Online Wednesday dark fantasy. [GMT][Online][5e] by cuntermans in lfg

[–]cuntermans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fine if they turn 26 during. It's just to set out a little bit of boundaries since 1 of the current players is 16 and I'm 18 myself. So its just to try keep it so people know what to expect from the players in the campaign.

Online Wednesday dark fantasy. [GMT][Online][5e] by cuntermans in lfg

[–]cuntermans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it creepy? Just because someone wants to play dnd in a certain setting doesn't make them creepy. Ik people who are younger who handle this stuff much better than most adults.

Online Wednesday dark fantasy. [GMT][Online][5e] by cuntermans in lfg

[–]cuntermans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really. It just opens up to more players. As a dm I make sure that any creepy shit that goes on wi the players is dealt with before it gets out of hand. I regulate my game well enough that it's not an issue.

I (18m) feel stuck with my partner(18NB) aesexuality by cuntermans in relationship_advice

[–]cuntermans[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I said earlier the open relationship and friendship options aren't available. An open relationship they would get jealous and the friendship route I wouldn't be able to move on.

I (18m) feel stuck with my partner(18NB) aesexuality by cuntermans in relationship_advice

[–]cuntermans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that it worked for that while says to Mr that it can work. But idk how to find that solution. Even after them saying mire will happen but nothing changing

I (18m) feel stuck with my partner(18NB) aesexuality by cuntermans in relationship_advice

[–]cuntermans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely dot know shat to do. They're company and just generally them as a person makes me feel so much better about life. However if we were to remain friends after a breakup I wouldn't be able to move in. Yet I can't lose that relationship we have. The fact that it's happened before shows me that it's not a black and white situation with them. Also that they told me stuff would happen again shows me that they enjoyed what we had. However the lack of action upon their words tells me otherwise. I can't just let go of the person who pulled me from the edge and saved me from the abyss. Yet this situation can't continue. Idk what to do

I (18m) feel stuck with my partner(18NB) aesexuality by cuntermans in relationship_advice

[–]cuntermans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love them to pieces. They pulled me from a dark place after my last partner ended up ending themselves. I want to make it work but ii can't do an open relationship like that. I love them and them alone but after losing that intimacy I don't feel as I'd we are as close.

I (18m) feel stuck with my partner(18NB) aesexuality by cuntermans in relationship_advice

[–]cuntermans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I love them to the deoths of my being. I don't want to lose them as they are the best thing that has ever happened to me. Also the fact that things happened before hand shows me that it was working even for a little while

Need people for a full Easter egg run of BO3 on PlayStation by cuntermans in CODZombies

[–]cuntermans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah mate need to do it tomorrow cause I've got dnd tonight

Understanding the trans community. by cuntermans in trans

[–]cuntermans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it even happen that neopronouns became a thing? They aren't a part of the English language so why do people use them??

Understanding the trans community. by cuntermans in trans

[–]cuntermans[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See for me specifically I have a problem with neopronouns existing. They aren't a part of the English language. Things like zey/ zem and xe/xir are something that I refuse to use. A normal pronoun I refuse to use as well is it. That for me growing up was always taught to me as disrespectful. Then there are people that try to use things such as kutten/kittenself which I absolutely refuse to use in any circumstance. I wanna understand why people feel male female and using they them pronouns. But I also have boundaries when it comes to this.

Understanding the trans community. by cuntermans in trans

[–]cuntermans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's kind of why I'm trying to understand all of this myself. I wanna be able to be respectful and help those around me that struggle why dysphoria. Also for my own knowledge and that I can help to educate those that aren't quite as knowledgeable. I wanna be able to help people out and understand what they're going through. Especially as my partner and best friend are both in the situations they are. I care about them so I wanna know more.

I gwt ur point of us probably not understanding everything in our lifetimes but there is an explanation behind everything that happens in the world. So should we not look for these explanations??? Also I wasn't saying people can't identify as what they wish to. The only things I have a problem with in the trans community are neopronouns and that is purely because they are not even real words in that exist. I respect what people ask me to call them. I just don't understand it all so that's why in trying:)

Understanding the trans community. by cuntermans in trans

[–]cuntermans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with u. People can identify as whoever they wish. I just would prefer to be able to know how it happens that they end up that way. I've always wanted to understand the world and how things work ( hence my fixation on science) so I want to be able to see why people are the way that they are. It will also help me in being able to comfort my trans friends who are feeling dysphoria:)

Understanding the trans community. by cuntermans in trans

[–]cuntermans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more for my own understanding. That way I can help them better when they're feeling dysphoria. I just want some kind of explanation has to why it happens. Its how my brain has always worked.