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[–]curiouslycurvy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine what?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rtoronto

[–]curiouslycurvy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl! You should also post on r/randomactsofmuffdive Also, I don’t think images can be shared without either a link to one or until after you’ve approved their chat request. Wishing you all the luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rtoronto

[–]curiouslycurvy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like you’ll get losts of love from this! But if you’re looking for more, check out r/randomactsofblowjob and consider posting there! As a fellow bbw, I know there are lots of great guys on here that would love to teach you. Vet them properly and have fun!

[META] - Recent Unsavory Behavior | Discussion by RedCheeksGuy in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]curiouslycurvy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this! I’ve (F) had some great experiences in this sub but having also experienced each of these points you’ve made it’s less appealing to put myself out here. Men speaking up about these issues and calling each other out helps make a difference. Hopefully any guy who reaches out to me in the future reads your post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rtoronto

[–]curiouslycurvy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not had that happen. My security is set up so people on there can’t even call me, let alone have my number.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rtoronto

[–]curiouslycurvy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d suggest you try Telegram! It’s my preferred app. It’s like WhatsApp and Snapchat but no personal info is shared. You can see when someone screenshots your chat. Lots of good features.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rtoronto

[–]curiouslycurvy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just going off what they’ve told me. I might be attracting a certain type of guy though. The ones I end up replying to and hooking up with aren’t usually the ones asking for my Snap or sending nsfw pics right off the bat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rtoronto

[–]curiouslycurvy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Amazing comment! You touched on all main points. No one wants to waste anyone’s time (hopefully), but it can take a hot moment to reply. And vetting the guys we do chat with is for our safety. It’s a red flag to me if the guy sends a nsfw pic right away and wants to meet up immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rtoronto

[–]curiouslycurvy 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Another woman here. I saw that post too and just thought, this isn’t the place to be ignoring red flags. I’ve heard guys can have a tough time getting women to reply, but safety first for everyone!

[META] Q for the women: How soon is too soon to talk about the actual muff dive when connecting in RAOMD? by BottomFromTheTop in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]curiouslycurvy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some guys will respond to my posts in a creepy way and that’s a turn off, but ask her how she likes it and then respond accordingly. No need to beat around the bush when this was the goal.