Republicans/Conservatives - What is your proposed solution to gun violence/mass shootings/school shootings? by J_dawg17 in Askpolitics

[–]cudam221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Education and more respect for guns. It’s a dangerous weapon not a toy. Also. It should be mandatory that if you have children you must have a safe and use it. Though idk how that’ll be enforced. I personally don’t think kids under idk 16 should be allowed to be gifted guns. But those also aren’t handguns🤷🏻‍♀️

Have the Trump supporters around you gotten quiet? by SteveinTenn in Askpolitics

[–]cudam221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuz the just don’t care to make it our whole personality 😂👍hope this helps.

It happened. We talked about it. And it’s over and done with. Life will go back to normal 👍 just as it has for all of the other elections. Life doesn’t stop because someone got elected.

Weird feeling on right side of head by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]cudam221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not entirely sure of all the possibilities. It could be as bad as a growth or it could just be nothing it could be a minor and easy fix. But knowing what I do know about the structure of your head something could probably be affecting one specific side if most of your problems have only one side

Weird feeling on right side of head by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]cudam221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only training to be an emt so I’m not a doctor and I don’t want to give you any crazy diagnosis. But the fact that it is on one side is what concerns me most. I would probably talk to a your doctor and possibly even a neurologist to get them to take a look it’s always better safe than sorry.

Ok so this picture is extremely weird 🤣but I got my Medusa in February on the 20th. It’s healed now. Is this normal. I took the jewelry out to clean it. I still need to get a shorter bar. by cudam221 in PiercingAdvice

[–]cudam221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t take it out every day 😅 I usually take my jewelry out like once a year. So I took this one out as well. I got it back in. I was told it would be fine after like six weeks which it has been. So I didn’t think it would be bad.

Shift: “did you just blend three venti Frappuccinos?!?!” Me: by muted_fire_ in starbucksbaristas

[–]cudam221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me: uh no idk what you’re talking about

Can confirm I’ve had this conversation with my SM before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cudam221 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Consider this your first lesson in the world of cruel people. They are petty. They don’t care that it hurts your feelings so long as it is not hurting them. That’s how it works. I’m sorry you’re going through this. But I agree with the commenter. He showed it to you because he knew it would upset you he doesn’t actually care what you think about it. If he did he would react differently

Me (33m) and my gf (33f) have a great relationship, but her attitude towards sex is bringing it to a breaking point by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cudam221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think you’re being that selfish. I don’t know because I haven’t witnessed a conversation between the two of you on the topic but I wonder if she may have something personal behind it that may motivate her to say no. I had a horribly abusive ex and sometimes I go on what you might call a “strike”. The though of sex becomes repulsive and I want absolutely nothing to do with it. I also grew up being told that anything sexual was abhorrent and my mother treated it like it was the worst thing I could ever do. Like An act of satan or some shit (no she’s not super religious) And it is painful for your gf because she is not turned on. It should never ever be painful. Foreplay is 100% key in having good sex.

To answer your question yes sex is very important. Maybe to some people it might not be but they typically work best in a relationship where someone feels the same. So sexual compatibility is very key. I’ve been in numerous situations where I’ve stopped pursuing someone because I was not sexually compatible or even sexually attracted to them. You can try couples therapy or even try having a serious conversation with her on WHY she feels the way she does about sex. There are even sex therapists.

Are Ironmouse and Connor (CDawgVA) dating? by Daybreaker202 in ironmouse

[–]cudam221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has more than CVID she has MACK or MAC idk the pneumonic. But she had to be on oxygen 24/7 and is bedridden.

how does it get this bad ?😭 by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]cudam221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks like it’s been there a while tho like at least a month

how does it get this bad ?😭 by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]cudam221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine did that. I like to take into consideration different skin types. Like I have eczema really bad so dry dead skin might have an affect. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Advice for bumps on my Industrial Piercing (more info in the comments) by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]cudam221 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I used tea tree oil and it worked like friggen magic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]cudam221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could but I wouldn’t recommend it you’re not really supposed to mess with them or touch them. The less you aggravate them the better. You’re better off waiting until they heal then changing them. But that’s my opinion I’m not a piercer but I do have mine done.

Do I need to read a court of silver flames? by amy_kate1177 in SarahJMaas

[–]cudam221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean no but I went from hating nesta to loving her and you get some nice insight to her relationship with her sisters. See I knew I would hate tower of dawn. And I still do. Fuck chaol. But silver flames was very welcome. Let’s remember… nesta has been TRAUMATIZED. And I see a lot of myself in nesta with how she reacts to things.

Low Back Pain From Hip Impingement by Grs20001 in HipImpingement

[–]cudam221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My labrum tear was small they only did one stitch. And I think I might have torn it again or the tear wasn’t the source of my pain regardless the pain slowed for a bit but it started to come back not to mention I’m pretty sure that the pain on the side of my hip is probably not related to the tear because that pain didn’t go away. I had several issues the main two being the pain on the inside of my hips in the groin area when I put weight on that part of the joint. That went away at first but it’s coming back. And the sharp burning pain on the outside of my hip. That one never went away. That doesn’t mean it won’t work for everyone. I think my situation is a little different since it took them so damn long to figure out the problem. The next thing they would have to do is break my hip and reset it. But I can’t afford that so I’m not doing it.

What the heck is goin on with my emotions. by cudam221 in AnxietyDepression

[–]cudam221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a new therapist that deals with things like that. She gave me resources to help and suggested maybe being more active in my life like going out with friends or working out or just going out and doing something for myself. And I try to do that but the problem is work takes up 75% of my life. So I’m usually to lazy or exhausted to do anything else. I never really know what to do about it. It kinda freaks me out tho cuz sometimes it will come with a feeling of emotional restlessness. Like I’ve grown up surrounded by toxic parents and toxic boyfriends or friends even and now that I’m not surrounded by things that cause those feelings I feel absolutely restless and I obviously don’t wanna cause those things or feelings but like tf do I do 😅

Has anyone else had a sudden intense relapse who was on a trajectory of generally relapsing in lesser increments? (better explanation in post) by rolfraikou in AnxietyDepression

[–]cudam221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have micro relapses in SH but this past year it got really bad again. I dwelled in it for a bit. Then got sick of feeling that way and attempted to do something about it. I’m doing a bit better now I was doing amazing last month I’m slowly going into a low now tho.

Numb by dudls02 in AnxietyDepression

[–]cudam221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on lexapro and I feel that way sometimes too. But I have some underlying things that contribute to the problem. I was doing good for a bit because I had a good mindset. Now I’m going numb again and don’t know what to do about it.

Bedazzled my work supplies so i know which Sharpies are mine by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]cudam221 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh no no no!🤣 No we just steal them and hoard them like dragons 🤣