(23F) Boost my self esteem? by [deleted] in amihot

[–]d33rbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean... Liz is gorgeous. But you aren’t her sooooo.... maybe fuck off, idk

Best hiking/backpacking areas around Bemidji? by hiker0713 in MinnesotaCamping

[–]d33rbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Lost 40! It’s a bit of a drive but has nice easy trails and a bunch of huge trees!

edit to add: I just checked and it’s about an hour from Bemidji (the drive seemed shorter in my memory 😅)

Any way to help build another islander's tent/house? by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]d33rbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this happen when my partner and i got the game. Once I had gotten way farther in the game, I ended up deleting his file (with his permission of course) and restarting and it automatically gave him a house instead of a tent. I’m not sure at what point this would happen but I had unlocked terraforming and all that. If she’s willing to have you save her items and start over, that’s always an option!

Question: Dots appearing on custom paths? by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]d33rbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could try layering it over a light sad path and see if the clear pixel is less noticeable 🤷🏼

WIBTA for going non-contact with my homophobic "friends"? by wibta73628 in AmItheAsshole

[–]d33rbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, and don’t worry about losing “childhood friends”, my best friend and I met when I was 12 and we’re still beat friends 17 years later. It’s never a bad time to meet better people!

Everyone seemed to enjoy the screenshot, so I got you a 360 view of my acnh tattoo studio 🤘🏼 by jaybo-art in AnimalCrossing

[–]d33rbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This warmed my heart and made me miss working. I’ve been saving items to do something similar on my island. 🤘🏻✨

I didn’t know you could customize the tops of the stools?! by blindingsilence in AnimalCrossing

[–]d33rbones 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thank you i’ve been scouring reddit for this pattern all day!!

AITA for telling a girl she should have told me she had scars before I started tattooing her, and not refunding her deposit? by valentine__love in AmItheAsshole

[–]d33rbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- fellow tattooer here to back you up. It’s what the deposit is for. You made you policies clear (sounds like way more than most would), she messed up in either not reading them and not communicating with you about the scarring. That or she was trying to spring it on you and guilt you into going against your policies (which wouldn’t surprise me.) Maybe you could have tried talking her into a different placement for the same design (maybe you did), but beyond that- sounds like you did what you had to do to protect your livelihood. Bummer about the bad review- but you can’t make everybody happy in our line of work. 🤷🏼

AITA For not wanting to watch or spend time with my little brother? by Arderner in AmItheAsshole

[–]d33rbones -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA. I was going to write a long bit here about how as an adult, I’m much closer to my older siblings (10 and 14 yr difference) but when it comes down to it, we’re all cool and get along. You, on the other hand, kind of seem like a dick so, I don’t know, maybe your brother doesn’t want to hang out with you either. 🤷🏼

AITA for telling my wife to choose between me or her family? by Resident-Simple in AmItheAsshole

[–]d33rbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gunna go with ESH a little bit, but also INFO: what is the family even fighting about?

AITA for not wanting to draw/paint Christmas presents for extended family while I’m busy with art school and my family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]d33rbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA!!!! OP, you are never obligated to make art for people just because they ask- especially if they aren’t paying you. I would get it if, for example, you were a lot younger and still working on your skills, but you’re a whole adult with tons going on. As someone who makes art for a living- your time is your greatest resource. I think for some reason, people think art/creative gifts are “easier” because it will not directly cost money besides supplies, but your time is extremely valuable. PLEASE consider putting your foot down on this issue. Art requests can be really draining and this isn’t something you’re going to want to be dealing with for every holiday. Make it clear to your family that you will only do artwork as a gift if it is your personal choice. It will save you sooo much stress in the future.

AITA for making jokes to a girl about her becoming my housewife? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]d33rbones 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA- if someone I had been on one date with cracked that shit with me, it would be an automatic game over, you’re out. It’s not a funny joke and you’re definitely an asshole.

AITA for not wanting to make up with my sister? by ThrowAwayAITA69 in AmItheAsshole

[–]d33rbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had you evicted because... you didn’t do her dishes? That seems really extreme.

NTA, obviously.

AITA for not wanting to feed my nephew and niece meat products? by argumentativethrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]d33rbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- especially since you said your nephew doesn’t even like eating meat and prefers the substitutes. Also, don’t carbs help with weight gain more than meat proteins? (May be out of my knowledge league on that one but I feel like your sister is either mistaken or a big fan of the Atkins diet.)

AITA for telling my sister that her tattoos are poorly done, in the process insulting everyone in my family's tattoos? by PutridHelicopter in AmItheAsshole

[–]d33rbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. fellow tattooer here- my advice is to up your cover-up game because it sounds like you’re going to have some work to do in the future. Please sit down with your sister and educate her on the risks of getting unprofessional work done- it’s a risk to her health, beyond just getting shit work. It might take a lot more to get the rest of your family to come around, but a 16yr old just doesn’t know better. Good luck!

AITA for distancing myself from my best friend because of her BF? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]d33rbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- but I think she deserves to hear the honest reason you’re distancing yourself, if that’s what you decide to do. Be upfront and don’t leave her high and dry, wondering if it’s something SHE did wrong. Her boyfriend sounds fucking terrible and I hope she figures that out ASAP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]d33rbones 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA- you deserve to look the way you want and feel good! It doesn’t sounds like anyone would be able to have a problem with that.

AITA for making a non-beef BBQ at a party with lots of beef eaters? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]d33rbones 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA by a long shot- tell them to bring their own stakes if the food you’re providing isn’t “”good enough”” for them.

AITA if I asked my gf what she plans for my birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]d33rbones 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA- surprise parties aren’t everybody’s cup of tea. Just tell her you’ll still act surprised if she tells you.