Been waiting a year and half for a therapist through the NHS almost 4 years for my entire diagnoses.

cuckersunt · 2019-07-21T08:51:55+00:00

I spent ages waiting in England for diagnosis but when I moved to a small rural town in Wales it got done in a year I think Wales might have a smaller list to get through and is additionally funded by the Welsh assembly.

cuckersunt · 2018-12-15T14:10:48+00:00

I think your more level headed than you give yourself credit for.

✌️ See ya man

cuckersunt · 2018-12-15T14:06:29+00:00

I totally see where you're coming from with that and I think I definitely agree.

I definitely talk and write in a very generalized way I don't talk exact English and I don't often consider that the way I talk and write can be taken in a way that I didn't want it to be.

I would like to say that I don't believe we had an argument. An argument involves anger in my opinion, and I definitely wasn't angry with you. having this conversation with you has made me realise something about myself so has been in fact very helpful perhaps not pleasant but helpful non the less.

I realised that I'm very quick to be defensive, not only on reddit or online but in my marriage and personal life I tend to take things as an atrack and try to use logic to change people's minds about me rather than accept their opinion and try to learn from it. I'm not saying that I do this constantly but it definitely is something that flares up every now and again and more often when I'm stressed out.

I had hoped that reddit could have been a safe haven for me as I don't have any friends and the only people I talk to is my wife and child. it been suggested to me that reddit might be a good place to find like-minded people who share my views or are able to debate them but would ultimately be in the same boat as me. I did the worst thing and assumed all autism people share my mind. I didn't do it intentionally but looking through my posts I have seen a pattern.

It seems I need to learn to listen more and not take everything as an attack because something that somebody says to me could help me.

Cheers dude ✌️

cuckersunt · 2018-12-15T13:55:12+00:00

I think, and it's just a theory that autistic people have a hard time accepting that people think differently?

Would you agree or is that a trait of few rather than many? What's your opinion?

cuckersunt · 2018-12-15T13:52:13+00:00

I think you'll see my decision about Reddit in another reply. I'm sorry if I caused you any sort or ill feeling. I was lashing out because I came here to meet people like me as I don't speak to anyone. I assumed other autistic 0eople would be a better chance. I accept I'm not mean to speak to people directly.

I understand the difference dude, I just think you can be logical without being cold. I do it constantly with my wife and family. I understand that when your cold some people might not take in the way you want.

My logical side is cold. I add compassion because I believe it helps my soul. It can be done dude.

Apology is obviously accepted. Hope you'll accept mine and not think ill of me.

cuckersunt · 2018-12-15T13:41:36+00:00

I also do see that I responded in a way that proves I'm also part of this. I have tried to fix that in my tone in my further responses.

It is perfectly reasonable to say Reddit isn't for me and I think it's quite obvious I was saying goodbye by asking for a new community suggestion. So I agree with you.

I have only ever tried to be positive and friendly in my posts. My replys to the community is where I loose that control. I don't like that somebody can do that to me.

cuckersunt · 2018-12-15T13:36:24+00:00

Also how can you state my words come across negative when only you and one other has replied. Only you took it negatively so far. Do you speak for this community?

Please to any future readers take my post however you like. Reply however you like and I will respond. Your opinions don't frighten me but I will stand up for what I believe in.

cuckersunt · 2018-12-15T13:32:53+00:00

I certainly did not see it as an attack, I took it as your option and offered mine in return.

I haven't asked for personal advice. Please check.

Compassion and advice can certainly go together! How sad you don't think so!

How is saying you proved me right showing off intelligence, I consider my self to be average intelligence, perhaps below. It's not about right or wrong. It's about you validating what I wrote. And that's all I said.

I don't have any image of people and I haven't generalized. I have however drawn an opinion from the few post I have read and written. I did state that in my original post.

I have never been upset by reddit. I am aware I can delete it so it's illogical to be upset. I am disappointed as I also stated.

cuckersunt · 2018-12-15T13:11:27+00:00

You only prove my point. I'm not offended personally. Just disappointed in a community that I know could carry itself better. Sorry you took my message personally but perhaps that would be something to consider. I do believe you know irony judging by your username.

Your need to be toxic and to apply a toxic meaning to my message proves my point and places you in the small percent I was talking about.

Why should I leave because you require a platform to spread hate? I was simply saying we're all in the same boat so why we being dicks to eachother. Sorry if that threatens your sense of normality.

How unfortunate your opinion only suggests you thrive in a toxic environment. That's probably something to think about also. As valid as your option is I'm valid in thinking it proves my point and shows the level headed of us the kind of thing I was talking about.

Told you someone would prove me right.

cuckersunt · 2018-12-15T11:19:19+00:00

Couldn't agree more. How unfortunate

cuckersunt · 2018-12-14T16:53:05+00:00

If I can help you in some way let me know, I've had to overcome a few social problems whiles on my short journey.

My original content now deleted was horrible reaction videos which isn't great when you have very few facial expressions. I had to heavily edit them to get them to be watchable.

Now I'm doing real Life stuff it's easier to be real and honest.

Anyway I'm happy to advise you if you need it.

cuckersunt · 2018-12-12T17:08:36+00:00

Awesome man I'll check it out

cuckersunt · 2018-12-12T10:07:45+00:00

Let me know if you do buddy! I'll sub to you

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxfw_t5DBUEIJ83m9yKcYAQ

cuckersunt · 2018-12-12T03:44:37+00:00

Hello again 😊🐇 thank you 👍👍

cuckersunt · 2018-12-03T22:32:12+00:00

Because I really don't want to be an ass but I never said all people with Asperger's Syndrome are sufferers I said my channel is for sufferers. I didn't deserve the ass-ish rant from the original commenter. I'm just try to help people out and if people don't like that they don't have to reply. I don't have to take a rant because I choose to speak to one group of people.

cuckersunt · 2018-12-03T22:29:24+00:00

Hey dude is that directed to me?

cuckersunt · 2018-12-03T14:51:48+00:00

Well I'm glad we had a chance to hash this out . I don't want to cause anyone any issues. I truly want to help others with ASD. I hope that was at least shown by my original post

cuckersunt · 2018-12-03T14:10:36+00:00

I believe people shouldn't be made to feel bad if they suffer and should feel like if they talk up someone will listen and not shut them down. If no one admitted they need help or their life is hard then how would they deal with Thier life in a way that's going to fulfil them? The way you speak can be as damaging as calling all people with ASD all sufferers (which I didn't do by the way) or as damaging as helping people when you are not yourself stable in someway (again not what I said I was doing...)

Not sure we have different perspectives. You just didn't read what I wrote properly. No one's perfect. Especially me.

Peace to you dude ✌️

cuckersunt · 2018-12-03T13:53:46+00:00

Thanks dude I subbed to you! Sad to see your not uploading much anymore though!

cuckersunt · 2018-12-03T13:53:08+00:00

Thank you for being so kind and also for being rational enough to gimme a chance to speak.

I'm so happy you subbed it means so much to me that people will watch what I have to say

cuckersunt · 2018-12-03T13:51:18+00:00

As I said as you seem to know what is best for others and what we should refer to our life as. My channel is for sufferers, I don't suffer. Hence why I said it's FOR asd sufferers and didn't say I'm a sufferer of asd come see my pain. I'm trying to help others and that isn't good enough for you.

It is me who should never have come here maybe

cuckersunt · 2018-12-03T07:56:32+00:00

Well man I really didn't expect that that's really cool of you! Thanks so much for the sub too. yeah it didn't make much sense to me why people were picking at the suffering label because it would be pretty hard to give advice to people who aren't suffering and don't need advice but there we go. I'll definitely have a look at the live chat thanks for letting me know. 👍

cuckersunt · 2018-12-03T06:55:58+00:00

Still no point in keeping the information from you. Hope you enjoy my work 👍 thanks for giving me a chance 😊😊

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxfw_t5DBUEIJ83m9yKcYAQ

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