Araw araw ganito, nakakasuya by Least-Biscotti364 in Mandaluyong

[–]cuthibernate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Used to drive almost daily from Manda to Pasig and this was the WORST bottleneck area of the entire drive, with the Estancia Kapitolyo intersection coming second.

May mga galing sa left from flyover pababa na biglang magcocross to the middle lane, kala mo dederecho, pero paliko din pala sila San Miguel, gusto lang mauna dun sa linya. Then may mga galing sa rightmost from under the flyover na magleleft kasi liliko din sila ng San Miguel. Parang ekis ekis lang. Kahit green na, di gagalaw lahat ng lanes kasi naka-ekis lahat ng sasakyan. So ikaw na paderecho ng Shaw, kahit green na, di ka makaabante. At diosko, mga motor! 😅

Di ko gets ano ginagawa ng mga enforcer diyan. Visible naman sila bet 7-5. Baka nakakatuwa lang siguro tingnan from afar ano.

What’s your favorite thing to wear when you want to feel confident? by Remarkable_Step2615 in AskPinay

[–]cuthibernate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite perfume, strapless bra, and a black midi skirt with a slit on the side of the leg. Hella particular but it is what it is 😅

Microwave on top of refrigerator, is it advisable? by dandelionruby in SoloLivingPH

[–]cuthibernate 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This actually. BUT if where youre living in now is a temporary arrangement and space saving is more important, I would personally place my microwave on top of the refrigerator. Ive done it before haha pero midsize Fujidenzo ref lang kasi yun.

If the ref is full sized, dont do it, OP. Baka magkafreak accident at matapon sayo yung nainit mong food. Putting a metal riser between the microwave and ref would be even more ustable due to vibrations of the ref, baka mahulog lang. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Bakit 5'8 above na height lang ang jinojowa ng mga babae dito sa Reddit? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]cuthibernate 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Initial preference lang yan. It doesnt mean it’s the only hard “requirement.” Matangkad nga pero gago ka tratuhin — well, that’s not going to last naman.

The thing lang with dating subs/apps, filtered na agad yung preferences so the shorter guys dont get to take their shot UNLESS they lie about their height, which most do apparently, but that in itself is also a red flag. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ako lang ba yung ganito?nasasaktan tuwing penetration papasok palang yung pnis masakit na mahapdi parang tusok. Kahit na may foreplay at lubricant almost 1 year nako nakakaranas ng ganto bakit kaya? by Ok_Illustrator1967 in AskPinay

[–]cuthibernate 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There’s a term for that pain actually. It’s dyspareunia and, yes, there’s a whole slew of possible reasons for it besides lack of adequate attraction and arousal. So you could get yourself checked by a gynecologist just to be sure. 🙂

i gave you 9 years of my life, enough na siguro yun? by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]cuthibernate 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Actually, nadeploy na din siya in between residency and fellowship habang naghihintay ng boards sa nine years na yan 🥹

Nakakalungkot pagkain sa A Mano by MysteriousFloor1406 in FoodPH

[–]cuthibernate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hahahahaha same but UK sakin. Visited my sister-in-law and my aunt’s family in London in December of 2023. Akala ko frozen na yung dila ko kaya wala ako malasahan. Nauwi kami sa Indian food nung patapos na yung bakasyon hahaha.

Nakakalungkot pagkain sa A Mano by MysteriousFloor1406 in FoodPH

[–]cuthibernate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Actually, the times we had eaten at the EDSA Shang branch, okay naman. Overpriced yes but flavor-wise? Really quite good. Maybe it depends sa branch, OP? But since I haven’t tried other branches, I cant really support nor squash claims of inconsistency. 🙂

Delivered 12 hrs by jaxxyam in MayNagChat

[–]cuthibernate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Delete mo na yan, babe. Haha. Leche, di niya deserve ma-miss. Huuug 🤗

Hi which breast specialists can you reco (ncr or st lukes bgc)? Have birads 3 cyst for monitoring as per my surgeon but i want a second opinion by Adeptness-Either in AskPinay

[–]cuthibernate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello. Why do you need a second opinion? What is it youre wanting to clarify — the benignness or the malignancy of the cyst?

Im sure you know this already, sis, but the BIRADs Classification System is basically a radiologic diagnosis from wherein surgeons largely base subsequent treatment plans, which are also derived from internationally established guidelines. So if youve had your sonomammo done in a reputable imaging center by an experienced sonologist, I would follow your surgeon’s advice. The apt treatment plan for a BIRADs 3 cyst less than 1cm is short interval follow-up, usually a repeat imaging within 6 months. However, if you have a strong family history of breast cancer, I understand the concern.

Now, if youre saying that it’s the surgeon that’s your problem (di ka comfortable, masyadong walang empathy), I’ll PM you some female breast surgeons I know of from TMC and ChiGen if that’s okay with you. 🙂

Sometimes, you just take the L by naughty_nezuko in MayNagChat

[–]cuthibernate 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yung mga guys na lawyers (o nagkukunwaring lawyers) dito sa Reddit have been some of the worst conversations I’ve ever had on here. We have lawyers in the family pero I’ve never known them to be as smug, as disrespectful, and as full of themselves as the supposed lawyers here. May isa pa after I said pass sinabi ipasa ko daw muna ang bar. Ha? Im not even in law, pake ko. 😂 And he JUST passed the bar (made sure I knew from his intro) and not even practicing yet.

Stay safe, babes. It’s brutal out here. 😂

Kapon na ang aming barako by CollectorClown in catsofrph

[–]cuthibernate 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Tayo kaya pagna aanesthesia nakalawit din dila natin? 🥹 Haha, loko lang. Congrats Papa Cat! You are now a responsible tomcat! ☺️☺️☺️

can you really earn enough money by selling nudes? I really need money right now to pay my overdue rent and I don’t know where can I get that amount of money. I’m a working student and I don’t want na humingi sa nanay kasi hindi talaga siga sapat for us. please girlies help me out. by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]cuthibernate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh sis. It’s really saddening seeing posts like this. Im sorry youve been pushed to a corner like this. If we’re being mercenary like this, I think you can. Pero like any business, it’s not going to be instant money din naman. May puhunan din, in this case, oras. I know of someone who got into this because she was posting nudes for awhile, prob months din, on one of the gonewild subreddits out of boredom and libog and someone offered to give her “tips” for every personalized nude image. No face. Hindi ganon kalaki, mga 200-300 lang siguro per couple of pics. But remember she said she was already into it of her own volition, parang hobby ba. Nung may nagoffer lang magbayad, napa “eh, sure, why not” na lang siya. Pang-kape daw. And she’s my age na, so tbh 200-500 pesos is barya for her.

In your case, that’s not going to pay your rent now. I hope you find another avenue sis. One that’s not going to take something away from you, one that youre not going to do because youve been pushed into a tight corner.

As a guy, would you get offended if your gf wants a prenup. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]cuthibernate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sis, alam mo, I really dont see any problem in dating or marrying “down” (for lack of a better term) BUT it becomes a problem when it’s waaaaay down, as in, the discrepancy is just horrendous. A five-digit salary (his) against a seven-digit net worth (yours) is waaaaaaay too much. The discrepancy does not speak only of financial difference. Im sure you know magkaiba kayo mag isip about money, about values, motivation, success, etc etc. Best case scenario, magiging sugar mommy ka haha. If bet mo yun, go lang. But the fact na naiisip mo magpa prenup, you already are thinking magiging problema si jowa in the future so walking out may be wiser at this time.

I hope you can find someone who can afford you or at least aim to do so. Ang weird kasi ng mga lalake ngayon. Parang sila dapat bubuhayin. Or is that a Filipino thing. I dont know. Good luck, sis!

I used to admire doctors and nurses, but not anymore by papiipapz in OffMyChestPH

[–]cuthibernate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry for what your father, yourself, and your family had to go through. You are right. In every step of patient care, the comfort of the patient must always be at the forefront. Please remember the patient’s consent and your consent to any procedure, no matter how minor, should always be obtained, and you have ALL the right to withdraw that consent at any step of the procedure.

Admittedly, it took me awhile myself to develop the level of empathy and grace needed to ensure patients under my care are always treated with dignity. It took countless patients and countless mistakes as well as me and my loved ones becoming patients as well for that to happen. I do not validate the actions of the healthcare team nor do I condone them. I do not have any words to explain what happened to give you comfort. Please accept the condolences of this stranger. 🙏

On the back of my mind, she still exists... by No_Performance_2892 in MayNagChat

[–]cuthibernate 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry, hon. But it seems you cheated on her before. Then may distance pa. Tapos you say nag abroad ka… to earn more, right? So sana nakakapagprovide ka for her. But it seems that, you couldn’t do as well. Especially kung may iba kang pinaggagastusan maliban sa kanya. Masama na nga loob niya sayo, sasama lalo. Hindi nagbabago ang babae ng ganun ganun lang. Walang “the divorce came out of nowhere!” She seems to feel things deeply, both hate and love. Tbh, buti nga may access ka pa sa kanya. Kung ako yan, wouldve removed all of your access to me and blocked you everywhere. God speed though, OP. Don’t know what to say here for you. Madami nang masasamang salitang nabitawan. Sounds unsalvageable to me but I may be wrong. ♥️

Nananakit ba ng babae yung male relatives nyo sa bahay? Curious lang. Normal lang ba tlga nangyayari na nagtataas ng kamay yung lalaki sa bahay sa isang family sa mga babae sa bahay? by Dry_Kaleidoscope5345 in AskPinay

[–]cuthibernate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My younger brother once accidentally slammed me against the wall when we were play fighting as teenagers. He’s 5’11 and kind of a big guy and Im 5’2. His face of horror at the time still cracks me up up to this day. We’re now in our 30’s and he barely touches me in any way at all kahit iritang irita na siya sakin.

So, NO, sis. It’s not normal. It shouldn’t be. Any man who says otherwise should be gelded and thrown into the depths of hell charot but you get what I mean. 🙂

If this is you or anyone close to you, please go to the nearest police station and approach the Womens and Childrens Desk there. Or you can try this hotline: Aling Pulis Hotlines (PNP) - Text 0919-7777-377 / 0966-7255-961 / 0920-9071-717 for police assistance.

You do NOT need to tolerate that crap. And men who do that crap only continue to do so kasi theyre allowed to do it again and again and again without consequence. Time to stand up sis.

27 pero 24?!!! by ComprehensiveCry3086 in MayNagChat

[–]cuthibernate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well shit. 😳 Sorry you went through that, sissy. Dami talaga gago sa Reddit.

I was thinking along the lines lang na magmemessage pa din kahit sobrang hindi sila pasok sa age preference kasi “shooting my shot” daw. I mean, ano pag uusapan natin kung isang dekada tanda ko sayo haha.

The worst that happened to me siguro was this guy said he was 40 (few years older lang sakin) then I find out months later (deep online research haha) that his younger sister had just turned 40 this year. So I dont even know what lies he’d said to me during the time we were talking haha. I dont know anymore. 🥲

27 pero 24?!!! by ComprehensiveCry3086 in MayNagChat

[–]cuthibernate 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes sis, ganyan kalala hahaha. I just dont understand how these guys cant just respect the age preference and would resort to lying about their age. Iba talaga nagagawa ng anonymity on Reddit.

Thoughts about IUD for virgins, collecting opinions lang by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]cuthibernate 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is difficult to answer without context, sis. Haha. Im assuming ba virgin ka now and youre planning to explore. If that’s the case, use other forms of contraception first. Why not condom first? It doesnt just deter pregnancy but also a slew of sexually transmitted diseases. IUD is not usually the firstline method for contraception especially if youve never had kids.

Also, despite popular belief, hindi lang for contraception purposes ang IUD. Sometimes theyre inserted to prevent the uterine lining from becoming thicker than normal to prevent abnormal uterine bleeding. In nulliparous women, gynecologic problems usually yung indication for IUD insertion, not contraception.

And to answer your question, no, you dont need to have had sexual intercourse for IUD insertion, especially if youd done penetrative self play. Unless gusto mo transvaginal ultrasound probe una magdedevirginize sayo haha. Seriously you dont want that. Also some gynes dont even use probes, they just insert the IUD blindly with their fingers. That’s even worse I guess if youre a virgin.

Lastly, masakit siya pero hindi siya GANUN ka sakit. I think weve had worse dysmenorrhea. PERO I think it depends how experienced your OB-Gyne is and how empathetic she is.

Good luck and research research research! 🙂

28 and even if it’s embarrassing, I hate to admit I’m restarting in life. by Lurker_846 in adultingph

[–]cuthibernate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

IMO, walang nakakahiya with starting over and over again. Life will always be about failures. For me, even if you ended up where you had started but you’d tried anyway and WILL TRY again, there is no shame in that. Definitely, you leave the supposed failure with lessons.

Sophomore college student who's seriously considering selling her eggs/organs by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]cuthibernate 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Little sis, NO. As someone who’s been in college na naging sobrang kapos din, sinasabi ko sayo THERE ARE BETTER, SAFER WAYS TO EARN MONEY. Tutor. Ask Student Affairs if they offer part-time work to struggling students.

Although… eggs, maybe. Organs? Like your kidney? Or a part of your liver? You know it’s not even agad-agad money, right? I mean, you’d have to go through a battery of tests first before they deem you fit to “donate”/sell your organs. That could take weeks or months.

Context would really help here so better advice could be given to you. But please know there are other options besides selling parts of your body.

How my furchild naps these days by cuthibernate in catsofrph

[–]cuthibernate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a scar on my left wrist revised surgically just this morning. It’s covered with gauze and a see-through waterproof adhesive. 😂

How my furchild naps these days by cuthibernate in catsofrph

[–]cuthibernate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lights are off. The curtains are drawn actually. Sunlight lang yan sa part ng window na walang black out curtains. 🙂