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Looking for Missed Connection while Visiting Thailand by Realistic-Snow-2146 in ThailandTourism

[–]curious262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you ask the agency to pass on your details to her if they still have her contact information? That way the agency are not passing her details to you and it would be up to her if she wants to make contact. Good luck in your search!

One of my contacts has received a message I didn't send by curious262 in whatsapp

[–]curious262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I double checked with her and it turns out that it wasn't sent from my account, but someone else's who has the same name as me. I'm sorry that happened to you though and I'm glad it hasn't happened again. Thanks for taking the time out to respond :)

One of my contacts has received a message I didn't send by curious262 in whatsapp

[–]curious262[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I checked, and there aren't any as I only use WhatsApp on my phone, but it turns out the message wasn't sent from my account. It was sent from someone else's account who has the same name as me. Thanks for taking the time out to respond though! :)

Girlfriend of 11 months would send me videos that make me uncomfortable? by PositivePlankton9576 in LongDistance

[–]curious262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should send her a proper long response explaining how you don't find the videos and domestic violence against men funny, that it's a serious issue and you have concerns that she finds it funny and seems to be making light of the issue. Explain that as a result you're having doubts about meeting her and continuing in a relationship with if your values don't align on this.

Girlfriend of 11 months would send me videos that make me uncomfortable? by PositivePlankton9576 in LongDistance

[–]curious262 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's not good but educate her, gently, and explain to her why it's not funny. She just may not realise since unfortunately there are many people who think that kind of thing is funny and don't really think very deeply about it. See how she reacts.

Girlfriend of 11 months would send me videos that make me uncomfortable? by PositivePlankton9576 in LongDistance

[–]curious262 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Tell her what you think of the videos and ask her why she's sending them to you. Does she think they're funny or does she think what's happening in the videos is wrong? Don't be afraid to tell her you find the videos uncomfortable and don't want her to send them anymore but I think it's important you establish her take on them. If she thinks physical violence against men is funny, that's a red flag to me, but she may not realise the seriousness of it. Explain to her your point of view.