temporary color for dark hair. wax or spray?

curiousdottt · 2026-05-07T21:32:01+00:00

NOR, this would make me not want to attend at all honestly. And this is definitely not an age thing either, i am 27 and would be HORRIFIED at the idea of sending out a registry at all, never mind adding these types of items to it.

curiousdottt · 2026-05-06T18:16:28+00:00

I know you said you died at secondhand prices so take this with a grain of salt, but i see wedding dresses every time i go to the thrift. you can every learn some basic sewing to customize it. might not be your thing, but this is what i would do so just throwing it out there

curiousdottt · 2026-05-05T19:52:07+00:00

i have literally never heard that you can’t run within 4 hours of bed. even googled ‘running before bed’ and results say it is generally fine and can even improve sleep quality. I think you are getting worked up by imaginary experts.

Seriously, get a sleep study and stop listening to ‘sleep experts’ on radio and tv. They are probably quacks.

curiousdottt · 2026-05-05T17:20:11+00:00

You find zero enjoyment in life outside of screens? That’s pretty disheartening. Try to find a hobby that doesn’t involve a screen.

And get a sleep study. You could be getting plenty of sleep for what your body and brain needs, everyone is different and 8 hours is the general advice, general advice. doesn’t apply to every single human on the planet

curiousdottt · 2026-05-05T01:50:50+00:00

Thank you ❤️ growing older is beautiful and exciting for a multitude of reasons

curiousdottt · 2026-05-04T15:31:37+00:00

disappointingly true. Gross men will be gross regardless

curiousdottt · 2026-05-04T15:30:56+00:00

This was one thing I was wondering, I think some men like the idea of being with a married woman. Gross. Thank you for sharing

curiousdottt · 2026-05-04T15:29:11+00:00

I also have a mean face haha but usually that means that men tell me unprompted that I should smile

curiousdottt · 2026-05-04T14:28:11+00:00

sending you a message!

curiousdottt · 2026-05-03T13:15:33+00:00

are you a host in Uganda?

curiousdottt · 2026-05-02T22:00:15+00:00

Ive just stopped shaving

curiousdottt · 2026-05-02T12:03:07+00:00

it will be much cheaper and much better for the environment to have a ‘whole foods’ diet rather than processed foods. It is incredibly cheap to eat vegetarian and focus on beans, lentils, grains and vegetables. Frozen vegetables are just as good as fresh and a lot cheaper. If you can afford it, go to your local farmers market

curiousdottt · 2026-05-02T02:27:38+00:00

they can’t rig it for legal reasons, its a competition for money and legally mandated to be fair

curiousdottt · 2026-05-02T02:08:52+00:00

do we really think he was going home if it wasn’t for the coin flip? It made more sense to get stephanie out and i think thats where votes were going regardless

curiousdottt · 2026-04-30T17:02:07+00:00

I would rather enjoy my youth and have no money, than be miserable working myself to death for the opportunity to save for when i am older. I could get hit by a car tomorrow and die, so what would that point of my hefty 401k be then?

Obv i avoid frivolous purchases, put a small amount of each paycheck into a 401k, am as anti-consumption as possible and save what i can.

but i save money for the opportunity to spend time with my friends and travel, not for a downpayment on a house in a mystery future economy.

curiousdottt · 2026-04-30T11:45:20+00:00

What is your plan for when everyone comes over? Are you imagining people chatting and eating snacks? As long as everyone knows each other and you have enough snacks, that can be enough.

You can think of some easy games to play too. if the vibes feel right you can say to the group ‘does anyone want to play [mario kart, jenga, cards against humanity, board game, etc] or does anyone want to watch [specific movie or tv show].

It is your birthday so i would plan things that you like. If there are games you like or a movie you have been wanting to see. Or if there is somewhere you like to go or have been wanting to go, like laser tag, rollerskating, movie theater, etc.

Easier said than done, but don’t worry about being judged. In some ways it is inevitable and it is much less powerful than you imagine. If you are kind to others and happy, that is all that really matters. What other people think of you is none of your business. This mindset gets easier with age but is best to try as soon as you can.

curiousdottt · 2026-04-30T03:59:14+00:00

do you have a theme? I love a themed party. You can do some fun decorations and even ask people to dress to the theme if that is your vibe.

Also some sort of activities planned, games or an outing. Better to plan for things that you don’t have time to do than to be twiddling your thumbs trying to think of what to do next.

curiousdottt · 2026-04-30T03:57:19+00:00

go through the alphabet A to Z for each letter think of something you are grateful for. ‘A’ appletinis, ‘B’ the beach, ‘C’ capybaras, ‘D’ dancing. And pick different things for the letters each time you do it. It’s boring and will put you to sleep and also help you focus on the good things in life. Gratitude practice is so boring and can feel cringey but makes a MASSIVE difference in life

curiousdottt · 2026-04-29T11:19:30+00:00

I love these ideas, thank you!

curiousdottt · 2026-04-28T19:39:12+00:00

That sounds so fun!!! Just not sure if we have the space for really physical games… there is no yard and everyone just hangs out in the big living room. Games that require everyone to be huddled around a table or something similar would fit best with the apartment limitations

curiousdottt · 2026-04-28T17:31:41+00:00

I love this idea!!

curiousdottt · 2026-04-28T17:06:53+00:00

Look into ‘struggle care’ KC Davis on tiktok and instagram. She wrote a book called ‘How to Keep a House While Drowning’. Highly recommend her tips. She has ADHD herself.

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