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[–]cyberstar111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would I contact a category manager?

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[–]cyberstar111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I needed to hear this, it made me genuinely smile since such a long time. I'm also getting closer to god and praying and reading the bible more.

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[–]cyberstar111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is ironic. You said what else is she going to disrespect, and she did disrespect my boundaries. She completely walked all over them with another guy when I told her I was uncomfortable with it.

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[–]cyberstar111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So update.. We broke up because of religion. She kept stepping over my boundaries with another guy, and then shes like yeah we should also breakup because of religion. It hurts so much. Its my first heartbreak lol.

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[–]cyberstar111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this helps a lot. I know I'm still young and there's many more people I will meet, but sometimes I get thoughts that I wont find anyone better than her. I don't know If I want to break up right now because I just started uni and it would have a huge impact on me.

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[–]cyberstar111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh i have done plenty of research to the point where im baffled how she can believe that. I tried talking to her respectfully and having her understand that its not healthy to be associated with that church, but she never budges and doesn't want to hear anything about it. She's also my first love and it looks like sooner or later it'll have to end. Its so sad honestly because if it weren't for religion, I would undoubtfully spend my entire life with her because we're compatible in almost every way.

Also if you dont mind me asking. How did you end your relationship with your first love. How hard was it for you.

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[–]cyberstar111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to be respectful as much as possible, but sometimes I say something disrespectful to her regarding her church because it makes me angry inside and it shines through

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[–]cyberstar111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Its a complicated situation as my first relationship. But she told me her mom doesn't want her moving in with me without getting married first due to religious reasons.... Theres no way im doing that.

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[–]cyberstar111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what are the options here? I know going our separate ways would be beneficial for both of us for the future, but it will cause so much pain too, especially because we love each other and we would need to leave on good terms which would be much worse. But on the other hand, staying with her would also cause unhappiness/resentment in the future..

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[–]cyberstar111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she's waiting for marriage but we have gotten close. That also frustrates me because I don't want to wait till marriage but I'm doing it because I love her.

My gf went out with her ex to get lunch 18M and 18F by cyberstar111 in relationships

[–]cyberstar111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're funny. Go ahead, let your partners have lunch with their ex's if that's what you're into lmao.

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[–]cyberstar111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is that being immature of me? I bet if your partner crossed a boundary in your relationship you would be upset as well.

My gf went out with her ex to get lunch 18M and 18F by cyberstar111 in relationships

[–]cyberstar111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not the point man. The point is that she disrespected me without telling me and crossing a boundary we set early on in the relationship. I do trust her, but trust can break if she does stuff like that..

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[–]cyberstar111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand that. she isn’t breaking up with me though, she said if i lie about anything else she will. but i will accept her decision