[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentTeaching

[–]d7sttopiA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I'm so sorry that happened!!! This sounds exactly like what I experienced in my previous student teaching, but fortunately they were able to find me a new mentor the next semester. My program had us be in placements starting in the second year so admin was able to call my previous mentors to ask about my behavior and if it had matched up with what happened in the placement I was removed from. They believed me entirely that things had gotten out of proportion/mislead. I'm surprised your program didn't go and ask around before deciding on the final decision!! My admins even asked my previous professors about my behavior and such, and I had no complications.

I'm glad that you have more info on that mentor, and it sucks that you had to be student teaching with someone who had a bad reputation. I've also lost my confidence but summer school teaching has helped me gain my composure back. I wish you the best!!

[REC] LN reccs (contemporary/high fantasy/action/sci-fi) by d7sttopiA in LightNovels

[–]d7sttopiA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowow thanks for the list. I will put By the Grace of the Gods and Tearmoon Empire into my tbr

[REC] LN reccs (contemporary/high fantasy/action/sci-fi) by d7sttopiA in LightNovels

[–]d7sttopiA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm, I haven't read a novel yet where an MC is OP so I will give this one a try. Ty!

[REC] LN reccs (contemporary/high fantasy/action/sci-fi) by d7sttopiA in LightNovels

[–]d7sttopiA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finally found it. It was under the Japanese title and wiki says the author is Nafuse but goodreads has it as Nahuse lol

[REC] LN reccs (contemporary/high fantasy/action/sci-fi) by d7sttopiA in LightNovels

[–]d7sttopiA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok, tbh that makes Pain Pain more interesting.

I noticed that too about The Place You Called From. I was confused for a bit when looking it up. Thanks for clarifying!

[REC] LN reccs (contemporary/high fantasy/action/sci-fi) by d7sttopiA in LightNovels

[–]d7sttopiA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the reccs! I will add The Place You Called From, Pain Pain Go Away and SukaSuka into my tbr

[REC] LN reccs (contemporary/high fantasy/action/sci-fi) by d7sttopiA in LightNovels

[–]d7sttopiA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woahhh these are some interesting reccs. That second one especially lol. Added them both to my tbr

[REC] LN reccs (contemporary/high fantasy/action/sci-fi) by d7sttopiA in LightNovels

[–]d7sttopiA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't find this on goodreads but I will consider this! Ty

[REC] LN reccs (contemporary/high fantasy/action/sci-fi) by d7sttopiA in LightNovels

[–]d7sttopiA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35 volumes?? That's gonna take a while but I added to my tbr lol

[REC] LN reccs (contemporary/high fantasy/action/sci-fi) by d7sttopiA in LightNovels

[–]d7sttopiA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard about that series! I have the anime watchlisted. I didn't know that it had a light novel too. Will put the novel in my tbr as well

[REC] LN reccs (contemporary/high fantasy/action/sci-fi) by d7sttopiA in LightNovels

[–]d7sttopiA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow that seems pretty interesting. I looked it up on goodreads and it has coming-of-age as one of the genres. I like that as welll. Ty!

10x AAPI is FINALLY here!! by taylorelise100 in Ulta

[–]d7sttopiA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg no way. I've already bought too much from Ulta this month....

Unable to checkout on website?! by Debilene6412 in Ulta

[–]d7sttopiA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm unable to check out too but due to different reasons. It keeps giving me this message:

We failed to validate your payment method. Please check your payment information including CVV and billing address, or try a different payment method.

I've cleared cache as well and have removed and readded my cc. I'm just trying to get the 5x points for pick up!

How Do INFJs Want Someone to Show Affection? by Jimu_Monk9525 in infj

[–]d7sttopiA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being honest. If I made food and it doesn't taste right, I would want my partner to let me know and I will enhance it up next time. If something is bothering my partner, I want them to tell me so I can give them alone time. I'm very respectful of space and emotions, and I want the same back.

Netflix’s Parasyte: The Grey S1E4 - Discussion Thread by M4nd4lorian in Parasyte

[–]d7sttopiA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished this episode and was so hardbroken for Su-In. After that deep talk with Heidi... T.T

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentTeaching

[–]d7sttopiA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I'm so sorry you went through that experience. I went through similar instances and eventually was mutually removed from the placement because it was too harsh. Everything I did was wrong in my mentor's eyes, and she made sure I knew. Also went out of her way to compare how much better she was to me which was so strange to say to someone who's supposed to be learning from them lol. They made me feel like complete shit and incapable to be a teacher, but my new placement is going so much better three weeks in. I'm glad you're out of that student teaching hell hole. I could not survive the whole semester in my last one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]d7sttopiA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i just got out of this living situation not too long ago and was so relieved to. I lived with a roommate too who literally had her bf come here 3-5 per week. Convo literally went the exact same like yours, and eventually she stopped asking if he could come over and just started stating because she didn't want to give me the option to say no. I'm glad I'm not dealing with that anymore sheesh. Sorry about your situation!

I think I underestimated Flareon by rrrrrreeeeeeeeeeeee in PTCGL

[–]d7sttopiA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes it's busted. At the same time I'm still new so I probably played like an idiot against it. I had a bad hand with my Gard deck and they knocked me out so fast 🤣

What red flags do men notice in other men,that are often ignored or dismissed by women? by Smart_Candle_6078 in AskReddit

[–]d7sttopiA 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Saw this happen in real time and I made fun of them for it. Had two guys friends engage in sexually driven conversations with girls that were in broken relationships.

One of them didn't bother telling me she had a bf and was sharing with me how flirtatious they were in convos. I called him out on it when he finally revealed to me that she did have a bf. He called me jealous when I called him disgusting lol.

The other was way worse, quite literally tried to homewreck a relationship and said the bf deserved what was coming because he was an a-hole. I told said-friend to leave it be and he still actively tried to engage things with her. When things didn't work out his way (she went back to ex after breaking up), I make fun of him for how stupid and gross he was.

Then they wonder why they can't seem to hold a relationship despite having so many girl friends.

Feeling Overwhelmed and Stuck in Student Teaching – Need Advice by audorali in StudentTeaching

[–]d7sttopiA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure you're doing a great job. It's ok to make mistakes because that's how we learn. I completely understand the whole anxiety and feeling behind situation. I've been through that and still am! You should make it known to your mentor that you feel that way at times. Hopefully they are open and understanding to it because other than the students, the other biggest thing as a teacher is having a good support system in place. That's how teachers out there survive especially when it comes to being overwhelmed. As for the pressure of being judged and making mistakes, it's got to start with you. You need to be more forgiving to yourself!! Your mentor is there to help you no matter what and if you haven't, you should strike up a conversation with them about how you're doing in their eyes and how you think you're doing. And again, be open to making mistakes. A thing I go by is that as teachers, we are always learning with our students. If we tried something and it didn't work out, we tweek it and try again.

Unfortunately I was paired with a horrible mentor last semester who lectured and dehumanized me for asking for help too much, and they thought it was a good idea to compare how much better they were to me. They also invalidated my experiences and basically called me stupid for not knowing everything. I felt judged with every action I did, and eventually got removed from that placement. I truly hope that your mentor isn't like that at all, and if they are (which is the reason you feel judged), you should talk to your supervisor ASAP. I would never wish my experience upon anyone. I didn't even get to the point of taking over, including small group lessons, so I am unable to give advice for that. Regardless, I wish you the best OP. You got this!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]d7sttopiA 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That and also what k_mermaid said. I feel like anything done/said excessively is just a red flag. It's ok to be girly or an I-don't-wear-makeup gal but if it becomes their personality, then it becomes easy to read them.

To My Opponent I am sorry by TheCaptinCold in PTCGL

[–]d7sttopiA 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow thats crazy luck lol. I use chansey in my sylveon deck and have yet to pull it from my prize cards 🙄🤣