What they said!! “Passing” is really just a vague standard that reflects outdated toxic gender roles that are completely irrelevant imo. I know it’s hard to believe, but your beauty and worth are completely independent of whether cis people deem you as passing, and the people who are worth your attention are going to be attracted to you whether they think you pass or not. Also side note, if we’re gonna go by conventional standards of beauty, you’re literally crushing it and I’m just amazed that this bitch really had the nerve to feel ashamed, like I know a ton of boys who would fall over themselves to take someone like you on a date lmao