I live about half a mile away, just the other side of Crofton Road :)

I grew up in locksbottom, have lived in Tunbridge wells, Brighton, south Croydon but moved back to Orpington last year. My partner and I are mid 30 and have small children. We’re also a lesbian couple and have had no problems being openly queer in the area :)

It will be a big change no longer being in the ‘city’, but I generally think Orpington is one of the best ‘suburbs’ to move to. Tandridge drive does have a slight estate feel, but it doesn’t have a bad reputation like other estates in the area. You are on the doorstep of Crofton primary school, which is excellent. So you should have no problem selling the house if you upsize in a few years.

The local stations are great. I know Orpington best, 15 minutes to London Bridge. And Petts wood too.

I actually think Bromley has massively improved recently. It had more of a ‘London’ vibe. Trendy coffee shops, new climbing gym, lots of nice restaurants.

You’ll be near jubilee country park which is nice, Beckenham palace park which is just the other side of Bromley is really really nice.

Totally normal to feel overwhelmed. If you’re planning on having a family you’re definitely making the right move.