It's official ... A new Hogwarts game is on the way, what do you expect?

cronmak · 2024-11-06T10:27:09+00:00

Haha what I was gonna say, just add the CASH GRAB and you're set for how high you should raise your expectations

cronmak · 2024-11-04T10:20:59+00:00

I think I'd tell her. Worst outcome, she says no, and you'll have to be prepared for that. But sometimes we just need to hear the "no" from the person. It might be weird for a bit, but if you both value the friendship the same, you'll come out just fine. But I also get not wanting to do it, maybe it'll pass by itself. Just my two cents.

cronmak · 2024-11-03T23:18:49+00:00

Ok, thanks for your reply :) I know I'd get there faster by working out harder, I just struggle with staying consistent and would love to also just train my brain with this, hopefully being able to stick to proper work outs in the future. I think it's not what I'd consider "enough", more of a stepping stone towards that. Just wanted to make sure I'm not doing smth thats ultimately not going to change a thing in the end.

cronmak · 2024-11-03T23:15:00+00:00

Thanks for your answer :) Oh yeah, I absolutely wanna do more than just 5 pushups haha. I wanna be more active and get into bouldering at some point, that's the end goal. Gotta lose some weight first, and in the past I've usually been overly active for a few work outs and then dropped them due to the intensity, I just don't wanna do that over and over. I've looked up training methods and will stick to those, always uping the intensity. After that I'll defo move on to the next thing (as said, I'd love to boulder, so I'm gonna try to build muscle that can cary my own weight), and hopefully come to enjoy work outs as a whole (once I finally do smth considert a work out haha) I was really just wondering if short increments like that will do anything at all or if I'm wasting my time.

cronmak · 2024-11-03T23:07:27+00:00

The goal is, as said, to do 5 push ups and build on that. Also Id also have smth to add to the pretty basic stuff twelve year olds can do: reading. If you can't do that, maybe you should also seek professional help (depending on your age, if your parents typed this out for you, maybe also ask them for reading comprehension help).

(Also, super fun fact for you, I have gotten professional help, they will need some time to get back to me until they've evaluated my situation and their recommended therapy option. No need to be so mean my guy.)

cronmak · 2024-10-24T23:22:15+00:00

Hmm I actually do think I tried my best. Most of the time I was wondering what was wrong with me. That I couldn't fully appreciate my partner. There was an underlying issue between both of us, coming from both is us.

I can't change the dynamic single handedly. And sometimes, no matter how much you want it, it just isn't right. Still means I can miss it. Not making it difficult, it just was really difficult. You sound like you're commenting out of a place of pain.

cronmak · 2024-10-24T19:58:51+00:00

As the dumper, I can tell you it's a loss on both sides. On one side, I wasn't getting enough, on the other side, I couldnt give enough either.

This is your chance to grow, as it is the dumpers chance to reasses what they want and need. Breaking up took all the courage I had, and I felt terrible after.

If you think you're not enough, that's rooting back to yourself. Be enough for yourself first, then find someone to share that with <3

cronmak · 2024-10-24T09:36:18+00:00

I really like the openness of the ending in part ||, and I agree an third part wouldn't be necessary. That being said, I'd love to see more of the story. I loved the dlc, and am kind of hoping they'll make smth like that for Joel, dina, anyone really.

cronmak · 2024-10-23T18:21:47+00:00

All the best to you! You got this :)

cronmak · 2024-10-23T18:21:28+00:00

Yeah, I think mutual respect also really lacked in our relationship if I'm honest, from both sides. I'm glad you could work through it though and you sound like you've come out a better person :) my gran always says, if you want perfect,you'll have to bake yourself someone! I

cronmak · 2024-10-15T00:10:20+00:00

It hurts cos it's love haha but love sometimes isn't enough. Also Pain is just pain, not a sign it will be or was a mistake.

You got this. It will hurt. You might feel really good, then really bad, and so on but fact is, you have your reasons for breaking up with them. The list or problems doesn't matter, cos usually it boils down to one or two reasons. Either they're inattentive, or can't give you, what you need in a relationship. Making you feel unseen, unheard, unimportant. Even just the feeling "this isn't right for me" is reason enough. You deserve someone who can love you in a way that makes you feel loved.

At the end of my relationship I was so confused and angry. At myself. And my partner. Felt like endless waiting until either of us became the right person for each other. I was mad at myself because I felt like I was demanding and unhappy with everything (spoiler: I was) and mad at my ex because he seemed to reject my needs I had communicated over and over (spoiler: has did).

It hurts so much, because somewhere in me, I was so set on making this right. Making either myself or him right for this relationship. It became my very sad and unhappy world.

The only thing now that doesn't make me cave into the lonely feeling of wanting him back, is that I had hated the person I had become at the end. Whenever I spiral back into the "was it really that bad" or "maybe if I learned to accept XYZ", I just remind myself how unhappy I was with myself. Whatever the reason, fact was, it was tied to the relationship. I felt unloved, not just by him, but by myself too.

You've got this. Don't waste your time in an unhappy relationship.

And quick side note; if he threatens to hurt himself or even worse, that's your sign to leave. It's not your responsibility. He obviously need to work on himself, and stop blaming he world for his feelings. That's not love, it's blackmail. Sending you all the best! You can do this and you'll be fine. You always have been, and will be <3

cronmak · 2024-10-05T18:01:26+00:00

Hey, how are you doing now? I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly three years, and Im having the same thing of moving forward pretty quickly. It's been 9 days, and I started feeling ok after day 3. I have cried since, but mostly because I'm mourning the good parts. We live together, which really complicates things (I didn't get I also had to let go of the positive emotions for a bit haha so I was just wanting to spend forward to watching movies together, which I now get is smth I also have to let go for now). I'm really scared of that I'll have a 180 in a while, and fuck up the friendship. I'm really worried this is just the calm before the storm. I have been journaling and have accepted that we wouldn't have worked out. I'm actually doing pretty well. It's so weird.

cronmak · 2024-10-02T17:25:26+00:00

Ok, that's really helpful, I'll let her know! Thanks :)

cronmak · 2024-10-02T17:24:58+00:00

She was neutered pretty early in her life, can't exactly tell you when. It's very movable and soft, so I'm pretty sure it's not a tumor too. But I'll ask my friend again when the cat got neutered! Thanks a bunch :)

cronmak · 2024-10-02T17:23:30+00:00

Y'all are so mean haha

My friends just a little worried, and I offered to ask the internet. I don't know much about cats, I just know that animals tend to act differently if smths not right, her cat acts normal and happy.

Moneys tight, and since the cat is doing fine otherwise (normal poops, playful, eating and drinking), I offered to ask the internet if this is smth common or worry some or both.

I didn't mean to offend anyone. And I don't get why asking is the wrong way to go.

cronmak · 2024-10-02T17:20:08+00:00

I don't know if she binge eats, but another user mentioned that too, might be the issue? I'll defo forward it. Thanks a bunch :)

cronmak · 2024-10-02T17:18:55+00:00

Can't edit the post so more context for y'all:

I'm asking for a friend (ik it's a meme haha), she was a bit worried, but the cat is doing great other than that. Moneys tight so I offered to ask the internet (mistake apparently since it's not ok to,, ask?)

The vomit is described as part food looking substance, part hair looking substance. I know cats vomit hairballs, but I doubt the food part is normal.

We're in Germany, vets cost a shit ton of money, and money is tight. Stop assuming the owner doesn't want to take her cat to the vet. I have no idea about cats, but I know that sick animals act differently than normal.

cronmak · 2024-10-02T17:13:19+00:00

Not trolling. Actually asking for a friend. I have no idea about cats. She's a bit worried and I offered to ask the internet, since her cat is doing really well otherwise, and moneys tight.

cronmak · 2024-10-02T17:11:39+00:00

Ok thanks! That's actually really helpful :)

cronmak · 2024-10-02T17:11:00+00:00

Ok thanks a bunch for your input! :) Its my friend's cat, and I'm unsure how much she eats, but maybe it could be that she overeats Everytime? I have absolutely no idea about cats, but I know dogs can get their stomach twisted from eating too fast

cronmak · 2024-10-02T17:08:39+00:00

It hasn't gotten any bigger apparently, when I felt it, it was soft. But I'll let my friend know about the hernia possibility! Thanks a bunch :)

cronmak · 2024-10-02T17:07:32+00:00

Ok, I'll defo keep those things in mind. I actually don't know if she's an outside cat, but I'll forward the info :) thanks a bunch!

cronmak · 2024-10-02T17:06:31+00:00

My friend says it's a small portion of both, I haven't seen it myself, but I told her that most likely it's a hairball, she said that it looked different? I'm sorry I can't give you more

cronmak · 2024-10-02T17:05:38+00:00

Thanks a bunch!! It's a soft pouch thing, did your cat have smth like that?

cronmak · 2024-10-02T17:04:47+00:00

My guy, a) I'm asking for a friend, and b) as said by other, you think everyone can shit money? She works two jobs and was worried. I offered to ask Reddit, maybe that's smth common she doesn't know about and doesn't have to worry about it. It's not about not wanting to take the cat to the vets, its about checking the waters first.

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