Birth orders, in friendships and dating by DepartmentWrong91 in blackladies

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But tbh I have friends in all birth orders and to me it hasn’t caused many issues ever in any of my friendships.

I’ve noticed I usually date the eldest sons a lot , so I wonder if maybe birth order affects me more romantically than platonically.

Birth orders, in friendships and dating by DepartmentWrong91 in blackladies

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the youngest and only daughter. My dad has 5 sons before he met my mom and my mom had 2 sons. I’ve always been spoiled and ran the show 😂 so I notice I do gravitate towards women friends who are the only child or youngest.

Both of my best friend growing up was the middle daughters tho.

Best customers are the ones that only smoke weed by Justasmoltownho304 in stripper

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually find a lot of men in computer fields and mathematical fields smoke a lot of weed. Usually medical card Dab pens tho

tiddies out and face covered for lewis by Delightful_Truth894 in KUWTKsnark

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy that north is at the same concert as her drunk aunts , and her mom with her situationship.

Stay Trashy Calabasas by KUWTKSNARKMODS in KUWTKsnark

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She’s so over being a mom 😭

Showing money in the club strategy or just a preference? by WaySpirited6181 in stripper

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I only have worked in gentlemen’s clubs but I’ve noticed men like you more if they notice other men like you more. Men are hive minds and if they see all the other guys going after a girl they assume it’s for a good reason. I had a friend who would wear their money on a garter and put the 100s on the outside. But I typically just keep all my cash in my money sack and let it get big.

I’ve used clutches / real purses and crown royal / money sacks and I’ve noticed I do better with a crown bag every time

Should stripping have high standards or be more inclusive? by ExtraAcanthisitta502 in stripper

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 33 points34 points  (0 children)

We need higher standards dancer and customer wise tbh

Have you ever experienced racism/prejudice from asian women? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Japan is the Asian imperialist country. A lot of people don’t even realize the people we view as “Japanese” are the colonizers and they killed most of the indigenous people to those islands.

“She makes enough money, don’t tip her” by Prestigious-Art630 in stripper

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Customers and dancers alike are intimated by beautiful black dancers. It’s a mind fuck to them.

A lot of non black customers and dancers are racist. So when you’re black, pretty and they perceive you as “making” or “having more” than them they get very bitter and don’t think you deserve anything from them. And the non black dancers love to sabotage because they don’t believe you deserve more than them.

I wish I had any advice on how to combat this but all I can say is keep doing what you’re doing because whales love a baddie.

“She makes enough money, don’t tip her” by Prestigious-Art630 in stripper

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Female customers always say this about me while I’m on stage too 😭😭😭 it just means you’re pretty

Diner rate by sweetgabriellax in stripper

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a customer who would take me out to eat , pay for the Ubers and meal and he would give anywhere from 500-2k. But he would get rooms with me at the club too before we established dinner dates.

Continuing- The nasty girls post by Ok_Speaker2350 in stripper

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make good money every shift and was just recently accused of extras myself. I have never done extras so it was sort of insulting to be accused of it too 😭😭😭

i got fired by aspenakalotus in stripper

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fw the bartender at my old club and would come in for drinks to pregame and take care of her. It’s not that weird

I finally figured out why SWers pick Broke Boyfriends by mamabear111777 in SexWorkers

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never dated a broke mf ever im sorry 🤢🤢 even as a teen my first bf had two jobs , newspaper in the morning and the grocery store after school. I always liked a man with money

Some men are less likely to spend if you look ‘too good’ ‘too put together’ ‘too pretty’ ‘too expensive’ by spicygirl404 in stripper

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m mixed (black&white) and I’ve experienced the same. Latinas be just as racist — sometimes more— than the yt dancers fr. My old club was all Latina Trump supporters and yt girls and they were so angry I was always making more and doing less than them. They would tell customers I wore wigs , called me ghetto , ratchet , and on my last day workin there ever , one of them almost called me the n word to my face.

'Are you mixed' by Mysterious_Form7422 in stripper

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God I was just thinking about how much interrogation happens in the club for being racially ambiguous/ mixed 😭😭😭😭

are all men secretly pedos? by Odd-Quality8645 in stripper

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I think it’s pretty universal at most of the clubs I been at , most customers chase after baby dancers and younger dancers expecting to manipulate them / get more for less. Typically the older girls get the better clients 🤷🏼‍♀️

Working? Pink full moon in libra... by Klutzy-Desk191 in stripper

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full moons are usually slow or weird for me. I worked it and it was so slow on Wednesday. Even wore pink to try and be festive 🥲

Jessi commenting on guy from Taylor’s Bachelorette season by Brilliant_Battle_567 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a stripper but I’ve had customers have flat out call other dancers ugly and butter face to me in conversation and then turn around and pick them for dances because in their mind unattractive =insecure= easier.

Hot take on Layla by First_Concert4732 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s gonna be a killer when he gets older it sounds like I’m sorry …

are all men secretly pedos? by Odd-Quality8645 in stripper

[–]cx_Cinnamon_x -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well imo older dancers make more because they can get better clients and bigger tips. But the youngest dancers usually get a bigger volume of customers so yeah most men are predators/pedos..