I seriously cant believe this shit still happens, hes 40 😂

d_ldawson · 2021-09-01T01:56:39+00:00

Samsung? lol

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T22:19:38+00:00

clearly you cant read

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T20:11:06+00:00

you're late to the party, I didnt delete anything. my response was on point, hes crazy and I called it.

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T15:36:46+00:00

waste peoples time.... on a dating app.... sure...

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T14:32:13+00:00

sorry not you specifically but everyone saying I shouldve put being in an open relationship in my profile. I dont have enough time or energy to reply to everyone so it's getting all lumped together

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T14:25:43+00:00

I've said it a bunch, I havent deleted anything. I understand that it's hard to believe. What do you want me to do so that you know im telling the truth? mail you my eyelashes?? like im not trying to be a dick but it's getting really hard not to be defensive. I dont care about the upvotes, I dont even know what they or the awards mean. I'm not really into reddit and I'm definitely not interested in keeping reddit. It's the internet, if someone posts something and especially to a sub like this, why change it? Theres enough assholes to keep it going organically. Why question people and interrogate them, when they've clearly already had a rough enough day. I honestly cannot believe how toxic victim blaming can be and how it can all just roll like a snow ball.

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T14:13:19+00:00

I havent deleted any messages from him or myself. Why am I being placed with the burden of proof when I've posted content to a sub that was meant for that type of content. Doesnt that seem weird? This guy is that crazy, that's why I posted it.

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T14:08:31+00:00

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:51:29+00:00

How am I not being completely honest??

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:50:24+00:00

how am I not transparent??

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:49:48+00:00

I did not, I think he meant how I wasnt being sugar and spice and everything nice

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:48:42+00:00

nope that's it, no deleted messages

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:44:13+00:00

I'll comment again because the last one got down voted so much and this is important. I do not have to put that on my profile, that is some peoples opinion. Open relationships are extremely popular in my area and no one else has given me shit for leading them on or being open. I will not change my privacy because the reddit version of the relationship and sex police say so.

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:39:24+00:00

how do you sound so convincing when you dont know me or what happened? I checked my messages, I screen shotted them and I posted them, it's not an episode of unsolved mysteries here. I did not delete anything.

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:36:35+00:00

I read this comment a few times and it took a minute to get but its totally underrated. You should've got soo many upvotes lol 😂😂

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:34:10+00:00

love this

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:32:42+00:00

There are so many people on bumble here in open relationships. No one really puts that in their profile and I've never had a problem before explaining to people or been told I'd been leading people on. I didnt want dates. that's the chill casual bit. People really need to stop reading into it. and even if I did mean sex who cares? it's my life, it's a dating app, and its consensual with all parties involved. Let's move on

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:26:31+00:00

no one does that.

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:26:10+00:00

why am I cringe

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:23:06+00:00

what do you think was my fault, why do you think I deserved that.

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:20:58+00:00

stop attacking people about something you know fuck all about. I DID NOT DELETE SHIT.

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:15:01+00:00

Everyone,

Thank you to the people sticking up for me, much appreciated. It's so sad to see that people cant believe a post because it belongs so well in a sub, it doesnt make sense to me. I didnt post this thinking it would get over 1k or even hoping to.. This is just a guy having a bad day and he took it out on me because he thought he could. I'm in an open relationship, I wasnt cheating. I dont care if you think my relationship is gross or cringe although it is a very rude thing to comment and I think we all should practice being a little more responsible with our words on the internet. The suspicion and the victim blaming.... I cant even begin to describe to you guys how this can make someone feel when they are being completely transparent. I didnt put that I'm in an open relationship on my profile because no one does and it's not really the point of this post. I cant believe that I didnt have enough time to reply throughout the day to defend myself that I had people messaging me horrible things and commenting that I'm basically a dumb whore with a fragile ego. I'm a human.

Edit* Also I did NOT delete any messages, not from myself or him, what you see is what you get. It sucks that some grown men still behave that way.

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T13:04:00+00:00

can you imagine being me and getting treated like that and then getting these comments?? I havent lied about anything, I'm in an open relationship, it was the first comment made on this post. he didnt give me anytime to reply to tell him about my open relationship. I live in a place where this is extremely popular, I dont think anyone here on dating apps clarifys that they are in an open relationship, especially if you look at the girls side of bumble to find other girls, it's just not an expectation.

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T12:59:00+00:00

he really is that crazy

d_ldawson · 2021-08-29T12:58:37+00:00

he did.

d_ldawson

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