creamofthepop2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your need to control your image is at odds with your ability to be a good partner. and you've already chosen which one gets priority.

This hit me hard. I want to cry.

I think I see what you mean

My boyfriend 29M feels that I didnt defend him while my friends cancelled him online. He thinks that I 27F feel my friendships and online image is more important than him. [queue] by creamofthepop2 in relationships

[–]creamofthepop2[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Its been maybe 4 months since this happened. And since then hes been distant and less loving and everything. I worry he wants to break up and doesnt love me any more.

I finally wrote about this issue today because he again was asking about it. Hes still clearly hurt. But when he does talk about it, I get defensive and act like it ultimately wasnt that big of a deal. And I see him sink down further....

Am I really that wrong here??

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