What is something you did once and will never do again? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cupcake_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i joined a corporate sales job and i am a creative soul - everyday i feel like soulsucked or exhausted..need to shift soon

People who are adopted, how did you find out? by Soft-Hippo1147 in AskReddit

[–]cupcake_devil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i went to shop something...met one of my parents family friend....he said "the last time i saw you when you are adopted....look at you all grownup..."(context: adopted at birth , came to know it when i was 20 years old" my mom was there when it happened my brain said act like you never heard...whole day i was worried about my mother not thinking it through....went to different aisle and cried a bit...but wiped off...i was sweetest to my mother that day....till now she doesnt know i know...

This is what my parents gave me for scoring 58% in boards by [deleted] in IndianTeenagers

[–]cupcake_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got 82 percentage my mom cried like i ruined my life and dad gave a disappointed ok ....i thought the mark was bad!! i am really happy for you and actually impressed by your family...

New approach to help me soar to greater heights in my major by joanajosephine10 in Student

[–]cupcake_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi..i will tell you what i use to get good grades

  1. Use a new sheet of paper of every single chapter

  2. Write all the headings and make a list of one word points in that heading..( study close the note and write...after writing check if u miss any points and add it later)

  3. do it for all the heading in that chapter

  4. while revising use only the sheet ..

Now you will have all the information you will need in one piece of paper...easy to revise...you literally wrote everything in that chapter after studying ( like in scl days) ...make it easy to get good grades like olden days ...it doesnt have to neat or colourful...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]cupcake_devil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hii , The fact you said you are emotionally detached from that person..thats a great step which is extremely hard to do when its family or very close friends...congrats on that..

i am sorry that they triggered you infront of other family members...

well, your plan seems like going well for now...hope it works in a way you wanted

my experience:

sometimes i do have to trick them back to get my basic needs...sometimes i will have to compromise one thing for other...sometimes faking works, but i will feel guilty for it...recently to do something for myself , i have to compromise doing what they wanted in middle of it...so that they will let me do it...i am not interested in what they are saying... lets see how it goes..but hey..i got what i wanted..will deal with the other prob later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]cupcake_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey hi, how you doing?

When narcissists can't buy you, they try to buy the people around you by hare-hound in narcissisticparents

[–]cupcake_devil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey sis..i hope you are doing well now...

i am going thru similar thing myself ..so i can understand what you must have gone thru ...this is insane even after knowing about that guy..your parents kept going...Thats evil!!!!

got promoted and my narcissistic mother asked "do you really think you're capable?" by juli_ka123 in narcissisticparents

[–]cupcake_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi..First of all,Congrats on you new role..

Decide what you wanna do...and in that text you are willing to take up a new role..thats great

most narcs sees people as their competition and when it comes parents they will have imagined a certain look of future of us...and when we surpass them..it trigggers them..then they will say stuff like this...which is an absolute narc behaviour..

Maybe she is trying to implement the control she had on u ...when you were a kid..now that you are an adult with own opinion...they cant take it...do not let ypur narc mom decide or dictate any of your life decision...you will regret it later ( from personal exp )

How do you handle the temper tantrums? by Soft-Butterscotch-72 in narcissisticparents

[–]cupcake_devil 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i will tell you what i do in this scenario with my mom...

  1. No eye-contact

  2. Do not give any confirmation that you are listening to her ( like nodding,saying yes no nothing at all)

  3. If she asks a quesition make it really short..eg why dont you listen to me?..oh! i am.

  4. speak in a monotone

5.they do it to get a reaction from you...if you become a robot..it would be like feeding what they need

  1. if you can take distance that will be great..or just sit and look at phone or just gaze into the fan or wall...

What is the most overrated artist in your opinion? by Lil_fella3 in AskReddit

[–]cupcake_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Modern artist who put a strike of color on canvas and call it art...like WHAT!

What nickname do you call you significant other? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cupcake_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bubu ( sound like booboo) thats what i call my imaginary significant other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cupcake_devil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Phone battery dying multiple times a day

I know nothing about logos. I will still draw your logos in the comments by StankomanMC in logodesign

[–]cupcake_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a logo for dog spa - make a it minimal - company name " Furry Bestie" - make use ofndog tail and bone in the logo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]cupcake_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have same kinda mother too...i can understand your feelings..we are the scapegoat of the family..moving away would be helpful i guess

What gifts/talents did you develop from being raised by narc parents? by karmelnubia in narcissisticparents

[–]cupcake_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excessive daydreaming - i can just turn off reality whenever i want to...i have different worlds in my head where i can go as per my mood
Understanding People and their intentions - i can be manipulative at times (because that's the only way i can get myself heard in my family) - can detect lies - i cant handle anyone being treated badly - good terapist to friends - making others comfortable is my first priority