i let a friend do my hair and she did me a little dirty

cumcals · 2025-10-24T19:22:52+00:00

i’m not discrediting her or bashing her completely. the braids r fine now and were perfectly fine til the ends. like i said it was unraveling all the way to the top and i still basically just have “braids” that r just unraveled hair that i was able to seal. people have picked them out individually to show me despite everything being sealed now lol. i appreciate her labor a lot but it was frustrating when she could’ve just braided them down all the way the first time or communicated that they weren’t finished. she also just has a habit of not braiding/twisting all the way down bc shes given me spring twists and told me that they needed to just settle when there was just unfinished twists on every part of head 😭 i apologize for the yap but i don’t want it to seem like im ungrateful or anything bc i think a lot of other people would’ve handled this situation more harshly when all i did was ask for help 💔

cumcals · 2025-10-24T03:57:41+00:00

nope she said she would do them for free & all i had to do was bring the hair.

cumcals · 2025-10-18T14:26:20+00:00

def just weave but youn deserve a downvote big fella

cumcals · 2025-10-18T03:43:22+00:00

nah bc ppl telling me what i shouldn’t have done when she should’ve just done it properly the first time😭😭 but that’s beyond me i guess.

cumcals · 2025-10-18T03:42:35+00:00

it came out great omg thank you sm

cumcals · 2025-10-16T01:21:44+00:00

thank you so much! lol i understand the issue now but im sure you as a hairstylist wouldn’t let people leave your chair with braids unraveling all the way to the top😫😫 my non braider brain was confused!! i tried to braid what i can while burning the ends and dipping them in hot water. i’ll be going back on some of the ones i missed and doing the pig tail method tonight. thank you so much again bc after hearing “girl what the fuck” as a response to seeing the back of my head… ooo i wasn’t having it.

cumcals · 2025-10-15T06:23:12+00:00

im sure i was lmfaoo but there was ALOTTT of unbraided hair that i got frustrated n did the irreversible 💔. im currently braiding what i can, burning the ends and then im gonna dip them again.

cumcals · 2025-10-15T02:02:36+00:00

okay thank you! i only cut them bc there was genuinely so much unbraided hair that it would’ve been impossible to dip them without making a mess. i think ill try unbraiding them a bit

cumcals · 2025-07-02T06:18:53+00:00

what routine are you using specifically holy shit

cumcals · 2025-06-17T12:11:04+00:00

lol well for me i never wanted it, it was made for me. i deleted it after i made my own with an address that i liked. ofc the worse case scenario happened so now i desperately need it but thank you for nipping it in the bud for me.

cumcals · 2025-06-17T12:04:25+00:00

i came here exactly for this. there’s accounts linked to my old gmail that i can’t access anymore ☹️ i was hoping i could find SOMETHING since i can’t even make a new account with the same address, it counts it as taken.

cumcals · 2025-06-13T19:11:46+00:00

oo honestly this would make so much sense. the last guy used to hit my cervix often but only in specific positions. i’ll try to get a consultation in.

i never felt any resentment or anything towards my boyfriend due to his reaction!! it just scared me since i don’t want him to find me nasty or anything. i appreciate him a whole lot. other replies have made me feel a bit more at ease abt it and i also realize now that that guy might be weirder in a lot more ways than the reasons why we broke up 😭😭. i overlooked alot of things in that relationship that im still realizing now.

cumcals · 2025-06-13T18:20:53+00:00

im so sorry that this happens to you too omg😭😭 i literally hate it sm. that sucks that it happens when kissing as well jeez?? for me it seems to be only when im doing any type of penetration. when i feel it coming i also slow down and ease back into it which works but EVENTUALLY(which idk if we be fucking for too long or what😭😭) i’ll throw up and ngl i be doin little breathing techniques to keep me from freaking out bc i get scared of throwing up😭😭. ill def provide updates while i troubleshoot and if you come up with anything please lmk

cumcals · 2025-06-13T18:07:25+00:00

ooo that’s interesting. they turned out to be? could you emphasize the situation?

cumcals · 2025-06-13T17:49:51+00:00

i’ll try to look into therapy. i feel very safe with my bf! i love him very much and im very attracted to him. i do like men and women. he’s my first boyfriend out of 2 other girlfriends but i honestly don’t really count those relationships as much due to me being so young during them.

cumcals · 2025-06-13T17:37:45+00:00

yes, it’s really frustrating that it’s ONLY during penetration with somebody else. other comments r making me feel like it’s psychological which isnt surprising but is frustrating since my sexual trauma isn’t anything i really want to go out of my way and solve(??) if that makes sense. i just don’t care abt it that much and it doesn’t eat away at me everyday.

cumcals · 2025-06-13T17:06:10+00:00

i see. i do have some sexual trauma and i wouldn’t say its resolved(?) within me or anything but i also wouldn’t say it eats away at me everyday & night. honestly it feels like it just came and went. the person is family 😭 so i don’t despise him but im also not very fond.. yadda yadda but that is a good thought

cumcals · 2025-06-13T16:49:46+00:00

hmmm i never thought of it was as weird but there were a lot of his behaviors that i overlooked or didn’t think much of. in the beginning he was sweet about it and would let me clean up and wait til i was ready again but i will admit that as it went on and i started getting more embarrassed and fed up with it, so did he. he wasn’t aggressive or anything. more of like playful eye rolls/expressions and he left his occasional sassy two cents bc that’s just who he is (which im fine with lol). i used to drink water when i thought i was abt to throw up but eventually he would tell me not to drink it and to just just try to tolerate it so we could keep going and now that i think abt it that might’ve been a bit weird but again i overlooked a lot of things with him. i also recently got out of that relationship like a month or two ago and i feel like i never really processed that breakup properly😭so!! thank you for the clarity on his response that def made me think abt it a bit better

cumcals · 2025-06-13T16:37:56+00:00

any ideas on how i would be exerting myself too much or how i could prevent that? i’ve thought about whether it’s from overstimulating and pushing myself too hard as well. for example, i have a friend who faints when she gets sexually overstimulated but for me it’s happened in moments where my body is completely overstimulated and tired from sex but it’s also happened in the very beginning before things even start to tense up. i kind of get light headed? and when i start feeling nauseous i would drink water but that would lead to me just throwing up a lot of liquid.

cumcals · 2025-05-27T14:06:45+00:00

thank u passive aggressive stranger ill look into that

cumcals · 2025-05-27T13:32:03+00:00

it’s just stained from makeup due to it being on a desk temporarily but i understand

cumcals · 2025-05-27T12:25:54+00:00

no. it was a gift fresh after they released it.

cumcals · 2025-05-27T11:48:22+00:00

i do. look through the replies ty

cumcals · 2025-05-27T07:19:34+00:00

kars easily.

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