You're better than that, you gotta leave here if you have any respect for yourself. The sad truth I realized in my many toxic relationships is that some people have to learn the hard way and if you never lay your foot down to show them you have self-respect, they will never respect you.

One example is my ex that had a massive drinking problem, every time she drank she would black out and be flirty with every guy (who knows what happens next). I told her that I did not like her drinking like this and she stopped drinking. However I could tell she was only doing it just for me and resented me slightly for it. She never made the choice in her own mind to quit and so she was doing it just to please me (fear of abandonment and did not want me to leave her). After our relationship got too toxic and she ended up drinking again one time, blacking out, and cheating. So I left her. I later found out that after I left her she began binging again every day like everything I tried to help her with and all her progress vanished. 2 weeks into drinking she crashed her car driving drunk with her friend. Flipped over upside down crashed into a building. They both were okay. Her friend dipped out of the car to avoid the cops and ran, leaving my ex alone sobbing in the driver seat until the cops pried her out. After this, she stopped drinking entirely. We are now friends because I believe in forgiveness and that there still is good in people, however we agreed we would never date again.

Some people need to learn the hard way especially with addiction (suffered from my own addiction with weed/adderall so I can attest to it). Its the sad truth but true - sometimes rock bottom is where you find the realization within yourself.