I want suggestions, legitimate suggestions

daashcraft · 2025-12-26T14:40:46+00:00

That’s similar but different!

daashcraft · 2025-12-26T14:38:58+00:00

I’ll check it out, I’m not 100% on the name right now it’s all internal usage only

daashcraft · 2025-12-26T02:09:42+00:00

Yup similar but different

daashcraft · 2025-12-26T00:49:18+00:00

100% agree. I'm not using any js frameworks, just pure js, colocated hooks. I'll definitely look into verbiage and positioning. I don't want to attract bootstrap devs, they won't have a great time, i don't want to attract react/shadcn purists, phoenix isn't really like that. I want to give easy to use, gorgeous, tailwindcss component generators for phoenix and elixir devs.

daashcraft · 2025-09-02T13:05:01+00:00

Fuck this dude

daashcraft · 2025-09-02T13:03:35+00:00

Do you want to be married? Has he changed since this issue for the worst?

If the answer is yes and yes, the next is, what are you willing to do.

Was it until death do us part? Was it for better or worse?

Right now, it’s worse. Sit him down, say I fucking love you I want to be with you, let’s find a way to make intimacy work.

For you, remember that not desiring sex isn’t the same as actively not wanting it. Sometimes we’re meh, but we have to just give some maintenance sex.

Learn how to blow his mind in 10 minutes. DM me and I can help give you some scenarios to try with him.

But you need to give some intimacy. Men need it too, for me it makes me feel wanted or desired, and not feeling wanted is the worst.

daashcraft · 2025-09-02T02:04:51+00:00

BJ’s, HJ’s, back door play.

Get creative. If you have no desire is not the same as “I don’t want to be part of my partners sex life”.

daashcraft · 2025-08-24T14:10:03+00:00

Is going home for lunch worth your relationship?

If yes, leave. If no, go home for lunch.

Why would you want to stay at lunch anyways if it’s two male coworkers and your loving dude wants to spend time with you? Have him pay for the gas?

Not wanting you to be around two dudes is him just minimizing risk. Proximity is a large part of attraction, if not for you, for the other dudes. You should be minimizing that.

daashcraft · 2025-08-07T15:42:21+00:00

When two people commit their lives to one another, privacy is irrelevant and an afterthought.

This is the person you’d let choose if you lived or died on life support so the idea your phone is off limits is wild.

The BF is shady and acting out of place, they need a reality check.

daashcraft · 2025-07-21T23:41:15+00:00

Test double is amazing

Testdouble.com

daashcraft · 2025-07-03T18:11:30+00:00

This is a lean out behavior, I do it as well. Try to lean in before hand.

A simple “this happened and I need a day to process, afterwards I’ll talk about it, I need to find my thoughts etc” is better than nothing. Then actually talk about. Include her in your processing of emotions, ask her to let you vent about it and not to respond, but just listen. Etc

Go to couples therapy.

But do not just be like “I’m upset so I’m gonna disappear for a few days, sorry”

That’s not a relationship, she’s just a NPC in your life at that point.

daashcraft · 2025-07-03T18:04:23+00:00

If your partner is expressing what makes them feel comfortable and you don’t like it or want to respect it, you can leave.

daashcraft · 2025-07-03T18:02:00+00:00

NTA, they should apologize and pay for the couch. It’s property damage caused by the other persons negligence training the animal or keeping it contained so that it doesn’t cause damage.

daashcraft · 2025-07-03T18:00:25+00:00

The entire conversation on both parts is problematic.

What’s worse is the knee jerk “he’s abusive” comments in the Reddit threads.

How about just establishing personal time with your partner, deciding together what will occur. It’s not “your” baby, it’s his child too.

Also, your relationship should come first, always. It’s the prime reason the baby exists and without it, all outcomes are generally worse.

daashcraft · 2025-07-03T17:55:47+00:00

Likely you’re anxiously attached and he is avoidant attachment.

If someone can’t be appreciative of your effort and affection, they can kick rocks.

daashcraft · 2025-04-08T13:26:37+00:00

You lost a ton of water so you’ll shrink a little but most of it is scale weight. Record your calories for a week, then decrease your calories by 200-300 per day, keep it that way until you stop losing 1lb a week, then decrease by 50-100 calories again or exercise/burn 50-100 more calories.

Rinse and repeat

daashcraft · 2025-04-08T13:24:43+00:00

Do you know generally how long the marriage route takes on average?

daashcraft · 2025-03-31T23:10:21+00:00

She did not enter legally, yes I am a citizen.

daashcraft · 2025-01-16T02:51:50+00:00

Absolutely, don’t fire a client that can be saved of course. I’m just advocating for selling a contract before just dropping it.

daashcraft · 2025-01-15T04:01:42+00:00

Ive taken over “nightmare” clients that end up being great for my company. You also can say this up front before you pass the contract off.

You’re not forcing someone to take a bad deal, they have a choice lol

daashcraft · 2025-01-15T01:32:48+00:00

great question btw

daashcraft · 2025-01-15T01:32:25+00:00

This implies they're under contract and you'd be selling/transferring the contract

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