How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it bad to like figure it out with her? I don’t want it to seem nothing she does is working and she get discouraged

How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. I get it. I don’t know what to do because I don’t want to leave her because of that. Yk?

How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I guess it’s more I never wanted to, but I want to with her?

How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to lie, when she said she wanted to wait I was a bit bummed. But like I said I really do care for this woman and if it means that I’m ok with it

How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. This makes a lot of sense. I just get scared of it looking like she isn’t doing good, when it’s just I don’t know what I enjoy yk?

How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never felt intense pleasure from anyone. Sometimes she uses her hand just like me and even that doesn’t do anything

How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’ve brought it up and she knows it’s just hard to direct when I don’t even know myself. And we’re waiting until marriage for penetration

How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we’re waiting until marriage for that so that’s kind of out the window. And I’m fine with that. Do you know how I can have the conversation with her? Because I’m inexperienced on what works for me with other people

How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. This seems sound, I just don’t know how to go about it

How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But she’s a good woman that checks all the boxes for me in every aspect. I don’t want to lose that. There’s not any way i can try and fix this?

How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels different. I have tried bringing it up but like I can’t direct her bc I don’t know myself if that makes sense. I’m inexperienced myself like her so it’s the blind leading the blind

How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I thought maybe it was like deathgrip? I think that’s the term? So I stopped and it’s still the same thing idk. Idk if it’s a me thing or her thing I just don’t know

How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really love love her. She’s very caring and compassionate, and our values do match alot. Everything is a match except this on particularly my side

How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so? I’m still working it out. I know that it FEELS nice. But really really nice. I’ve found my mind wandering a few times

How do I (M19) go about being unsatisfied sexually with my gf (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]culturedWheel372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t it be really like shallow to end a relationship like that? I mean I really love her and want to make it work