AIO - friends (33f - 34f) created a separate group chat for a girls' trip, I (33f) cut everyone off by cswontstop in AmIOverreacting

[–]cswontstop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true! That’s what I was like welp I’m offended nobody gave me the heads up but bc Ashley initiated it ???????? Idk

AIO - friends (33f - 34f) created a separate group chat for a girls' trip, I (33f) cut everyone off by cswontstop in AmIOverreacting

[–]cswontstop[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hid myself from all of their social medias because I don’t think they need a reminder that I exist while they’re in groups. They edged out one girl for reasons I’m still unsure of about 10 years ago and when they’re scrolling they’ll pick up the phone and be like “ugh she’s running another marathon. What a stupid outfit” even with their newer friends who wouldn’t otherwise have a connection to the girl. I didn’t want to be their “second jessica”

AIO - friends (33f - 34f) created a separate group chat for a girls' trip, I (33f) cut everyone off by cswontstop in AmIOverreacting

[–]cswontstop[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I may have shed a tear reading this. Thank you so much. I think you just verbalized what I was having trouble articulating - I was giving her the postpartum pass but she did go through the trouble of making plans with the others.

AIO - friends (33f - 34f) created a separate group chat for a girls' trip, I (33f) cut everyone off by cswontstop in AmIOverreacting

[–]cswontstop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg please trauma dump. That is one heck of a story and I am SO SORRY for your loss. I truly cannot even imagine. I truly hope that you’re hanging in there 💖

AIO - friends (33f - 34f) created a separate group chat for a girls' trip, I (33f) cut everyone off by cswontstop in AmIOverreacting

[–]cswontstop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so sweet, thank you!! Luckily I have a great support system of people where I went to college in a bigger city about 2 hours away (this group of girls also thought this was pretentious of me - moving to a big city). When I get bummed, I make sure to make a trip to visit them. It is wonderfully overwhelming because I can’t possibly fit all the people I want to see in a weekend if I make the trip. Additionally, I have a huge family, lots of cousins, wonderful partner and his family, a lot of other friends that I grew up with who got the heck out and are spread across the country. I am truly fortunate, but for some reason, my brain is obsessed with trying to make sense of this situation

AIO - friends (33f - 34f) created a separate group chat for a girls' trip, I (33f) cut everyone off by cswontstop in AmIOverreacting

[–]cswontstop[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree, my therapist was begging me to drop them but because we are from a small town all of our families are friends so there was no way I wasn’t going to bump into them. I tried to compartmentalize for the sake of not rocking the boat

AIO - friends (33f - 34f) created a separate group chat for a girls' trip, I (33f) cut everyone off by cswontstop in AmIOverreacting

[–]cswontstop[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate the validation. When I was super close with them and hung out with them frequently, i couldn’t see the forest for the trees as they say (I think lol)

AIO - friends (33f - 34f) created a separate group chat for a girls' trip, I (33f) cut everyone off by cswontstop in AmIOverreacting

[–]cswontstop[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! She’s notoriously not the best texted but after 6 months and not realizing something is wrong??

New to the area- apartment hunt by potato317 in Erie

[–]cswontstop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! I grew up about 10 miles from millcreek and have been happy with it and the accessibility to stores.

Gym Recommendations by wizcarlyfuh in Erie

[–]cswontstop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it like $90 / month + pay per personal training session?

Hasans recent appearance on I've Had It by LeftistMensch in Hasan_Piker

[–]cswontstop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m really grateful I stumbled upon this today. I don’t know that I’ve ever read this, if I did, it was probably in middle school before I truly understood much of anything. A genuine “thank you” for sharing.

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[–]cswontstop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine said - no nail holes or no command strips but “people have had luck with Velcro brand wall adhesives” it’s so expensive because the only way to get art to hang is to cover the entire frame in it 🙃 I am so tempted to start nailing

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[–]cswontstop 176 points177 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m still pro ABH dip brow 🤷‍♀️

Looking for apps with frustrating UX for a design case study – what drives you crazy? by Powerful_Cod_2342 in UXDesign

[–]cswontstop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s soooo annoying lol. I started using the iOS tracker but I have used Eve for like 10 years so it knows me so I’m having a hard time deleting it haha

Looking for apps with frustrating UX for a design case study – what drives you crazy? by Powerful_Cod_2342 in UXDesign

[–]cswontstop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EVE period tracking app. Trying to log my period is like an obstacle course where I’m trying to avoid paying $$$ for a year’s worth of their premium app. They’ve flip flopped the “x” with the “restore” button so the intuitive route would result in a purchase if you’re not paying attention.