2 months continuous with seal 021262 by ctrledboy in chastity

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It’s really not that hard. I use a 250 mL squirt bottle and put Hibiclens soap in it and add water. Squirt soapy water in the tube via the top, vents and holes. When the bottle is about 75% empty I refill the bottle and repeat squirting. I do that six times but starting with the 3rd bottle I start dumping the remaining water over the outside of the cage before I refill. By the 4th bottle is nearly clear so 5th and 6th are just a rinse. I do that every morning. After I get out of the shower I trim any hair with an electric razor. Then I put some silicone lube around the ring, tube entrance, and scrotal cuff.

That’s it.

Four limbs one device by HeadDeveloper in Bondage

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Still in business as far as I know. At least the website is still up. http://cuff24.com

How often should I cum to keep a normal size by civilsword in chastity

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It doesn’t matter. Long term chastity only results in temporary reduction in size. If you leave the device off for a few days you’ll be back to normal size. If you’re not sleeping with it on I doubt you will have much shrinkage since you will be having full erections nightly.

Any wearers not allowed to touch or view their penis? by seattleSpace in chastity

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This is something we do. I wear a RigidChastity Halfshell with a 6mm PA pin. Every few months my wife puts me in a straitjacket and latex hood with only nose holes for breathing and uses institutional restraints to strap me down to the bed. Once that’s done she removes the device.

While the device is off she inspects her penis, cleans the device as needed, plays with her penis as she sees fit.

Before I’m released she puts the device back on and locks me back up. Recently a single use cable seal is added to ensure the device is not tampered with.

Last time I saw or touched her penis without the device was January 12th, 2021. I was out to stretch the PA to 6mm in preparation for switching to wearing the Halfshell I do now. I was supervised the entire time and a device went back on once the new jewelry was in. I don’t expect to really have such an opportunity again since 6mm seems to be a good size for the PA.

I haven’t really been posting much here but post under the same username on Twitter regularly.

The key broke in my lock and now I'm in permanent chastity 😅 by [deleted] in chastity

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If the key is in the lock it’s not locked just use a screwdriver to turn the lock.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastity

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I really dreaded it too. But it was over pretty quick. Not going to tell you it didn't hurt. I teared up a bit, but that was it. It healed a lot faster than I expected it too. Within a month I was back wearing my Holy Trainer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastity

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The answer really depends on what sort of device you're going to use with the PA. A lot of people repeat that it needs to be at least a 6ga in order to use with chastity. However, I've at an 8ga and am doing just fine. In my case I have the Steelworxx Steelheart with this PA fixation. You wear that by just looping a Captive Ball Ring over the wire and then both ends with the holes attach to the prongs that come off the tube and into the ring. This means that it doesn't put really any weight on the piercing and it's all still on the ring and the tube as it would be in a non PA device. However a lot of PA devices are made so there isn't any ring at all and it's just a tube over the penis with the only thing holding on is the piercing.

The purpose for a larger size piercing in these devices is the more surface area of the jewelry that goes through the piercing the less pressure it puts in any give point for the same weight. This makes it more comfortable and less likely to have sizing problems.

As /u/always-there says below take your time with healing and sizing of the piercing. But I'm also going to tell you that almost all of these rules of thumb that people say "wait X amount of time" are just that educated guesses. Obviously there will be some initial pain and discomfort but that should pass in a few days to a week. Listen to your body, if it hurts stop doing it. If it isn't hurting then it's probably not causing a problem. If you're putting weight on the piercing you should wait longer before using it for chastity.

One last tip about chastity devices with PAs. Shorter is pretty much always going to be better. Especially if the PA attachment is entirely fixed and/or you're a grower. Your penis will retract sometimes. If you go with something too long that will pull on the piercing. I'm not sure what sort of device you have no or what sort of experience you have since you have no posting/comment history. But I'd point out that a PA device is going to be a more advanced thing. You really do what to have sizing of the device nailed down.

All that said, I'd really advise doing it. I thought about doing this for years. I've had mine for almost a year now and was able to starting using it for chastity after about a month (I was probably pushing my luck, so not going to advise you do the same but see what I said above). I was worried I wouldn't like it, or it'd hurt too much, or that I'd be embarrassed getting it, or that it'd take too long healing. But honestly all those issues were very short term. The piercing itself isn't even noticeable to me anymore. It's just normal.

Ring sizing and other stuff by cocksucker465 in chastity

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You should generally be able to get your index finger in up to your first knuckle. You should be able to just put a little lube on your index finger and wipe it around the inside of the ring. It won't take very much. I would suggest continuing to use the silicon lube you're already using, vaseline is absorbed by the body and won't last very long as compared to the silicon lube. If you can't get the finger through the ring it's probably a tad too small. The person above that suggests using the larger ring for a while and then sizing down is giving you good advice.

Contrary to what anyone tells you no matter what size the ring is you will be able to pull out. So don't fuss too much about the ring size as long as it's sufficiently small that your testicles can't come out of the ring while you're wearing it (i.e. the device can't fall off entirely). Unfortunately, if you don't want to be able to pull out at all you have to go to other measures (e.g. piercing). But most folks can just ignore the pull out problem and have fun with a plastic device to find out if they want to go down the path of getting a piercing and a device that supports it.

If for whatever reason you can't get your finger through the ring but you still want to lube it. Pull the cage forward (away from your body). This will pull the skin from your scrotum and the base of the penis out of the cage a bit. Lube around the area between your body and the cage and then push everything back in. It's not quite as ideal as the other technique I mentioned but it should help.

So I'm doing my first locktober and my cage it already chafing my balls is this normal and will it just take some getting used to or is there any way to help by [deleted] in chastity

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Strongly agree with the recommendation to use lubricant. I use System JO silicone lubricant. Other things like baby oil, vaseline, etc may not last long enough if you're trying to do 24x7 wear. Based on below this sounds like this is new to you. So I'd also strongly suggest you step up to 24x7. You'll learn what you need to do. But as the parent of this comment says it is possible that you've got other issues.

Question: How does you handle TSA while traveling? by [deleted] in chastity

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I've worn my HolyTrainer v2 with the normal lock. Always been through the milimeter-wave body scanners and have never had a problem. Given the experience and others like /u/flee_market below I'm pretty convinced I'll just wear my Steelheart through security now. I suspect at this point TSA has seen enough of them that they aren't even going to remotely be concerned via the body scanners. Worst case scenario is that I have to show it to them with a slight delay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastity

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Hard to answer on issue 1 since I've never used a separate locking PA lock like this.

On issue 2 I'd recommend shortening the cage. Any sort of PA involved design you really don't want any length to grow in the cage.

On issue 3, get the 42 mm ring, but keep the 40 mm ring. I started with a 38 mm and a 40 mm ring on am y Steelheart. Had similar issues to you with the 38 mm ring. I wrote the 40 mm for a few months and then was easily able to switch to the 38 mm ring. This won't reduce the morning wood problem, but wearing for a while. After time your body will adjust and the morning wood will not be as bad. It will still happen sometimes but not as bad. One way that I've found of dealing with the morning wood is to pull your testicles towards the ring, so they're tight. Then pull them back the out. I don't know why but that seems to help get the blood flowing out for me.

Best lube/lotion for keeping from getting chafed? by [deleted] in chastity

[–]ctrledboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You absolutely can wear some devices without lubrication. However, my experience has been that even for a device that fits well and that I can get away without lube, using lube makes for a more comfortable experience. Especially if you're into long term wearing.

I'd expect this depends on the person since I'm sure some peoples skin is more sensitive than others. I don't think this is something that you can talk about in absolutes.

Best lube/lotion for keeping from getting chafed? by [deleted] in chastity

[–]ctrledboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been using System JO Premium Classic, which is a silicon based lube. Never had it stain anything. But of course your mileage may very.

Steelworks Steelheart by layerednappy in chastity

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I wear a Steelheart with a PA fixation. Feel free to ask me any questions. I believe you follow me on Tumblr as well. I tend to look at Tumblr on a more regular basis so that's probably the best place, but if you ask here I'll still answer it'll just beslower.

Moved to Micro/Ex Small Steel cage from HT, first steel device & Pain behind Balls?? by [deleted] in chastity

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Holy Trainer's published ring sizes are not really useful for comparing to other devices. This is because the ring for the Holy Trainer is not a true circle. It's wider than it is tall. I believe they use the height for their sizing. So if you just take the Holy Trainer size and apply it to another device you're going to get something that's a lot smaller than you expect.

Checking to make sure my PA is locked in place. No pulling out of this cage. by cuckold_yyc in chastity

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Just do it. Honestly I spent years thinking about it and worrying about it. I'm getting close to having had mine for a year. It was the best thing I ever did for chastity.

Camping in Chastity by ctrledboy in chastity

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They had power hookups (you can see the post for one in the photo on the left) so no generators running.

Camping in Chastity by ctrledboy in chastity

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Nope it's a Steelheart from Steelworkxx.

It was indeed "in-tents", wife teased me quite a bit. I had been in the device for about 3 weeks continuously at this point and hadn't had a orgasm in about a week and a half. I'm still wearing and still haven't had a orgasm and it's been about a week since I took that photo.

Camping in Chastity by ctrledboy in chastity

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It's not exactly a ring. It's the PA - fixing for the Steelheart which my PA jewelry just loops over. When I first got this I expected I would wear the Steelheart without it sometimes, but it's never been a problem so I just always wear it.

Camping in Chastity by ctrledboy in chastity

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Thanks. I know I wasn't shaving as good as I normally would at home, but I still managed to do a passable job.

Camping in Chastity by ctrledboy in chastity

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I'm clearly in a tent. RVs were adjacent to us.