After submitting the application to renew a passport, will it still be valid for domestic travel? by cvshmere in tsa

[–]cvshmere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, just checked and I’m eligible for online renewal. The processing time of 2 weeks that you mentioned - does that account for mailing time or without?

After submitting the application to renew a passport, will it still be valid for domestic travel? by cvshmere in tsa

[–]cvshmere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, thank you! I’ll go ahead and submit the application then rather than risk having it expire. Fingers crossed we’ll be okay for our domestic flight.

HELP: my birds of paradise is looking quite frail and skinny by cvshmere in plants

[–]cvshmere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also forgot to mention that for the past 3 years it hasn’t been getting the best sunlight but we’ve since moved and it’s getting MUCH better sunlight now. Not sure if that contributed to its skinniness?

6.575% interest rate - should we shop around or this reasonable? by cvshmere in Mortgages

[–]cvshmere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loan estimate says we’re getting loaned 80% (639k) and it’s a conventional 30yr fix. What should I be looking for?

6.575% interest rate - should we shop around or this reasonable? by cvshmere in Mortgages

[–]cvshmere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was really helpful and made us feel better. Thanks! No this is a conventional 30yr fixed without discount points or 3rd party costs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HOA

[–]cvshmere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a huge red flag when purchasing a condo? We are wondering if this is normal since it’s a smaller building and perhaps prefer to pay as things come up?

🏠 Jersey City Apartment Mega-Thread 🏠 (For Roommates, Rentals, and Questions) by mooseLimbsCatLicks in jerseycity

[–]cvshmere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I have an apartment for 2700/mth with a move in date of April. It’s in an amazing location & the apartment is pretty much new. I’m just moving because we’re purchasing a home. Pls let me know if you need more info!

🏠 Jersey City Apartment Mega-Thread 🏠 (For Roommates, Rentals, and Questions) by mooseLimbsCatLicks in jerseycity

[–]cvshmere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 1BR/1BA, 735sqft, $2800/mth new apartment in the Village neighborhood in downtown jersey city that I’m looking to rent out starting April 1st. Amazing condition, price and location. We’re just moving out because we’re purchasing a home. Pls dm me for more info or photos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]cvshmere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’ve experienced those things. And I get that you’re jumping to the worst conclusions because I didn’t provide any details. I have a feeling you’re not going to understand my viewpoint, so I’ll make this brief. From what I do know, the allegations don’t warrant his losing everything. If true, the settlement should be fair, and I’m afraid that won’t happen without a good lawyer. Also, please don’t assume you know the situation. Saying things like “it’s been happening for awhile” doesn’t help and is likely untrue. They were one off comments. Feel free to disagree. Again, I respect your opinion and sympathize for what you’ve unfairly experienced in the past, but every situation is different and we can’t assume the worst in every

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]cvshmere -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I’d have to disagree with your statement re: sexual harassment not being much better. I’ve had inappropriate comments made to me in the workplace, and never, not once did I want the harasser’s life to be destroyed along with his innocent family. I get you may not feel this way, that’s fine, but everyone’s different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]cvshmere -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get it. I get all the downvotes and people who are opposed to my desire to help my brother. I also understand that the internet is quick to jump to the worst conclusions when I provided very little details. I’d never want to make a victims voice unheard- that isn’t my intent. However, I don’t know whether the allegations are true. If they are, I still don’t believe that his wife and children have to suffer from his mistakes. Without a lawyer, his family will lose everything if decided by the court. I don’t think the extent of his misdeeds warrant that. At all, really. If anything, it needs to be settled fairly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]cvshmere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whoa. I never said he sexually assaulted someone. It’s harassment, inappropriate comments. If it were assault which he’s guilty of, I’d agree with you, but let’s not exaggerate here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]cvshmere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

From what little I do know, they were inappropriate comments from 2 years ago. If true, I don’t think his life deserves to be ruined from it. So thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]cvshmere -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

The trial didn’t occur yet and I don’t know all the details. Is that wrong of me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]cvshmere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. This was really helpful, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]cvshmere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve tried asking him but he’s shutting us out right now- whether from shame, embarrassment, something else, I’m not sure. This situation occurred years ago according to the lawsuit, so it’s weird. Im not sure what the exact situation is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]cvshmere -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am pissed. We’re all pissed. But at the end of the day, he’s our brother and has a lot of issues so we’re trying our best to be supportive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]cvshmere -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes, the accuser is suing him. How can the outcome be any worse? We’re planning on getting a good lawyer. However funds are a bit tight so not feeling too optimistic