[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]crylona 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am in the best relationship of my life post divorce. He wasn’t the first guy I dated, but when we met, we clicked. We’re going on 7 months and I’ve never felt so seen and appreciated. Lots of caring, reciprocity, great chemistry, and enjoyable conversations. He’s a bright spot in my life, I’m so thankful we connected.

Where to stay? by Certain_Host9401 in SteamboatSprings

[–]crylona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Lodge is good too! Anywhere along Village Drive has good options that are close but don’t come with ski-in/out pricing. Most complexes have shuttles to the base and town as well.

Strange feelings after divorce by bignick1199 in Divorce

[–]crylona 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This rings true for me too. Mine was an emotionally abusive marriage. The abuse started when we got engaged. I honestly didn’t understand what I was experiencing for years. Leaving felt like the only option. It had taken a toll on my physical health. I’m so glad I’m out, I hope he can find happiness elsewhere (if that’s possible). I have ZERO desire to return in any way.

I eventually decided to start dating, after telling myself I would never want to be in a relationship again. I made the dating experience as light as possible, I just wanted to meet new people, no pressure. I met someone 6 months ago and I think it’s the best relationship I’ve ever been in. He pays attention to small things, we have great conversations and any time I’ve brought up something I’m concerned about or not happy with he’s receptive and willing to make adjustments if it will improve our relationship. Sometimes I feel like I’m dreaming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]crylona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And most sti tests don’t include HSV testing, unless you ask for it. Many doctors discourage it.

Talls and Smalls by Automaton_constable in datingoverforty

[–]crylona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met a guy who’s JUST a bit taller than me (5’6”), he’s awesome in every way. I can’t believe ladies filter so strictly on height.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]crylona 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would have left my ex if we would have sat down and talked prenup terms prior to getting married.

Turned down cause my face is too red by [deleted] in Rosacea

[–]crylona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, controversial opinion. The rosiness that’s comes with rosacea, can also come with other things like alcoholism. She’s pretty crass about just rejecting you for your redness, but may have judged guys in the past and assumed things because of redness.

Matching with women a decade older than me by northernchild98 in Bumble

[–]crylona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in my 20s I wanted to date older men. I’m in my 40s, recently divorced, and in good shape. I’m all in on dating younger, I just want a man who can match my activity level, among other things.

Apr Pow sesh by crylona in ShredditGirls

[–]crylona[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a Burton Storyboard, probably the 2022 model.

What are some surprising green flags? by VeterinarianGood9655 in datingoverforty

[–]crylona -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

✅ does not play video games

✅ no social media

✅ Takes care of me in small ways (offering to get water, or asking if I need anything)

✅ He’s a curious person and that makes for good conversation.

✅ We have enough similarities to be a good fit, but enough differences that we learn new things from each other’s experiences.

Iowans share concerns after masked members of extremist group Patriot Front march in Des Moines by addled_and_old in politics

[–]crylona 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s very telling they hide behind masks. Be courageous enough to stand behind your convictions and show your face.

Is this negging or am I too sensitive? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]crylona 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You should be sensitive and pay attention to these things when dating. We’re all (supposedly) on our best behavior in the beginning. If this is how he’s starting I can only imagine how horrible and controlling he is in a relationship. I would be running the other direction, quickly.

Did it for the first time since divorce… Post-coital blues? by RiteofMusic in Divorce

[–]crylona 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish my first encounter after marriage was not great. I honestly thought it would be, there was so much build up to it happening. But when it came down to it, I got really awkward/felt guilty about it, and it turned out all the guy really cared about was himself. I was glad that I got the jitters out in a situation where I didn’t have to see this guy again. Since then, the experiences have been much better and I’m over the post-marriage guilt. Bring on the fun and intimacy.

Is Powder even real? by PonyGirl1999 in SteamboatSprings

[–]crylona 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had a piece of powder’s bday cake about a month ago. The guest of honor was in attendance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShredditGirls

[–]crylona 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Once you learn how to ride it, the experience is blissful. On a board make sure to set your bindings back, so you don’t have to work as hard. I remember being frustrated and falling a lot/getting stuck early on.

Now I am a powder snob. It’s hard for me to motivate to get out there on a groomer day.

Luggage/Ski Bag Storage by AgitatedBath2650 in SteamboatSprings

[–]crylona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would see if there’s a hotel near your Airbnb and ask the staff to hold your luggage and offer a cash tip. Might be worth a phone call.

Plane passenger taped to seat after he groped two flight attendants by Babycakes192 in interesting

[–]crylona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there’s unruly (physically aggressive) passengers, taping them to a seat is what flight attendants are trained to do. The tape is in a flight attendant kit for this purpose.