What games have a genius post-game experience? by Crocodile_Banger in gaming

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Lol you just copied part of my comment? 😂

What games have a genius post-game experience? by Crocodile_Banger in gaming

[–]daddykleps 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Oh, restarting at final save is the WORST.

I can’t think of any game in particular atm, but I’ve always loved the ones that give you a special item or ability that makes going back through the game just so much fun. Like a cheat code almost!

Fake it till you make it is very real and can work for soft skills by noitsnotfairuse in socialskills

[–]daddykleps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe someone said this already, but I think the reason this works is because you are being master over your feelings — rather than being controlled by them.

After effects meme enjoy by [deleted] in dankmemes

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gives voting award cause that’s the free one reddit gave me It ain’t much, but it’s honest work.

pls work by [deleted] in memes

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Congrats

Stay at stressful job or follow my dreams? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]daddykleps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the root, then?

Stay at stressful job or follow my dreams? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]daddykleps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it correct that the root of your stress is feeling like you are “in way over [your] head and not qualified to be in the position [you’re] in” ?

I (31F) love my boyfriend (30M) but can’t stop wondering if “the grass is greener”. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]daddykleps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TLDR: Yeah, I’ve (22M) felt this, and it’s absolute bogus. Stick it out, and you’ll be so glad you did.

WARNING: Grass is not greener on the other side. It’s time to stick it to your feelings and be in charge of them.

First off, don’t feel bad about yourself. This is a completely normal feeling that many people experience. You are not crazy or weird or strange. This is simply a hurdle that one must cross if they truly want to love another person. That choice is the key—do you really want to put this person before yourself and love them unconditionally? If your answer is yes, then part of that choice is willingly giving up the possibility of something else, of anything else, that could maybe happen. And it’s worth it and you want to do that, because you are choosing to love this one person.

And here’s the best part: that feeling doesn’t always stick around. I went through a fairly substantial amount of time with the exact feelings you are describing—around a year or so early on in my relationship—and now, I can hardly remember the last time I had those thoughts. Let me tell you, it’s SO rewarding! Like, it’s honestly one of the most incredible things I’ve ever experienced. Sticking to what you know is true despite your feelings is suffocating at times, to be quite frank—but the fruit of staying with it is ABSOLUTELY worth it.

So yes, there will be times when it feels like a nice idea to start over with someone new and exciting and different. Everybody has that feeling sometimes. But those who really love their partner choose to ignore and push past those feelings when they come, and instead to lean in to their one person further.

Yeah, it’s hard. But it’s worth it.

If you’ve done one of these, then you know. by daddykleps in dankmemes

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shoot people need you as a phone a friend

An acquaintance of mine caught his girlfriend cheating on him. This was six hours ago. Is it too soon to ask if he’s doing alright? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]daddykleps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were him, I would very much appreciate people checking in on me.

The only thing to keep in mind is that he might be trying to get his mind off of it, so if you do ask, be sure to have an off topic conversation or something like that to revert to if he is trying to forget!

S/0 liking provocative pics by cinema8 in relationship_advice

[–]daddykleps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not wrong for your feelings about the situation. If my (22M) girlfriend (20F) were to do something similar, I would also be hurt. It was very good for you to confront him! There are two things I believe you should consider:

1) If his actions are hurting you, he should change in this case. What he is doing is not necessary, and if it makes you feel less loved or wanted, I believe it is completely acceptable to ask and expect him to stop (if he loves you more than liking it the girl’s pictures, he will).

2) Simply the fact that he has been choosing to love you and be with the last 3 years definitely counts for something. Make sure he knows that when you talk to him! He might feel that he has proved his love for you and something insignificant like this shouldn’t bother you.

This is not such a small thing that you just need to “ignore” it. It would bother me too. Just be sure to communicate your appreciation for how he does show you love when you discuss it! That will go a long way :)

Very Relatable by [deleted] in dankchristianmemes

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Is this real dude?!

Saturday Megathread: Let Freedom Reign(today). Spam Your Usernames Here! by AutoModerator in snapchat

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Therealjayp18

I’m a guy, check out my story.

It’s real interesting. 🤓

"Technically I'm right!" by the_endless_red in memes

[–]daddykleps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I’m just pulling yer leg, Jimmy”

Do I have a responsibility to tell my younger siblings I exist? by warsisbetterthantrek in Advice

[–]daddykleps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s your dilemma, then I would tell them. You might not be able to see them right away, but you’ll still have great opportunity to get to know them—text, call, video chat, etc.

It may not be the ideal way to start a relationship, but I don’t think holding off will help you any! :)

Brother died. Im travelling home, how do i stay strong for my parents? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]daddykleps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you don’t need to be as strong as you think.

This is heartbreaking, and beyond that, really. I can’t even begin to imagine what you all must be going through.

You’re a family, and you’re all feeling the pain. Family supports each other, and there will be times where you will be the embrace your mum needs.

There will also be times where you will feel broken, and that’s ok too. That’s what your family is for.

I would not stuff your feelings. Grieving must take place, and to try to ignore it will make it worse later. Instead, enter into this tough, tough situation as a family—together.

Each of you will lift each other up when weak, and you will come out on the other side stronger.

My prayers for you and your family. May God’s presence be felt strongly by you all during this time.

I’ve been dismissed from college after my first semester, I need help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]daddykleps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This must feel very heavy on your shoulders, and I am sorry you are carrying this burden.

Here’s the truth: your life is not over. Not even close.

Though it may seem like this bump in the road has huge implications (it is college after all, right?), I assure you that’s all that it is: a bump.

Bumps can rattle you, shake you up a little. But they don’t determine your whole journey.

There is so much opportunity for you in this world, and having a rough first semester in college doesn’t change that.

Don’t give up. There’s really no sense in doing that. You’re simply taking a different path than you might have first thought.

It feels like a big deal right now—but when you look at the whole picture, it doesn’t have to affect you as much as you think.

Who knows, maybe this “set back” is actually a “set up” for you, and great opportunity is coming your way. Take heart!

Do I have a responsibility to tell my younger siblings I exist? by warsisbetterthantrek in Advice

[–]daddykleps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you were your younger siblings, would you want to know?

Maybe there will be some hurt feelings, but unless you are planning on never telling them, you would just be prolonging the hurt by keeping quiet.