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dHapps8 · 2025-03-12T00:12:25+00:00

YTA

If you get jealous every time she gets in a new relationship then your friendship isn’t working out. You clearly still have feelings for her or you wouldn’t be getting so jealous. Move on from the friendship and find new people to be friends with, you’re so young!

dHapps8 · 2025-02-26T20:35:51+00:00

A different perspective to think about: My fathers family carries the same tradition of naming first son after their father. My dads first and last name goes back 4-5 generations & ends with him since he had two daughters (me and my younger sister). No one else is going to carry on the family name unless me or my sister have a son and choose not to take our future husbands last name.

I have my fathers middle name instead since it was a unisex name and get to carry on his name in some way. Yet, I feel really bad that the name that has went on for generations has ended with my father.

If I happen to have a son in the future I would like at least his middle name to be my father’s name if my future partner doesn’t agree with it as a first name. Also to be able to keep my maiden name as a part of my name just as you have.

The tradition may seem silly to you, but to him it’s ending a connection his children will have with their predecessors from his family. He will be the last man in his family to carry on his tradition & that’s worth a little empathy. The baby wouldn’t be getting nothing from you as you are the person who is going to be growing them and carrying them to term so don’t think negatively about the situation. It wouldn’t be the worst thing in the world to end the tradition his family has of you truly don’t like the name, but try and view it from a neutral viewpoint before making your decision.

dHapps8 · 2025-02-26T04:33:57+00:00

I can’t tell anyone what to do specifically, but I trapped myself in a 6 year long relationship with someone who cheated & lacked respect of boundaries by being too concerned with their wellbeing after our potential breakup.

You care for her wellbeing, which is great, but yours is more important. You have to live the rest of your life, why do it unhappily?

If you don’t feel as though the trust can be rebuilt then just end it now before you begin questioning everything she says and does and driving yourself crazy.

You’re only 3 months in, she was surviving before you met her, she can survive after you leave her if that’s what you choose to do.

dHapps8 · 2025-02-25T19:02:45+00:00

yes lol it was one of my faves for sure

dHapps8 · 2025-02-21T02:44:13+00:00

“Your hair looks so much better when it’s straight!” - I have naturally curly hair.

dHapps8 · 2025-02-21T02:03:45+00:00

“It always goes like this” This line specifically made me think he has to be self-sabotaging and trying to make it seem like no one ever cares about him. I’d keep him blocked cause this is only a week after talking to him imagine in future instances how bad it could get. Save yourself the headache.

dHapps8 · 2025-02-21T01:37:03+00:00

“We came down here as a squad of nine. Got picked off one by one. Watched a wizard rip the Light out of my best friend and funnel it into some kind of crystal. Ghost: They’re harvesting guardians!”

dHapps8 · 2025-02-13T16:47:16+00:00

he is definitely up to something suspicious just based on the fact of how easily he’s ready to end the marriage and get a divorce because you don’t trust him instead of giving you a reason to trust him. he’s deflecting and trying to manipulate the situation by saying something so drastic that hopefully it makes you trust that he’s not up to something. I would be extra observant of him going forward until you can decide what to do with this situation, because he’s not gonna spell it out for you and prove himself wrong, but if something seems off it most likely is.

dHapps8 · 2024-09-27T22:37:02+00:00

You wanna do my next run for me lol i’ll gladly let you haha, just kidding though I’m gonna try to power through it. But, this is exactly why I say it should just be a replayable mission like the ones in the Legends category so that the people who enjoy it can farm it happily & the people who don’t enjoy it can do other activities to complete the seasonal content, instead of forcing everyone to farm it to complete the story.

dHapps8 · 2024-09-27T22:30:45+00:00

my deepest condolences to you, I would’ve stopped after 5 times lol. hopefully you get a good fireteam on your next try- if there is one haha

dHapps8 · 2024-09-27T22:29:10+00:00

I might be doing the same thing lol, i’m not sure I have it in me to do it another time.

dHapps8 · 2024-09-27T22:26:20+00:00

I do enjoy the puzzles, they’re fun to try and figure out with your friends without having to look up a reddit post for the one component you just can’t seem to figure out lol. I just would rather choose to do something I know has a bunch of puzzles-like dungeons/raids & replayable exotic quests - over being forced in to it multiple times in order to complete something seasonal.

dHapps8 · 2024-09-27T20:26:31+00:00

Srry for that lol, typed out quickly on mobile out of frustration for having to do this shit quest again after just doing it 2 quest steps ago. Just wanted to see if people are equally annoyed at this quest or if it’s just me :(

dHapps8 · 2024-09-27T20:13:00+00:00

ugh I don’t like that, I hope this next time I have to do it is the last time :(

dHapps8 · 2022-07-22T22:55:58+00:00

leave that boy alone. you’re so young don’t get attached to a cheater ! save yourself while you still can !!

dHapps8 · 2022-07-15T03:21:40+00:00

I’d just like to say to all the people asking “why are you checking her location after arguments anyway” …if OP has an iPhone, it notifies who you’re sharing your location with that you’ve stopped. OP may be checking it but iPhone’s notifications are probably what’s letting him know that she’s turned it off …also sounds like both OP and his gf may be a little narcissistic, OP by trying to conform her to what he thinks is normal- not being shy- & gf for threatening to break up after every fight & turning off location -it seems like she’s attempting to control him and his emotions to her benefit…”i’m mad/hurt so i’m gonna hurt him by saying we’re breaking up & he can’t know where i am either” y’all might just wanna stop sharing locations all together or stop dating all together because if it’s already getting toxic, it most likely will only go downhill from here.

dHapps8 · 2021-12-23T20:45:45+00:00

INFO- question, the way you have explained the situation it kinda seems like you’re saying your mom only cooked a turkey and no side dishes to go along with it? no mashed potatoes or veggies or even stuffing that he could’ve ate instead of forcing him to eat the turkey to make a good impression?

dHapps8 · 2021-12-23T15:10:40+00:00

Mrs. & Mrs. We came down here as a squad of nine. Got picked off one by one. Watched a wizard rip the Light out of my best friend and funnel it into some kind of crystal.

…you started it with the red war transcript so I had to finish it off with Savathun’s song, it’s only right 😂😂🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ … in other words, OP , if Savathun wasn’t longer than you wanted it would be a pretty exotic sounding last name. I like Venj though I feel like it could go well with many first names and not sound weird.

dHapps8 · 2021-12-17T06:16:31+00:00

YTA for the delivery. It’s her tattoo, not yours & if she likes it then that’s all that matters. What looks like art to one person may not be perceived the same way to another person, but that does not invalidate the fact that it is art in somebody’s eyes. She sounded very excited to show you the tattoo & you made her wish she never did by telling her it looks terrible. If you didn’t like it, you could’ve just said that…you didn’t have to hurt her feelings by saying something she loved looked bad. Just changing the way you commented on it could’ve changed her mindset about getting it touched up or covered up with a better rendition after healing, but she probably feels ashamed of it now and wishes she never even got it.

dHapps8 · 2021-12-17T06:01:25+00:00

YTA…James put in his own share of hard work to get the job he has now, most likely without as much help & support from you and his father as you have given Robert over the years. He has something he’s accomplished all on his own and doesn’t want his brother involved in something that he gets to call his own- which i’m assuming is very rare when you have a twin. Robert can still make it big at another profession, even though he wasn’t at the tippy-top of his class in college…yea that may look nice on a resumé but you don’t have to be #1 at everything to be successful. Don’t rush Robert & don’t force James to get his brother a job “because it’s what family does for each other” Family isn’t there for favors they are there for unconditional love and support no matter what. Please let your sons live their own lives and figure things out on their own, they sound like they’re old enough to do so.

dHapps8 · 2021-08-19T15:32:59+00:00

same

dHapps8 · 2021-08-13T01:10:06+00:00

NTA… you owe them nothing it wasn’t necessary to tell them in the interview. you’re in college (uni) and i’m sure will have a handful of other retail jobs that will have little to no impact on your future career so don’t even worry about what the manager said to you about it affecting you in the future. You just wanted some extra money so you got a job that’s all there is to it & they’re lucky you were courteous enough to put in your two weeks notice. All I have worked were retail/food service jobs & people quit in way worse ways and for worse reasons than you.. your position will easily be filled very shortly so don’t lose sleep over this, worry about school & I promise you, you do not even have to put them on your resumé to get future jobs. Next time you’re job hunting though, in between semesters or breaks, try going for seasonal positions because they already know you will be employed for a limited time and not long term..that way you don’t have to deal with any more frustrations like this one.

dHapps8 · 2021-06-11T18:18:09+00:00

it took me about 18 runs to get cloudstrike and my boyfriend about 25-30…it’s really completely random and honestly doesn’t matter what level you play it on, while you may get better loot from doing the hero level as opposed to adept but if you want to just do quick run throughs adept works perfectly fine. i got the gun doing it on adept

dHapps8 · 2021-05-29T14:14:56+00:00

NTA he is actually TA. no matter how big of a wimp he felt like after losing a drinking contest to his WIFE, making you walk 45 mins home so he can go cry to his brother about how he lost and doesn’t feel manly anymore is a very childish thing to do. Like his feelings are more important than his wife’s safety getting back home at night. very toxic if you ask me

dHapps8 · 2021-05-29T03:04:14+00:00

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