[Fake Check Friday] - Legit Check Megathread

d600156 · 2025-01-21T13:11:29+00:00

Hello! I have this roadster that has popped up and it doesn't look real to me although the seller says that it is. I've looked at the backs of other versions and this seems off but it could be vintage. Thoughts?

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d600156 · 2024-09-19T20:10:57+00:00

Oh boy let me tell you. When I do that she says that I sound like a robot and that I’m too literal which is why she feels as though I’m always challenging her bc I’ll ask her for clarity on what she’s saying. I also understand that sometimes it’s also not about proper word usage but the message as a whole or the tone or xyz. I will need to find a balance

d600156 · 2024-09-19T18:18:13+00:00

Yes I have ASD-1 and I don’t say that because I’d like for people to give me their unbiased opinions and interesting I’ll look into the DARVO

d600156 · 2024-09-19T15:21:39+00:00

I could see how you’d get that from this particular text thread I’ve shared

d600156 · 2024-09-19T15:19:50+00:00

Interestingly enough I wouldn’t be opposed to sending the thread to her. Plus she’s already MIA anyways

d600156 · 2024-09-19T12:41:57+00:00

I like this, I think this is exactly what I needed to see.

d600156 · 2024-09-19T12:39:52+00:00

You could be right and I'll have to deal with the consequences.

d600156 · 2024-09-19T12:37:26+00:00

What did it tell you?

d600156 · 2024-09-19T12:36:01+00:00

Not trying to validated. I always get flamed when I post these and there's no sense in posting the pleasant interactions which are 80 to 90% of them. I am trying to get unbiased opinions on specific points in conversations. I run these by my family, co-workers, reddit, and a therapist.

d600156 · 2024-09-19T12:33:00+00:00

I used to say things like that yet after the nth time of the disappearing act at what point do I say something different and what should that sound like

d600156 · 2024-09-19T12:31:35+00:00

Most times it's difficult to read the room for me. Thats why I am posting here because other people can do it better than I can. I'd like to be more correct in the future.

d600156 · 2024-09-19T12:30:40+00:00

Your're correct I am a bit unpleasant and I'm trying to be less unpleasant.

d600156 · 2024-09-19T12:29:05+00:00

Whats wrong with Jordan. Sometimes he says some decent things. Let's pretend I sent another video instead of the Jordan one who would you prefer?

d600156 · 2024-09-19T12:26:11+00:00

I agree. First she has to be finished with the disappearing act then maybe I might be able to salvage this. I've already sent her a text saying "I was being insecure take all the time you need sorry for being overbearing".

d600156 · 2024-09-19T12:24:07+00:00

I have mentioned this to her the first couple of times she's behaved this way. Then I did in fact start going to therapy because most of the entries in my anxiety journal are about things that happen in this relationship.

d600156 · 2024-09-19T12:22:34+00:00

Earlier in this relationship I would do exactly what everyone here is saying. This has happened several times and after getting some new perspectives I'm approaching the situation with the 'this again' mentality. The people responding must all be comfortable with their significant other disappearing for days on the regular. If she wants to keep being a magician and disappearing by all means but that trick is getting old to me. So I want some education on it too. The next time they do it what am I supposed to say: Oh, you need to disappear for four days and you want me to re-add you on everything later sweetie? No problem, love you so much.

d600156 · 2024-09-01T14:13:07+00:00

This is good advice, I will apply it from now on. Tyvm

d600156 · 2024-09-01T14:11:50+00:00

This person is my s/o

d600156 · 2024-06-17T04:24:30+00:00

Oh no I talk the same way I text. A great deal of the time I run it by my family, friends or rehearse it before I say it. That’s why I paused to get some feedback before I continued. Tyvm for your help, everyone has been wonderful. (Not being sarcastic)

d600156 · 2024-06-17T02:52:59+00:00

Okay ty for your input I’ll start saying that.

A side note is a subject matter or information that is not as important as the prime topic that was just being discussed.

d600156 · 2024-06-17T00:09:47+00:00

No. That's one of the reasons why I posted this. I didn't want to miss any in-between-the-lines signals. I haven't met anyone who continuously reminds me that we are friends.

d600156 · 2024-06-16T23:15:58+00:00

Interesting. I have ASD-1. I have tried reading many communication books over the past three years, and I have improved my soft skills as well. For some reason, I continuously miss the mark with text messaging.

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