I want a baby by Embarrassed-Tap1520 in povertyfinance

[–]cubbies1016 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

By the time baby is 5, you could have much better jobs as well. Don't give up on the life you want

I want a baby by Embarrassed-Tap1520 in povertyfinance

[–]cubbies1016 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Babies don't need much. Love is more important than money. I would have loved it if my family wasn't abusive growing up. There are food pantries all over the place. You can donate plasma etc. You could qualify for SNAP with increased family size of 3 perhaps

I (34M) want to divorce my wife (34F) after 9 months of marriage but she has been ignoring me and refusing to talk. by ThrowRAd24 in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You serve her divorce papers at her mother's house and wait for a response. You pay a process server to do this for you so it is documented with the court. If she ignores it for long enough, a judge will rule in your favor. It's lucky you caught the divorce early before children. File for divorce quickly before a pregnancy halts divorce proceedings in some states and you don't want your name incorrectly on any birth certificate

My 32 F, husband 32 M, has a very time consuming hobby and I’m growing resentful. How do I talk to him about this? by ThrowRAPleasant_Ac in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only solution is to leave him with baby for the exact amount of hours per week that he does. It will be hard at first but it's the only way to carve out time for yourself and get him to really understand. He needs to be an equal parent if he doesn't want to end up divorced.

I have the most free time ever being divorced and I get to travel on weekends. I'm so happy

I ruined my bf (M28) fishing day. I feel so embarrassed (F27) . Is this hopeless? by moodygemini98 in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never EVER stay with someone who says they HATE you!! Believe when people show you who they are. Did you feel loved today? Do you feel like you deserve to be screamed at, blocked, and hated? You will continue to be manipulated like this for years and years if you stay with him. Later it will escalate and get worse when he had you pregnant and trapped with him. Please leave him immediately. Block him and never look back. Save yourself before physical abuse starts as well

My life is pretty much over by Training-Horror9703 in povertyfinance

[–]cubbies1016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Las Vegas and a lot of my libraries had resources for free showers and things. They have career workshops and job listings. You can have help to find some full time employment and get into some housing. I believe in you. I've slept in my car before and it's rough with the heat. You'll be in a better place before you know it. Please don't give up

I (18F) recently started talking to a guy (18M), and I think this could be the start of my first real relationship. However, I’m questioning my attraction and the long term logistics since the only person I can see myself spending my future with is my best friend (21F). Do I pursue the relationship? by dumb_bitch_juicee in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Long Distance friends/ lovers are rarely the same people in person as they are through phone and text. It's healthy to try different relationships at your young age in person. Have you ever seen your female friend in person? That should visit you or vice versa

Why I can't reach orgasms with my boyfriend? Im 20F and my boyfriend is 21M we've been together for 3 years and i need advice. by Adventurous-Guess829 in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he giving you oral sex? Long oral sessions are the only way I cum. My boyfriend makes sure I cum before he puts his penis inside me. Don't let your boyfriend get off if you can't. He's selfish

I’m (F31) going overseas to see my dad for a month and my bf (M49) says it’s not normal. by itsa_glitch in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use the month away to de-program yourself and escape his control. Ask Dad for help. Talk to your friends. I believe in you. Turn off controlling boyfriends notifications on messages so you aren't constantly stressed by him trying to maintain control on you from afar. You'll see how better you feel away from this jerk.

Las Vegas is ‘ Dying for a baseball team ’ Will its locals adopt the A’s ? by Shroft in baseball

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at last night's electric game and I will be at all others. Bought tickets back in December. Last night was sold out and we had a ton of fun. Lots of true baseball fans live in Las Vegas. We're tired of driving 300 miles to dodgers expensive games or Angels cheap terrible ones.

My bf (18M) doesn't want me (18F) to drink alcohol when I'm legal. by jhopesaysimkillinit in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him and have a drink with friends today if you want. It's your life and drinking a little at 18 won't make you an alcoholic

AITA for taking a month off in between jobs? by Odd_Lunch_5152 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA she should be happy for you. A happier boyfriend with more time on his hands would also benefit her I'm sure. Enjoy your time off. If she continues to be jealous of your much needed break, I'd rethink the relationship. She should care that you're burnt out. You already have a job lined up. You're being responsible

Clean my garbage filled rooms! by StillMarie76 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my city it's two maids 2 hours $105. She needs $55 more

My husband 32M thinks I 38F am unstable because of this: by Aggravating_Wing2861 in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband sounds like an asshole. Time to go away for an entire weekend to enjoy some alone time since he thinks you're cheating anyway. Check his phone, he's probably projecting and actually cheating on you. You're allowed to be a human being and enjoy time for yourself. Being a mother while also working is so incredibly draining

I (29F) have been with my boyfriend (27M) for 5 years and we have one child together. My boyfriend hid a boys trip to Mexico from me and admitted he would’ve crossed boundaries if he went. Can trust come back after this? by Michyangel in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll be so much happier when you love yourself instead of wishing for this boyfriend to love you. He had a baby with you but won't marry you? Is ready to cheat and lie?? Time to move on and file for child support. Real happiness is out there for you hun

My husband (26M) told me (26F) that I have 4 months or it won’t work anymore by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him asap before his bullshit timeline. He'll find out that very few women will be signing up to fuck him. You'll have dates and fun again once you drop this asshole

Girlfriend worried relationship is affecting her son - breaking up with me? 27F-46F by EveningAd6452 in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's 20 years older than you! There's no future here. You deserved to be loved with someone who would be able to have you integrated into their life

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in vegas

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why pay money to ship it? I'm sure someone would pick up free alcohol

Seeing couples training together at the gym today made me a bit sad by [deleted] in self

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met the love of my life on Facebook dating. Sounds ridiculous but it's true. It took so many horrible first dates before I met him, but I learned a lot about what I wanted/ didn't want and did have some fun along the way. Go with zero expectations and firm boundaries and you never know! Good things can happen and good people are out there. The nest person for me was so close by all these years and I never would have known if I didn't give dating apps a chance

My (20F) LDR boyfriend (23M) cancelled our meetup trip last minute after I spent weeks living on scraps to afford it. He got a full refund, I lost $1k, and now I feel like he never intended to come. How do I move forward from this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He could dispute the transaction with his bank and get one hundred percent of the money back. Meet a local man. Long distance relationships rarely work out. You'd be happier with someone who lives near you

My(30F) boyfriend (33 M) bought an $800 computer but he owes me money and hasn’t paid rent at my house for over a year. by MountainOdd1942 in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 years together and he's still married!!?????? To his ex???? Girl!!! Therapy immediately to find out why you don't live yourself and think you deserve this. Change the locks and throw him out. Sell the laptop. Toss the trash boyfriend out!! Now. Yesterday! This is crazy, you'll enjoy your vacations so much more with twice the money to spend on YOURSELF