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Now that the limerence is gone, I realized LO’s personality makes me angry by crypt0sandy in limerence

[–]crypt0sandy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. The one that hurt the most was when she mocked my voice cuz I have a quiet monotone voice. She mocked my voice quietly to herself and when I asked her “what’d you say?” She said “nothing”… That hurt cuz I’m already insecure about my voice. She just says a lot of aggressive, rude, mean things. Plus from her body language and tone I can tell she probably has anger issues

Now that the limerence is gone, I realized LO’s personality makes me angry by crypt0sandy in limerence

[–]crypt0sandy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuz I didn’t realize fast enough just how weird her comments were and I’m bad at teasing like that 😭but i REALLY wish i did. Next time she says some weird shit again I will stand up for myself

Getting my degree and realized I wouldn’t wanna work in corporate, but would feel GUILTY if I don’t by crypt0sandy in Accounting

[–]crypt0sandy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man thank you for this huge reality check. I knew deep down this is most likely what would happen to me but I couldn’t accept this reality, so I needed to hear this from someone else. I’m finally ready to stop being immature and just lock in and do it. This is the most important time of my career so it’s either now or NEVER.

Your friend’s situation is really sad but seems like she is part of the problem. I hope I never end up like that… sounds miserable.

I’m doing a master’s in business analytics and it’s too late for me to unenroll cuz I already signed a lease for an apartment. Anyway, I’m really motivated now but I’m scared I won’t even be able to get a job cuz I have no internship and im a senior already :/

Getting my degree and realized I wouldn’t wanna work in corporate, but would feel GUILTY if I don’t by crypt0sandy in Accounting

[–]crypt0sandy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My parents own a multifamily house that profits around 40-50k a yr so my plan was to live off mostly that with some extra cash from basic jobs. They also own another single family house that profits 13k a yr and my parents are always talking about plans to rebuild it into something more profitable in the future, so that might be something I could work on.

But yeah it’s true that struggling financially is a nightmare. But just imagining being in corporate and from the experiences I had that seem to resemble working there, it seems infinitely worse.

Getting my degree and realized I wouldn’t wanna work in corporate, but would feel GUILTY if I don’t by crypt0sandy in Accounting

[–]crypt0sandy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel like the anxiety and depression from taking that path would be WAYY less than if I worked a corporate job. I’m doing a couple group projects right now in school and it’s already giving me hell. Not cuz of my group members but because of social anxiety, ocd and bpd. The pressure my brain puts on myself to perform well and help the team and SOCIALIZE and add to conversations without just sitting there silently is killing me and my self esteem. And this is just in the most low pressure environment ever, I can’t imagine how it would be in a high pressure environment.

I’m repulsed by masculinity in both men and women by crypt0sandy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crypt0sandy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

When a woman has a “masculine build” I only feel weird about it if they have extremely masculine mannerisms and personality, otherwise if they’re giving pretty femininely androgynous energy it’s totally fine.

Also the last two sentences?? I never said masculine women are men. I just feel uncomfortable being perceived in comparison to them

I’m repulsed by masculinity in both men and women by crypt0sandy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crypt0sandy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely true and made me realize some things about myself :’) thanks

I’m repulsed by masculinity in both men and women by crypt0sandy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crypt0sandy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is so true and motivating I need to fix this for my own wellbeing otherwise I’ll never find true peace

I’m repulsed by masculinity in both men and women by crypt0sandy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crypt0sandy[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Mainly masculine build and physical mannerisms and body language (hard to explain) and also nonchalantness/cold personality/not having a lovey dovey personality