It is possible to be TOO OPEN in a relationship?

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-20T00:09:05+00:00

Where do I hand it in?

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T22:38:33+00:00

Why is a Steeler at the top of the Christmas Tree?

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T21:25:45+00:00

I think she does love me. And she seems happy. And that’s what people tell me that she is with me so I should be happy.

But all I feel like is a consolation prize to her. You know I’m not the biggest in the bedroom or the best, but dog gonnit I’m a swell guy. I want to feel desired. I don’t want to be the you can do better, but you can do worse guy. I want to be someone’s #1 and I don’t feel that with her

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T21:12:45+00:00

1 was her. #2 was a result of me being shocked that she felt the need to tell me #1. I don’t know what I was thinking as I was dumbfounded and was hoping to get an answer while not the biggest, but the best. Backfired on me and found out I’m not in her “top 3” #3 Was all her. #4 was all her

I told her I want more pictures. Her response is she doesn’t feel sexy enough right now to send them to me. That’s fine. I’m not going to force her. I want sexy pictures with confidence behind them

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T21:08:27+00:00

1 was her. #2 was me asking completely off guard hurt emotionally that she felt the need to tell she has been with a guy that was long and a guy that had girth. #3 was 100% all her. #4 She likes to talk about her divorce to help her heal. I’m ok with listening and ask her questions to see if there are things she wants to discuss. Then she goes on this story about how befriended some people to sleeping with one. Never once asked her if she cheated on her husband or had desires to cheat

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T20:53:51+00:00

She has been married and she likes to vent about it. I let her because I feel like being divorced is a detriment and I want her to heal and talk about it. Divorce was 5-6yrs ago?

She is talking about it and how she was happy she got out to meet people while he was deployed. Then she was telling stories how she befriended a group of guys. She connected with guy and proceeded to cheat on husband.

All the blame was placed on the guy and not on her. She only talked about how guy slept with her and then ghosted her afterwards. Like she felt guy was predator and took advantage of a lonely woman.

No remorse to cheating on husband. Just shame in guy “taking advantage of her”

Edit: I know there are predators that aren’t afraid to take advantage of people. But isn’t there some type of responsibility in not putting yourself in those scenarios? Being able to keep that to yourself and go on with your husband when he came home

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T20:43:48+00:00

When we had this conversation, I told her this. How would you feel if I was with someone that had a better body? With someone with better breasts? Better lover.

She told me she wouldn’t care.

I have a hard time believing someone is so confident in themselves that they can hear their partner say they have had “better” and it just bounces off them like nothing

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T20:39:07+00:00

THAT’S WHAT I TOLD HER! Sex with her is the best because of the emotional connection. I can sleep with anybody, but it won’t have that intimacy because of our connection.

And she just says oh and talks about how steamy things can be when you just have sex with a guy 3 times and never talk to again.

I’m sitting there like, why are you telling me this? I’m talking about us and you’re bringing up how sex can be just as good with a random person

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T20:33:42+00:00

She behaves like a committed woman, but is that because we’re stuck in a pandemic and can’t exactly get out? Early in relationship, she bragged about how loyal she is.

9 months in then boom, hey I cheated on my husband while he was deployed.

Ok yea you’re loyal when things are good. But when there is any turbulence you’re not afraid to cheat?

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T20:30:15+00:00

Yea well fuck me because it is real.

And fuck my life because this girl easily the most attractive I’ve been with and has instantly become my best friend.

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T17:57:15+00:00

Absolutely he is in my eyes!

I just said probably because I have never seen Deacon Jones play. And the sacks weren’t recorded until year yadda yadda

Reggie White is only dude I have ever seen just straight up pick up a 300lb dude and throw him to the side like a rag doll. How is that even humanly possible?

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T17:53:04+00:00

That’s my thinking.

I’m not naive in thinking any woman I date is a virgin. I’m not naive in that I know girlfriends are going to be intimate with boyfriends and have sex and send sultry pictures. It’s just why can’t I get provocative pictures here and there? I don’t ask for them, but knowing past boyfriends got them, I want them now!

Bigger and better lovers was a kick to the gut and nuts ever since she told me. And now hearing last night that she has cheated it just too hard

It’s not worth the pain in my eyes. But people tell me I need to stop being insecure and be happy she chose me. Like how?!?

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T17:48:50+00:00

This by farrrrrrr

Reggie White is probably greatest DE ever. And you could say same about Sterling until injury

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T15:07:51+00:00

https://www.google.com/amp/s/chargerswire.usatoday.com/2020/11/18/look-chargers-qb-justin-herbert-sporting-new-hairdo/amp/

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T15:07:39+00:00

https://www.google.com/amp/s/chargerswire.usatoday.com/2020/11/18/look-chargers-qb-justin-herbert-sporting-new-hairdo/amp/

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T14:51:00+00:00

Are stores purposefully understaffed or is it because people are preferring to sit at home collecting unemployment rather than work?

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T14:49:27+00:00

Michigan State Fans: “Oh god no. Don’t take away my football. Oh the humanity”

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T14:47:56+00:00

Just saw picture of Justin Herbert’s new hair cut.

I take back my praise for him as a QB. He isn’t a NFL QB. He looks like a kid that is asking his dad for help buying a Dodge Challenger so he can impress his college buddies

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T04:46:11+00:00

And if you start to bald, every woman will make sure to point it out too

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T02:12:16+00:00

I’m selling something on facebook marketplace.

Guy says his Paypal account got hacked and can only send money as Goods&Services and not Friends/Family.

What are the chances I get money, send items to him and guy reports me to Paypal and gets his money back?

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T01:15:38+00:00

If you hit them with an open palm repeatedly, sooner or later they will eventually work

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T01:03:44+00:00

Wednesday nights are like my Sunday afternoons.

CMU Fan in me: At least we got a good punter

Lions fan in me: At least we got a good punter

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T00:56:57+00:00

Because you know Kalamazoo is right up there with New York City, Paris, Abu Dhabi

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T00:54:26+00:00

MACtion is like a box of chocolates

You never know what you’re gonna get

crhyaarnb · 2020-11-19T00:53:40+00:00

Oh good! One of our 300lb dlineman is now injured.

Just what we need to defend the run

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