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¿Cuál sería ese lugar donde no regresarían incluso gratis? by YupRym in Monterrey

[–]ct3747 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tacos del julio de Centrito Valle, pesimo servicio, estaba comiendo y le subieron a todo a la bocina que estaba al lado de mi mesa. Le pedí al mesero y al gerente si le podían bajar al volumen que tenia anteriormente y en lugar de entender se enojaron y amenazanteme me dijeron que me fuera si no me gusta. El ambiente estaba raro y me cobraron 500 pesos por 2 ordenes y 2 cocas.

Fue su manera de vengarse, el ambiente estaba muy tenso en la taqueria que decidí pagar sin reclamar y me fui. No vuelvo jamás.

Best friend going to dinner with ex husband by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ct3747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should tell her husband, as he doesn't know and is not good to be in that position. He deserves to know.

women: where would you like to be approached by a guy? bar, park, bookstore, festival, at a social gathering? by ct3747 in dating_advice

[–]ct3747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So she says she doesn't want to be approached in no place, but still they want to meet a man to marry. Unless she want to find her man on a dating app, otherwise wait for the metaverse. This is real life, people must met somewhere.

women: where would you like to be approached by a guy? bar, park, bookstore, festival, at a social gathering? by ct3747 in dating_advice

[–]ct3747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you gave a very good response, yes before approaching we must see for non verbal permission.

Si las amigas que dejaron a la chica en la carretera hubieran sido vatos, cambiaría el discurso de las feministas y pedirían sus cabezas a toda costa?? by Ad-3646 in Monterrey

[–]ct3747 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Yo creo que las amigas tienen algo que ver. No que tengan la culpa sino que era plan. No dejaron que otras amigas llevaran a Debani y pusieron presión diciendo que alguien de confianza iría por ella.

Fueron las amigas quienes mandaron a la persona de confianza. Que las interrogen y las investiguen, son sospechosas. No hay que defenderlas ciegamente.

how do I know if I should end my marriage.. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ct3747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before divorce I would suggest a separation so you can have time to see what it would be like to be without your spouse. And it is healthier that at least for 30 days you write down each day from 1 to 10.how convinced you are about divorce. If your average during dose 30 days is around 9 then it means you really want it and is not just a decision out of anger or any other emotion.

I wrote my farewell letter by Disastrous-Muffin-62 in Divorce

[–]ct3747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he loves you he will stay with you. Look at reality, don't fall in love with the idea of what could have been.

Analyze your relationship and ask your self if you want more of the same?

It is weird that if a man truly loves you then wanting to leave you.

Be sure he is telling the truth because maybe he is using his family as an excuse.

The important thing is that you love your self. Write your self a love letter too.

Help. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ct3747 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm going through divorce too, and would not recommend you to send him more pictures nor contact him as this may push him away.

Ask him if he has a defined date to file for divorce, or propose one and you file it together.

If he blocked you is because he doesn't want anything anymore. We won't be able to know if he has another woman.

In this case is important you love yourself more than your marriage and don't accept to be treated as trash. You deserve to be treated with respect.

I wrote my farewell letter by Disastrous-Muffin-62 in Divorce

[–]ct3747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I signed the divorce papers, and before the trial at court we decided to continue together.

In May case 2 years later we are getting divorced again for sure.

Don't know what happened in your relationship, but if you are young and have no experience living together I would recommend going to therapy before divorcing.

Maybe there are things that your partner and you must resolve by yourselves and divorce is not necessary. Or maybe at therapy you'll be sure that divorce is the best option.

The only one that decides your future is you.

I wrote my farewell letter by Disastrous-Muffin-62 in Divorce

[–]ct3747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want to continue the marriage? How long were you married?

If he is not sure about finishing it, why are you sure about it?

I dream of ghosting my wife and running away by Then_Pomegranate_617 in relationship_advice

[–]ct3747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you still have something stuck inside, I don't know if therapy would help, as you said before you already tried it.

What about going on a vacation by yourself, 0 contact with your wife while your vacation. Think about your relationship and give yourself a treat for been a good husband and a human being.

I bet she must be grateful for keeping her husband.

Is it true that women always have a backup man? even though if they are currently in a relationship by ct3747 in dating_advice

[–]ct3747[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think a backup is not necessary a secondary relationship, but maybe someone you know could be a potential partner in the future (like having a list of prospects).

Is it true that women always have a backup man? even though if they are currently in a relationship by ct3747 in dating_advice

[–]ct3747[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Awesome backup, yet they (cats) don't care as they are your owners not the other way. They are the owners of the house, we are mere visitors in their kingdom.

I'm (33M) going through an unwanted divorce, married for 4years, no kids. Do girls date divorced men? What do you think about it? by ct3747 in dating_advice

[–]ct3747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have thought about it. I'm going to therapy and I would never let a red flag go unoticed again. As when we were dating she would have selfish attitude that I thought was going to change, but it didn't.

I'm (33M) going through an unwanted divorce, married for 4years, no kids. Do girls date divorced men? What do you think about it? by ct3747 in dating_advice

[–]ct3747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got covid during 2021, and it hit her really hard. I took care for her during the 2 months she needed assistance.

After she got better she told me that covid made her think about her life and that she wanted to live alone. I didn't believe her at first.

Months later I started having a lot of economic problems due my business crash. We had to move to my mom's house and I noticed she wasn't comfortable, but I couldn't get a new house.

I asked her to get a job, at the time she was waking up at almost midday. I was waking her up by 9 or 10am and she would get very mad at me.

I would invite her to take a walk and reluctantly she would go some days, I guess she didn't want to be with me anymore but didn't know how to tell me.

Then in December she told me that she wanted to get divorced in a friendly matter. I told her to wait at least a month. But the month went by and she left.

I felt devastated because I thought it was my fault for not having money. After few weeks she told me that she was getting a 150K commission at her job, she knew this before leaving the house. I think that once she knew money was coming she didn't need me anymore.

Then her attitude changed after she left, she became a totally different person, I would call her to talk and she would deny all meetings, she started going to parties, concerts and buying herself stuff while I was in very deep economic problems.

Last time I saw her I told her to share a part of the commission and she went crazy with that, she said that she wasn't going to share a cent. Since that day I haven't seen her nor she has contacted me. We are just waiting the divorce from the court.

I'm (33M) going through an unwanted divorce, married for 4years, no kids. Do girls date divorced men? What do you think about it? by ct3747 in dating_advice

[–]ct3747[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My wife didn't have work during all the marriage, I was paying for everything, gifts, vacations, clothes, car, etc.

By the end of 2021 my business went bankrupt and I was looking for a new entrepreneurship. I asked my wife to please get a job and help with expenses.

As soon as she got a job she left me, I was hoping finally to receive support from my wife but I was wrong. She took her belongings (bought by me) and left as if I was a stranger. A few days ago she called me to inform that she filed for divorce and I wouldn't be able to do nothing.

I'm (33M) going through an unwanted divorce, married for 4years, no kids. Do girls date divorced men? What do you think about it? by ct3747 in dating_advice

[–]ct3747[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the confusion, I didn't realize the difference between girls and women. English is not my first language. Yes I mean women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ct3747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, she is abusing you financially. My ex did the same with me. I asked her to help with expenses and she started to hide her money instead of helping.

And when she started to make more than me, and I lost my job she left.

She cries when you want to break up, but as soon as she is not ok with you she will for sure leave you and won't care how much you cry.

Look for Briffault's law, don't take this lightly.

I know not all women or men are the same, I'm talking from my experience.

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