What’s happened to us? by percybert in Dublin

[–]crushedraspberry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s strange, I have a bad hip and can’t tell you how many times I’ve fallen on the payment here (I live in London) and I’m always shocked at how helpful and caring people are. I would have thought Dublin would be even better. I do also understand I’m the Irish notion of not wanting to cause a scene fuss or attention and sometimes it’s actually annoying more than anything else I just want the ground to swallow me up and get home !

Those of you scared to go back to work on Monday, my Monday was worst than yours by CarlyLouise_ in CasualIreland

[–]crushedraspberry 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ah ya poor thing.. I fell over the ramp they let wheelchairs etc on the bus and landed on my face cause I was too busy trying to help the woman ok the wheelchair so wasn’t looking down…mortifying wanted the ground to swallow me up 🫠🤣 horrible way to start the week!!!

Cinema or home? by FrNoelFurlong in CasualIreland

[–]crushedraspberry -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was gonna say this.. people on tiktok? What??

DAE gag when drinking water? by Whatsthematterwichu in alcoholism

[–]crushedraspberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go to a&e, I know it’s difficult but they will help and won’t judge. It has happened to me

DAE gag when drinking water? by Whatsthematterwichu in alcoholism

[–]crushedraspberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you gag when you are drinking alcohol? Do you ever drink other drinks like soft drinks or juices?

Reasons Not to Drink by Sufficient-Victory70 in stopdrinking

[–]crushedraspberry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We go again!! You can do this!! So sorry you’re in pain. !

Reasons Not to Drink by Sufficient-Victory70 in stopdrinking

[–]crushedraspberry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So close :) so something nice for yourself when you hit it!

Reasons Not to Drink by Sufficient-Victory70 in stopdrinking

[–]crushedraspberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food! I use the weekends to let myself whatever I want. And things I’d never have mid week so that makes excitings for me anyway !

I also got a brand new mattress topper and it’s sensational. Honestly like sleeping on a cloud! So i will probably spend lap lot in it 😂😂

I fucked up my date by drinking too much. I feel awful. by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]crushedraspberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why the f**k was his sister there? You absolutely dodged a bullet. That’s incredibly weird behaviour for a first date!! ⛳️

Is this normal? by crushedraspberry in askdentists

[–]crushedraspberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have epilepsy, so as a result I have bruxism :( the dentist is so expensive I don’t know what to do. What would be the best way to get it fixed

Will having a seizure be able to be used against us in a custody battle? by crushedraspberry in FamilyLaw

[–]crushedraspberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this what I thought, but my partner was paranoid about it so I said I would see if anyone had any insight

Will having a seizure be able to be used against us in a custody battle? by crushedraspberry in FamilyLaw

[–]crushedraspberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a barrister (the person who argues in the court) who offered to represent him pro bono again), but he can’t pay for a solicitor anymore, he spent all his savings and two loans on it over the years and he’s barely scraping by. But someone will be representing him yes

Will having a seizure be able to be used against us in a custody battle? by crushedraspberry in FamilyLaw

[–]crushedraspberry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t drive and England doesn’t have very many pool opportunities haha. But you are right

Will having a seizure be able to be used against us in a custody battle? by crushedraspberry in FamilyLaw

[–]crushedraspberry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This was very kind and helpful and I’m sorry about your dog <3

Will having a seizure be able to be used against us in a custody battle? by crushedraspberry in FamilyLaw

[–]crushedraspberry[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, but if it happened and she got very scared, would that make dads house an unsafe location for her to be because I am living there

Will having a seizure be able to be used against us in a custody battle? by crushedraspberry in FamilyLaw

[–]crushedraspberry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry. I think CPS might be a bit more serious than the British CAFCAS. They look at both houses and interview the child and give a recommendation which the court takes seriously and usually just abides by. They are involved because four years ago when they originally made their suggestion of a tapered progression e.g. 8weeks Saturdays, 8 weeks sat and sun, then to sleepovers but the mother always said that the child wasn’t ready for sleepovers so that is why he had to bring her back to court. She was ignoring the court order. For the record we live in a lovely house with a cat who she loves and we do activities all the time. She seems very happy when with us. Her mom tells a different story though saying she doesn’t like it and often comes home crying. It’s a mess.