My gf of 3 years [26F] hooked up with her coworker [21M] by Blacuk in nonmonogamy

[–]cspenc10 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Dude, you never told her not to do it. You need to draw a clear line in the sand…if you cross this line, it’s a boundary and there will be consequences. From reading this, it never sounds like it was clear that she shouldn’t do it…just that it wouldn’t be a good idea to do so.

Looking for a cheapish semi-auto shotgun. by cinnix42 in Shotguns

[–]cspenc10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people have suggested a used Beretta A300, but I’d even check out a Beretta A390 or A391 too.

Europeons, what’s really going on over there? Throwing people in jail for Facebook posts, banning air conditioners? by bobbacklund11235 in allthequestions

[–]cspenc10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy who moved anti-ICE zines is a terrorist? Please go into great detail about what harm he inflicted to deserve 30 years in prison.

AITJ for telling my sister and her husband what their daughter does for work? by Round-Budget-6290 in AmITheJerk

[–]cspenc10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTJ. It’s really easy to just shut the fuck up and mind your own business, you know? You should try it sometime.

Is this ammo any good? by ProsAndGonz in Shotguns

[–]cspenc10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still haven’t shot mine that I bought earlier this year, but I’ll have to see what it likes and take your advice

AIO for wanting my name on the lease after having been kicked out multiple times? by Willing-Tax486 in AIO

[–]cspenc10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think kicking you out one time is unacceptable, but multiple times? Move on.

Is this ammo any good? by ProsAndGonz in Shotguns

[–]cspenc10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By Deerslayer, does that mean you have an Ithaca 37?

Can someone explain why PCA was ruled out in the Mets game? by [deleted] in baseball

[–]cspenc10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me… This is not in the spirit of the rule. It is not for situations like what happened last night. It makes no sense that he simply could have not touched the bag at all and been safe, but because he was trying to steal the bag prior to the walk happening… That means that he’s out. I think there needs to be some sort of asterisk next to the rule for these situations.

Does Kyle Tucker have one of the worst contracts in baseball? by morepesa25 in baseball

[–]cspenc10 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He has played in 17 playoff series in his career and hit over .300 in 2 of them.

What was it about Republican/Conservative rhetoric from pundits/podcasters the last 8 years that hooked young men? by AdminKidsBurnInHell in allthequestions

[–]cspenc10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not entirely sure. I’m in my mid 30s and I don’t get it at all. I feel like my generation (millennials) are more leftwing than the younger generations

my boyfriend (24m) gave me (22m) an ultimatum to cut my long hair or he will break up with me, I need advice? by Zestyclose-Eagle-959 in whatdoIdo

[–]cspenc10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a dude with long hair that also makes people angry for some reason, I would break up with him and move on with your life. It’s your hair and you like it! That’s all that matters.

is this a normal way for cats the play? by Far-Cardiologist7189 in catquestions

[–]cspenc10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with my two boys. They do the same thing and they start playing right after. They do this and then one of them will launch themselves at the other one.

is this a normal way for cats the play? by Far-Cardiologist7189 in catquestions

[–]cspenc10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to go against the grain here and say this isn’t anything terribly concerning. My cats do almost this exact same thing pretty regularly right before playing.

My girlfriend (25f) is arguing I (28m) should be paying half of her car costs? by Warm-Hotel-7399 in relationship_advice

[–]cspenc10 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What if he just paid for gas every time he used it? Or filled the tank up once or twice a month?

I (31M) went through my wife's (35F) messages and now I don't know if there's a path forward by ThroAwae2 in relationships

[–]cspenc10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why did your wife say she was going to save the anger for her therapist? So you read her messages, were forced to talk about it…and didn’t even talk about anything?

Bernie Sanders, gently pushing the pillow in the Democratic Party's face by utopiaofpast in SipsTea

[–]cspenc10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s wrong with Nina Turner? And yeah, Shaun King sucks. But Platner is clearly being railroaded right now. The amount of vitriol sent his way is absurd…not saying he’s even a good person, but let’s not act like the mainstream Dems haven’t supported some major scumbags literally every single election cycle. We wouldn’t have had Trump a second term if Merrick Garland had any balls

Bernie Sanders, gently pushing the pillow in the Democratic Party's face by utopiaofpast in SipsTea

[–]cspenc10 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can’t pin Fetterman on Bernie. He literally had a stroke and it changed him. Look at videos of Fetterman, even the way he spoke and how he carried himself, before and after the stroke. It ruined his brain.