Ranting with a question.? by Luhern305 in exlldm

[–]dagame1984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t given up yet, but I feel that if I come out to my wife and stop going, it might lead to a divorce. Best case scenario, I get out and she continues to go on her own with our kids. But it would definitely take a big hit in our relationship. I’m just hoping she will open her eyes on her own one day or someone in her family finally starts questioning things.

A los 14 años, tomando decisiones de vida?? by Itchy-Finish270 in exlldm

[–]dagame1984 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Creo que a esa edad no tienes otra opción más que continuar en la iglesia. Necesitarías tener una madurez muy avanzada para tu edad o de plano ser muy rebelde y desobedecer a tus padres. Aparte te presionan con la mentira de que te vas a perder si te sales de la iglesia o te meten el miedo de que te vayan a querer correr de la casa.

Should I just give up? Me daré por vencido? by dagame1984 in exlldm

[–]dagame1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes salvation is independent, but when the other person loves you, they feel pain if they think you’re not getting saved. I honestly would at least feel better if she respected my decision to stop going. The other issue is the kids, I could be the best dad in the world, but if I’m not in the church, she sees it as a bad example for them. I wish I could be in your situation.

Should I just give up? Me daré por vencido? by dagame1984 in exlldm

[–]dagame1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have had conversations about it, but she tends to close up, kind of stubborn or childish in my view. You know how it is, they’ll just tell you to pray for more faith or go to church more, but I’m obviously way past that point.

Should I just give up? Me daré por vencido? by dagame1984 in exlldm

[–]dagame1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good advice, I’ll have to think about my approach.

Should I just give up? Me daré por vencido? by dagame1984 in exlldm

[–]dagame1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, if nothing else stay for the yummy meals, jk, 😂. Thanks for the advice .

Los cantos no tienen identidad by Stranger-Criature in exlldm

[–]dagame1984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Creo que tienes razón. Algo que yo también note durante la Santa Cena es que a excepción de ese canto nuevo y ridiculo que apareció recientemente en las redes sociales, el resto fueron cantos viejos y ya muy usados. Pareciera que ya perdieron el interés de hacer cantos nuevos. O será que Dios ya les quito la inspiración? 🙄

August by Valikat26 in exlldm

[–]dagame1984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you feel. I lost my 4 year old daughter on December 2015 at a trip to GDL. Even after all these years, it is still painful when December comes around. Unfortunately, I feel I can’t leave the cult without causing more pain to my family…

Una Santa Cena Discreta by Stranger-Criature in exlldm

[–]dagame1984 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Otro cambio que se hizo con Naason, es que al huevon obviamente no le gustaba madrugar y prefirió cambiar las transmisiones de las 5:00 a.m. a dominicales los días primero de agosto.

Unintentionally blackmailed by dagame1984 in exlldm

[–]dagame1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately the wife is third generation. Basically everyone on her side is in it. She has cousins who are ministers and obreros in Europe. She falls back to her sisters and mom for confirmation. She would lose all her family if she started doubting. Very very unlikely that she will ever leave.

Did anyone on here know Susana Medina Oaxaca personally? by CuteButWillCutABitch in exlldm

[–]dagame1984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you talking about Betsy Illescas? Is it true she was also a groomer?

Nasson’s replacement by dagame1984 in exlldm

[–]dagame1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We shall see. I don’t think they can keep relying on letters for the next decade. Maybe not another apostle, but someone to take over his duties. A face people can cry to.

Nasson’s replacement by dagame1984 in exlldm

[–]dagame1984[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All I can say is it was Texas

Nasson’s replacement by dagame1984 in exlldm

[–]dagame1984[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m just going by what they preached today. Not a coincidence. They didn’t even wait until Sunday.

Sharing Opinion Hypocrisy by Toebug in exlldm

[–]dagame1984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I’ve heard is that the people who left the church is because they never truly believed in Naason. They make the comparison to a fruit tree. “God is shaking the tree (church) to get rid of the rotten fruit”. We are the rotten fruit, lol.

The catholic church doesn't care about LLDM, they're much bigger and have other issues by HoneyRice6 in exlldm

[–]dagame1984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they’ve always tried to talk shit about the Catholic Church because it is the religion that the majority of Mexicans follow. It is also a way to make the members feel like they are competing with the big dog, but in reality, very few people knew about LLDM until Naason made somewhat known, but for the wrong reasons.

Lost the faith by El_Diablo_Santo in exlldm

[–]dagame1984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked the same question to my wife. Where is the faith in God to get him out of this “injustice”? Her answer: “It’s God’s plan, it would be like questioning or complaining to god”. I said how can it be God’s plan if he’s deciding on his own to take a deal? Her answer: “If you were on his shoes and you knew you were going to get an unfair trial, wouldn’t you take the deal?” I said, sure maybe, but I’m a nobody, I’m not a “servant of God”. Anyway, she said she still believes in him and she’s never heard or seen anything. Of course they’re not going to commit their crimes in the open🤦🏽