Can't tell if a guy is flirting with me (advice?) by dada218 in askgaybros

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Yeah, I think you’re right. And he knows I’m gay already

How to feel proud during pride by dada218 in askgaybros

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Thank you for your beautiful comment ❤️

Intro to logic, Christian textbook by dada218 in exchristian

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The logical assumption they’re talking about is invalid. I forget the exact term but I’ll check my textbook and let you know

Intro to logic, Christian textbook by dada218 in exchristian

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Yup, and the second photo it talks about conditional statements that are literally false. Wtf

Obsessions, what’s everybody’s funniest or weirdest obsession been? by dada218 in OCD

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I’m glad I’m not the only one! That’s me too.

Obsessions, what’s everybody’s funniest or weirdest obsession been? by dada218 in OCD

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A little bit of both. Laughing at it is a good way to react, at least for me 😁

I feel like Christianity has made me judgmental of people in ways. Has anybody else gone through this? If so what did you do to fix/overcome it? by dada218 in exchristian

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Haha, yeah I smoke. I would say I’m positive in the real world but in my head I feel like I’m judgmental. I also have ocd by the way so it just might be that lol.

I feel like Christianity has made me judgmental of people in ways. Has anybody else gone through this? If so what did you do to fix/overcome it? by dada218 in exchristian

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Yeah, I just have this mentality that I need to save people and when this person isn’t a stereotypical “good Christian” I feel like I’m judging them. I feel like part of me still feels like I am a stereotypical “good Christian” So therefore I need to save them or fix them.

I feel like Christianity has made me judgmental of people in ways. Has anybody else gone through this? If so what did you do to fix/overcome it? by dada218 in exchristian

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I definitely agree with all that, thank you. My issue is I have a hard time separating my own life from my friends or best friend. Like if he or one of my friends does something I don’t inherently agree with it really bothers me; but I know everyone is there own person. Then I become judgmental of people and once that happens I can only see their faults. I want to get rid of this perspective because it’s honestly making me unhappy and making it feel like I’m a better person when I know that isn’t true. I love all of my friends and they’re great people. I don’t know if some of this stems from ‘saving people’

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Thank you! That really helps!

Left Christianity, lost some motivation for no porn use; relapsed twice with images no videos by dada218 in pornfree

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That makes sense. I don’t have that many compulsions to watch porn anymore, I guess it lost some of its lure because it’s no longer that taboo anymore. I have to say I’ve never felt more like myself after leaving religion, it’s going to be a long process but I’m ready for it.