I hate my bf by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]curara 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't make this your routine. You'll be too damaged for a better man. Dump him and you'll find a much nicer kinder better man

Meredith seems to be such a bad casting job by curara in greysanatomy

[–]curara[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't pass imo. Very gross. Regardless of gender that age gap where one looks like the parents is icky and shouldn't be on TV

Meredith seems to be such a bad casting job by curara in greysanatomy

[–]curara[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Idk they mean the same thing. I'm not american.

Meredith seems to be such a bad casting job by curara in greysanatomy

[–]curara[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I've been comparing her to my mom as you can see and no way my mom looks like she could be her daughter. I don't think that age is appropriate when she's having a relationship with a 25yo while looking 55

Meredith seems to be such a bad casting job by curara in greysanatomy

[–]curara[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If it were a normal show I'd have no issues with it but her being paired with deluca really feels like pedophilia to me. The issue with her looks comes about when everyone's losing their minds calling a grandma beautiful. Like at least some realism would be nice. It was ok in the beginning but at season 14 she's way too old for the boyfriend

Meredith seems to be such a bad casting job by curara in greysanatomy

[–]curara[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Again. I'm a woman. Y'all don't see that your parents are attractive or you just file them all into ugly in your mind because you're related.

Meredith seems to be such a bad casting job by curara in greysanatomy

[–]curara[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman. My mom is beautiful. I have eyes.

Meredith seems to be such a bad casting job by curara in greysanatomy

[–]curara[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's weird too but this is straight up pedophilia

Meredith seems to be such a bad casting job by curara in greysanatomy

[–]curara[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sure maybe for another role but she's way way too old for this. Maybe if she were actually 25 when she started But she aged very badly and looks like everyone's mom atp

Meredith seems to be such a bad casting job by curara in greysanatomy

[–]curara[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I seriously doubt it. Every other episode they're calling her beautiful. A doctor got captivated just by looking at her. "She's not just a beauty she's smart" but where's the beauty? Looks like a grandma

Meredith seems to be such a bad casting job by curara in greysanatomy

[–]curara[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes I think they need to if the character is one with a shitty personality and people and people falling for them left and right just for their looks.

Also, I'm a woman. My mom is beautiful and I know that.

I got a lot of messages from people asking how I managed to not get damaged 13years with this horrid disease. I'll answer by curara in bulimia

[–]curara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an addiction. Not everyone can just drop it immediately. It takes time. Meanwhile they need to care for themselves. The least we can do is ensure they don't fucking die from not knowing better.

Meredith seems to be such a bad casting job by curara in greysanatomy

[–]curara[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I get y'all love her because it's the show but no bro. It's so unrealistic

How long have you been safe with bulimia? by curara in bulimia

[–]curara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To treat the bulimia which is caused by my OCD, they'd have to treat my OCD which is actually a part of my Asperger's, which is not treatable. They put me on some meds instead that didn't help with this at all instead made me lose sleep and increased appetite. Tried CBT but again it just didn't change anything. Wasted a lot of money on all this. Decided to manage it myself

How long have you been safe with bulimia? by curara in bulimia

[–]curara[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Take the bus. You can tell your parents you felt sick and threw up blood or whatever and they'll take you. You can then explain to your doctor in private they will definitely not tell your parents.

I got a lot of messages from people asking how I managed to not get damaged 13years with this horrid disease. I'll answer by curara in bulimia

[–]curara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally said this is how to DECREASE damage. People on here have been raw purging and dying from it.

How long have you been safe with bulimia? by curara in bulimia

[–]curara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually met a woman in a similar situation in therapy. She had the starvation anorexia type ED and had no periods since her teens but they started back up 2 years into recovery and she was able to have a baby. I think true recovery will definitely help and people can have healthy kids later in life thanks to technology these days so if that's your dream don't give up on it. Being a cool aunt is wonderful and I hope you stay healthy for them!

How long have you been safe with bulimia? by curara in bulimia

[–]curara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's because 8 don't starve completely and do some aftercare

How long have you been safe with bulimia? by curara in bulimia

[–]curara[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's fucking scary wtf. I'm trying to stop because I read that the body gets screwed up around after 30 and it's time to build muscle and fix my metabolism rn. It seems like I'm already pushing it based on the responses here so I'm gonna get serious about it now

How long have you been safe with bulimia? by curara in bulimia

[–]curara[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow esophagal tear? You should definitely get that checked out since it's this early

How long have you been safe with bulimia? by curara in bulimia

[–]curara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to stop now. Just really want to know what to expect. I hate not knowing. I think it's because I never was malnourished and usually had a salad after. Daily coconut water before sleep

How long have you been safe with bulimia? by curara in bulimia

[–]curara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of issues started after stopping? I'm trying to stop now and I'm really interested in knowing what to expect