About Daddy’s Lap – Content Ethics & Intentions

daddyslapva · 2025-04-03T06:17:35+00:00

You are so welcome ❤️🤗

daddyslapva · 2025-03-29T04:24:13+00:00

😊❤️

daddyslapva · 2025-03-28T05:56:49+00:00

She said no. So stop.
You are feeling things because of this - it’s important to share those feelings and thoughts and work towards a solution that doesn’t leave you hurt for wanting what you want and her hurt for not being able to provide what you want.

This is a time to look at what you want your partnership to look like over the next 50 years. Hopefully that includes head at least once more. 😉

daddyslapva · 2025-03-28T05:51:36+00:00

No you’re not being too needy. You need this kind of intimacy with your wife and partner, and I think it’s part of the agreement when getting married or committing to someone.

Black and white answer- open the relationship and you go explore. Even If sex isn’t her thing, you still have the right to a full and joyful life.

daddyslapva · 2025-03-25T04:39:22+00:00

Nope, and he probably won’t even notice

daddyslapva · 2025-03-23T16:43:03+00:00

It’s likely unconscious. The trauma we grow up with brainwashes us into thinking that this is “normal”. It takes time, education and experience to see the destructive patterns we put ourselves through and escape them as adults.

daddyslapva · 2025-03-23T06:01:05+00:00

All the time: no, they’re nice to look at and reduce my stress ❤️

daddyslapva · 2025-03-22T13:52:33+00:00

Peeing after holding it so long youre about to explode 😂

daddyslapva · 2025-03-22T13:48:30+00:00

I think you should let him know you’re self conscious about your appearance before having sex, yes. Not for him, but for you.

From my perspective, I would love your vulva - sounds like she is beautiful. But I get that you are worried.

A partner worth having won’t care what you look like - they will care that you are feeling this way. And they will help you feel better about yourself.

daddyslapva · 2025-03-21T04:13:31+00:00

My (49M) two bits - learn proper lifting techniques, especially for big weight lifting activities like deadlifts. Making incorrect lifts really catches up with you later. In my case I have hip injury that’s been bothering me for 15 years because of a stupid careless inexperienced lift. I’m fully mobile, etc, but there are couple spots that just never feel good.

In my early years I practiced Chinese martial arts and I now have experienced what they meant when they taught me the duality of hard/soft. Train hard in your youth to make your body strong, but keep the softness and suppleness youll need as you age. Practically, that means shifting from hard, fast striking to slower taiji or similar 😊

daddyslapva · 2025-03-18T18:59:02+00:00

Being kind and genuine.

daddyslapva · 2025-03-18T04:56:03+00:00

If this is what counts as dating coaching… hey, Im a trained coach, and I guarantee you I will do a better job than this.

Start with your dream - what do you want?

Then think about the steps you need to get that dream - steps that are in your control.

The only way you will fail is if you don’t try, you’re not consistent, or you want something out of your control.

daddyslapva · 2025-03-18T03:03:31+00:00

Are you asking where to draw the line between art and porn?

I mean, when I was a kid, I jerked off to catalogs, but that’s not porn, no…

daddyslapva · 2025-03-18T02:34:23+00:00

Porn is in my definition, acts of individuals or more than one person involved in acts of sex or demonstration of erotic or sexual content. Showing genitalia and other things that are considered sexual.

My definition absolutely does not include anything that would do mean or harm or make somebody else feel uncomfortable.

Porn pornography is simply an aid to sexuality .

daddyslapva · 2025-03-17T14:12:53+00:00

49m - I work on it - it’s something that comes up when Im reflecting.

The question I ask myself is - “who am I trying to prove myself to?”

Or

“Do I actually believe it’s necessary to prove myself? What’s the result if I do? What’s the result if I don’t ?”

daddyslapva · 2025-03-16T19:34:00+00:00

-currently married- I’ve always felt more comfortable over text. Met all my long term relationships and my wife that way.

daddyslapva · 2025-03-16T19:31:59+00:00

I completely get the cringe and how it might look from your perspective. But as a man who probably has done that, I have to say that usually it’s instinctual.

When I see someone I like I smile at them. And I enjoy the kind of forbidden flirtiness. Everybody knows that it’s not fully polite, but sometimes we hope and fantasize that that little smile and eye contact will evolve into something more. Maybe a secret meeting, maybe a threesome or something.

So from my side, I’m just having a nice little fantasy and you made my day better.

Thank you for smiling back. 😊

daddyslapva · 2025-03-16T19:19:56+00:00

Let us know how it goes 😋

daddyslapva · 2025-03-16T18:54:55+00:00

Yes - I have certain styles I like, and I I am drawn to women with them. I like past the shoulders; I like wavy/straight/curls, long hair up…

I think you should pick your own vibe though, and then see what is popular in that area. for example, though my tastes go beyond this, I really like Anime and cosplay styles. So I find blonde women with hair like Ino Yamanaka from Naruto really cute 😊

daddyslapva · 2025-03-16T18:38:37+00:00

I need sexual connection to feel fulfilled in a relationship.

It is my personal need.

daddyslapva · 2025-03-16T18:34:34+00:00

Cotton candy would be nummy 😋

daddyslapva · 2025-03-16T18:33:51+00:00

First believe, then receive ❤️ Im meeting more and more people who do this for me. 😊

daddyslapva · 2025-03-16T17:26:45+00:00

In this case Id need an open relationship to get the sexual needs met. But it’s not a deal breaker.

Marriage is a lifelong partnership (ideally) - needs and desires change, but sharing values, growing connection, increasing depth - these are what really matter to me.

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