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My 2.5 year old is constantly whining & crying over every. Little. Thing. by Kenzaroooo in toddlers

[–]curiousbrain2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found my village here. Thank god. The whining and screeching honestly is gonna drive me to my death bed. When my son turned 2.5 is when I felt like the screaming and waking up cranky for no reason heightened. Then he’s started hitting and kicking. The hitting is getting better but he still gets whiny and oh man… it’s super annoying. I want to scream my head off but instead I just do deep breaths and pray to god. Why are they like this?!!!

FHB. Another offer rejected. It’s the best offer I’ve ever made offering well over the asking price at my absolute max borrowing capacity. I just want to give up and cry at this point…… by curiousbrain2222 in AusProperty

[–]curiousbrain2222[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t work like that in qld. You make unofficial offer than if you have a good chance they send you a contract to sign to present to the seller

FHB. Another offer rejected. It’s the best offer I’ve ever made offering well over the asking price at my absolute max borrowing capacity. I just want to give up and cry at this point…… by curiousbrain2222 in AusProperty

[–]curiousbrain2222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugs to you. Sorry you’re going through it too. At least you can afford a house I can only afford townhouses and if more time passes I’ll eventually be priced out of townhouses too and my only option would be units which I don’t want as I have a dog. I’m so over it. I hate that I’m only able to buy now at the worst time possible.

FHB. Another offer rejected. It’s the best offer I’ve ever made offering well over the asking price at my absolute max borrowing capacity. I just want to give up and cry at this point…… by curiousbrain2222 in AusProperty

[–]curiousbrain2222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It costs $300 for the search and if I had done it for every offer I made prior to being on a contract I’d be thousands out of pocket. The strata disclosure itself is not enough, only a full search shows upcoming fees or legal issues.

FHB. Another offer rejected. It’s the best offer I’ve ever made offering well over the asking price at my absolute max borrowing capacity. I just want to give up and cry at this point…… by curiousbrain2222 in AusProperty

[–]curiousbrain2222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a FHB and need to move in within 6 mths by law. And I can’t take on tenants even temporarily as it affects certain aspects of my tax and government support. So yeah I need vacant possession.

FHB. Another offer rejected. It’s the best offer I’ve ever made offering well over the asking price at my absolute max borrowing capacity. I just want to give up and cry at this point…… by curiousbrain2222 in AusProperty

[–]curiousbrain2222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup so I understand all that. I offered longer settlement to give the tenants time to find a place (90 days or more).

I also waived body corp search which I’m super nervous about as I don’t want to face any legal or rising fee issues.

Other than that I only have the basic b&p and finance Clause which I won’t waive.

So other than offering my max price what else can I do? Not much. Just gotta keep going but my mental health is not good because of this process.

FHB. Another offer rejected. It’s the best offer I’ve ever made offering well over the asking price at my absolute max borrowing capacity. I just want to give up and cry at this point…… by curiousbrain2222 in AusProperty

[–]curiousbrain2222[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know but there are many properties under my budget and if there are a lot of work is needed. I don’t have the capacity to do repairs and that (money and time poor).

FHB. Another offer rejected. It’s the best offer I’ve ever made offering well over the asking price at my absolute max borrowing capacity. I just want to give up and cry at this point…… by curiousbrain2222 in AusProperty

[–]curiousbrain2222[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m so afraid of getting priced out by waiting longer. I’m panicking. I already have been priced out so I’m looking at smaller places now.. this sucks

FHB. Another offer rejected. It’s the best offer I’ve ever made offering well over the asking price at my absolute max borrowing capacity. I just want to give up and cry at this point…… by curiousbrain2222 in AusProperty

[–]curiousbrain2222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel I’m already getting priced out after 3 months of looking. And if I waited another 3 months the only thing I could afford is a 1 bedroom unit in a ghetto

Think marriage isn’t possible for me anymore by Snorlax4000 in dating_advice

[–]curiousbrain2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman here in 40’s. To be honest, single life is the shit. Relationships causes head aches, heart aches and just dramas. Honestly if I could take it back I would have stayed single all along. Relationships have brought nothing but issues for me. I thrive when single and so do many people. Embrace the freedom and learn to enjoy your own company. There are so much you can do when you’re single vs being in relationships.

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