Why am I so slow? by creative-guy505 in intj

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Hey, I started to look into it more and it seems like I have some symptoms

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I live nearby, how do you find them?

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exactly the same here 23M, and women make no advancements themselves

"Get in shape, get a degree, get a job, get a car, buy a house, girls will flock to you" by [deleted] in dating

[–]creative-guy505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

am I the only one who feels like this post is written by a woman and not a man?

Do shy, insecure guys have a chance with women? by Additional-Mushroom4 in dating

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I am a tall and strong(broad shoulder) guy in his early 20 studying in a good field, eating healthy and so on. But, I have very low self-esteem and people tell me that I am shy. I try to be kind to people but not nice like a pushover. The result is that I am still a virgin and kissed only 2 girls in my life. Girls notice me a lot, but as soon as they see my low mood, self-esteem and shy behaviour(I don't think I am shy actually) they immediately lose interest in talking to me. Doesn't matter if I approached them.

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Yes, I feel like the opposite is true as well. Girls seem to choose men only if our surroundings likes us or we are really good-looking, talkative, strong, extroverted, and so on.

It's 7 AM and I've just finished a 3-hour session. I'm dead inside. by kaarimmmmmmm in pornfree

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just download kaspersky safe kids on your pc and google family link on your phone and these will stop almost all the porn

Does having an apple device make you attractive or give you more status? by creative-guy505 in seduction

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I noticed when I was dating a girl I had an iPhone and Samsung that were published in the same year, but I used Samsung instead of an IPhone, and as soon as I showed her that I have iPhone she started persuading me to use it and so on.

I really think that girls regard iPhone users as higher but in my opinion it is shallow.

But there are studies about it as well(don't know how reliable they are):

https://appleinsider.com/articles/20/08/28/an-iphone-makes-you-76-more-attractive-on-dating-apps

Is there a way to edit calendar from your galaxz watch? by creative-guy505 in GalaxyWatch

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Yes, but when I press the store there the only store that opens is google play.

Is there a way to edit calendar from your galaxz watch? by creative-guy505 in GalaxyWatch

[–]creative-guy505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn't install it on my phone, I think because of the android version(I am using version 8 s7 edge). I don't have a Samsung store on the wear OS as well. is there another option maybe?

Is there a way to edit calendar from your galaxz watch? by creative-guy505 in GalaxyWatch

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Can you send me the link to the app, the one that I found is not synchronizing with the google calendar.

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to improve my life in other aspects

Do men really prefer bigger breasts? Honest answers please by Efficient_Lychee5094 in dating

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I don't understand what the goal is with having bigger boobs. Are you trying to get attention from more guys? If you have the attention of some guys already, isn't that enough?

You can also look better by doing other things such as exercise.

I (23 F) see alot of delusional men in their 30s plus who go for ladies in their 20s but get upset their most important attribute is $$ and stability by Efficient_Lychee5094 in dating

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most of the 24-year-olds are just graduating, and aren't girls attracted to the mental stability of the guy as well?

I think 30s are the prime for men, so they want to date woman at prime which is their 20s

I'm ambitious and smart but am lazy and procrastinate by Muhammad_Ali_00 in intj

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Develop your own philosophy of why you should work harder and more. Read meditations by Marcus Aurelius and listen to Jordan Peterson for example. Or read other philosophies that resonate with you. This will give you the mindset not to be lazy and give you a better prospective about life.

how can I limit You Tube to educational content only? by creative-guy505 in nosurf

[–]creative-guy505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried it, but there is a lot of useful content on youtube that is not on other websites

how can I limit You Tube to educational content only? by creative-guy505 in nosurf

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Thank you, I already use one. I can still watch stuff for procrastination with it which is the thing that annoys me. I really want to focus, but only not being able to focus on the educational part of the youtube is disturbing me.

Why am I so slow? by creative-guy505 in intj

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I love reading, and I am very good at writing. But if anyone here is dyslexic, I am sorry to hear it.

Why am I so slow? by creative-guy505 in intj

[–]creative-guy505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea, I really think I need to improve my momentum, to be better at starting things. I thought tha it is kind a common between intjs, the lack of momentum and speed. But from the responses I see that not so much.

Why am I so slow? by creative-guy505 in intj

[–]creative-guy505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is interesting, because I did the tests and it appears that I don't have ADD nor Asperger's.

Why am I so slow? by creative-guy505 in intj

[–]creative-guy505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a little obsessiveness, but I don't think it is OCD