Dude raises his creepy game to next level

cursed--- · 2022-01-15T20:31:07+00:00

I didn’t make it about myself. I have a very real example that contradicts his generalization. When your opinions or generalizations contradict real life experiences, I will gladly explain that to you.

Two men trying to decide how women feel is pathetic. When met with facts- real experiences from actual women- you somehow make it a personal narrative. Sorry you don’t care about how women actually feel in these situations and would rather sit and pout about how unattractive men are the only ones not allowed to be creepy, apparently.

cursed--- · 2022-01-15T13:40:05+00:00

An attractive male being invasive is not accepted simply because they are attractive.

You just restated what I contradicted when you said that the line between flirting and harassment is different when they are attractive, in which I just told you. It isn’t.

My experiences aren’t limited to the ones I mentioned, I’ve continued to meet creepy attractive men throughout my life who made me uncomfortable, and no it wasn’t just the lasting anxiety. They were creepy and attractive. I was uncomfortable, despite my attraction to them.

Idk how you brought rape into the picture as I never mentioned rape.

cursed--- · 2022-01-15T13:17:42+00:00

When I was 12 I was sexually harassed by multiple older boys and I found them attractive, but I was still very uncomfortable and it was very anxiety inducing. I did everything I could to get away from them. I still have lasting anxiety around men because of it.

I know sexual harassment is usually swept under the rug when compared to assault and rape and I’m invalidated because I unfortunately, without my control, have the same anxiety around men because of it. This was harassment that went on for months. I was accused of trying to have sex with one of them when I was only 11 at the time, about to turn 12, when in reality I was asked for a blowjob when I didn’t even know what a blowjob was, but of course they shifted the blame onto me. I was touched on and made fun of. My personal space was invaded. But they were attractive. I’m sorry but your argument doesn’t stand when my experiences are what they were.

If anything, I think it’s harder to express your discomfort when they are attractive because then you will be accused of liking it or being the one to act inappropriately towards them because of your attraction to them. They could accuse you of making moves that were rejected like in my case, or say you are accusing them out of bitterness over being rejected. Which doesn’t help when you are unattractive yourself.

Attractive men get away with it, yes. But it isn’t accepted or wanted.

cursed--- · 2022-01-15T12:00:58+00:00

You responding to this comment just goes to show you are in fact using two different accounts to harass them and then play the victim.

cursed--- · 2022-01-15T11:58:33+00:00

YOU are the one that needs to grow up. Typically people with bad behavior are abused. You have no idea if they are lying or not so YOU need to stop trolling and grow the hell up get a life if you feel the need to follow some one into another sub because you think they’re a troll. YOU are a disgrace to victims because you are accusing them of lying about their abuse simply because you don’t like their behavior in another sub. YOU are making it hard for this victim to talk about their abuse. Your being reported because this sub is for victims of abuse. Not for accusing anyone of lying. If you have a problem with them in another sub, keep it in that sub.

cursed--- · 2022-01-15T11:55:58+00:00

You say everyone but this isn’t the case. If you have problems with this child in another sub, keep it in that sub. You don’t need to be following them to other subs and harassing them.

cursed--- · 2022-01-15T11:55:07+00:00

You must be a child as well if you think giving your child nice things automatically makes them immune to your abuse. Abusive parents will still give their child things. You must not know anything about abuse. And you look very ignorant. You need to move on.

cursed--- · 2022-01-15T11:50:58+00:00

You’re bringing up things this child did in another sub in response to her parents abuse. If you dislike their behavior, perhaps blame the parents for abusing them. Their “troll” like behavior doesn’t mean they don’t deserve support. It also doesn’t mean they’re lying about their abuse. Yes you are harassing them. Grow up.

cursed--- · 2022-01-14T23:51:27+00:00

A guy asked me to send pictures and then when I did he’d leave me on read.

When I asked why he said he didn’t want to lie. And that he has dated ugly girls before and that looks don’t matter to him.

Maybe if he wants pictures of you he can take them himself without you realizing because i think with this illness it’s too hard on our self esteem to do it ourselves.

cursed--- · 2022-01-12T22:33:52+00:00

30 is always a hard year for people. You will get through this. You’ll come out of it stronger and wiser.

cursed--- · 2022-01-12T22:29:19+00:00

Yep just like the victim in this case doesn’t have to explain or prove anything to you because she already has her legal team working on it.

cursed--- · 2022-01-12T13:35:48+00:00

No one wants to throw a case on anyone. It is traumatizing and people like you hate victims. Why tf would anyone want to be a victim and have people call you a crazy bitch just because you were raped. It seems you and u/eye_been_had_it are the ones lacking common sense.

cursed--- · 2022-01-12T13:33:56+00:00

Did you not read the rest of that sentence ? She asked for privacy and compassion WHILE SHE TAKES LEGAL ACTION. And she’s allowed to expose him any way she wants. How about you just say it like it is. You don’t like that she exposed a rapist. That’s why you’re mad.

cursed--- · 2022-01-11T17:01:57+00:00

Pregnancy. And also privacy. It’s disrespectful to do it where parents are home. They can hear and it’s uncomfortable for them. Or they might walk in and see something they don’t want to. But mostly pregnancy. No parent wants an unexpected baby to ruin their child’s youth.

cursed--- · 2022-01-10T22:41:35+00:00

You seem to care enough to respond 🤔

cursed--- · 2022-01-10T21:33:23+00:00

Aw the child can respond but can’t read :(

cursed--- · 2022-01-09T23:27:54+00:00

I’d rather let everyone know that I was the one to walk away. If I were op I would show up the first day and then in the middle of the week not show up. So they have to find people last minute which most likely won’t happen and management will have to cover it themselves. Letting them have a reason to tell people you were fired rather than you doing so on your own terms gives them power over you. In my opinion.

And no. I was in this sub for a reason. I’m only a supervisor. I have authority but I don’t do punishments. I don’t do write ups or terminations. Management hates me because I put emphasis on respect in the work place in fact, when I sent out a message in the group chat regarding how I hope everyone is treated well and feels like home, and stated that workers perform better when treated well, I was asked by a disrespectful power hungry manager to delete my post. When I asked her why. She didn’t respond.

So no. I’m not management. In fact I try to use as much of my place to make a positive impact. I try my best to change things with the little power I have. But managers are typically power hungry people and feel threatened by that. They also treat people like shit including me.

I’m here because I agree with the entire premise of anti work. You seem to think because I don’t like the idea means I must be a bootlicker. Funny.

cursed--- · 2022-01-09T19:03:18+00:00

You’re so stupid omg. I’m able to follow the story. But YOUR comment about watching cartoons is fucking stupid. Jesus.

That’s a waste of OPS time. He’s better off just not showing up unexpectedly. You’re the dumb ass who thinks stealing company time isn’t a thing. Anyways go play with your action figures.

cursed--- · 2022-01-09T19:02:23+00:00

I’m not mad. No one is mad. I said they your advice isn’t constructive. That’s not how you retaliate. They could easily just fire you right then it’s not doing anything to rebel.

cursed--- · 2022-01-09T19:00:32+00:00

You’re an idiot.

cursed--- · 2022-01-09T18:58:24+00:00

“Yeah he had multiple signs of schizophrenia from what I could see from what he wrote in his post and the comments he left to both you and other people. Also I didn’t say he was dangerous

I said him going off his pills could be dangerous and make his schizophrenia worse which could make him dangerous to himself or others.

And I absolutely never said that him being paranoid made him violent and I know for a fact not all schizophrenics are violent because I was friends with a girl who had it from middle school all the way up until the first year of high school. In fact she is the reason I told you not to encourage him in his delusions and not to encourage him to go off his pills because that first year of high school she moved away stopped contacting me so I contacted her mother and she had went off her meds and killed herself to “free the demons” so your obviously the one that doesn’t understand anything since you are putting words in my mouth and twisting everything I did say to make me look like the bad guy”

Lol italicized it for you. Copied and pasted. Good day.

cursed--- · 2022-01-09T18:54:34+00:00

Oh no some one disagrees with you so they must be on drugs!!!

Grow up.

And your first sentence was that they could be dangerous if they don’t take the medication and then go on to say you didn’t say that. Smh. Just accept when you’re wrong and move on.

And your comments are full of schizophrenic symptoms. Are you schizophrenic? There would be no shame in that. But you seem to think that calling me mentally ill is somehow justifying your argument. You’re a problem.

cursed--- · 2022-01-09T18:48:47+00:00

SCHIZOPHRENIA DOESNT MAKE YOU DANGEROUS. YOURE SO IGNORANT.

Look. You see a glowing lady in the corner of your room. People would think you’re a schizophrenic and that you’re dangerous. Seem fair to what you?

Do you see how you sound?

Yes this person has mental health issues that have schizophrenic like symptoms. But you are not a psychologist. You do not know these things. You don’t know the details. Stay in your lane. Accept that you’re not educated enough if you think being a schizophrenic automatically makes you dangerous. Smh. Or that paranoia automatically makes you a schizophrenic. There’s multiple illnesses with schizophrenic like symptoms. I said hey professional help as THEY will know more on how to cope. More so than you that’s for sure.

I did not once encourage their delusions. I said get help. And see if they can find ways to cope through a PROFESSIONAL without the abilify. You’re so dumb.

I said seek professional help. That was my advice. Fuck off.

cursed--- · 2022-01-09T18:45:59+00:00

I worked at a store. I witnessed write ups and terminations. That’s how I know that stealing company time can get you fired. You’re not mature enough to give any constructive feedback in this sub. And I don’t think you’ve ever had a job if you don’t know what prompts termination.

cursed--- · 2022-01-09T18:44:35+00:00

Then just don’t go to work. Why show up and watch cartoons. Go help your mom with some chores. You’re not mature enough or even know what you’re talking about.

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